Gittin 6a โ Iyun
Why a Get from Bavel Needs Extra Care
Part of Gittin (Iyun) · 31:53
A Gittin sugya comparing the reliability of a get from Bavel versus other lands, working through stories about specific cities and the concept of hispashtus affecting the halacha.
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First the ืืืจื said that if you bring a ืื from ืืื, you don't have to say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืืืคื ื ื ืืชื. If you bring a ืื, because the whole ืืืจื here is talking about ืืืืื ืื ืืืืื ืช ืืื, if you bring a ืื from ืืืฅ ืืืจืฅ to ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, you have to say. And the ืืืจื gave a reason, two reasons: one reason is because they don't know ืืฉืื in ืืื in ืืืฅ ืืืจืฅ, so if you bring the ืื, maybe it wasn't written ืืฉืื. Another thing is because later on, if you might need ืขืืื, you won't find ืขืืื to be ืืงืื. But in ืืื, ืืื was a place where had a lot of ืืฉืืืืช, so first of all, they were ืชืืืืื ืืืืื, they knew the ืืืืืช, so there's no question. Besides that, the ืืืจื says that in ืืื, since there were ืืฉืืืืช, they would travel back and forth. The only reason why we say from ืืืฅ ืืืจืฅ you won't find ืขืืื to be ืืงืื, because there's no communication, so people in one place in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื don't recognize the signatures of the people in ืืืฅ ืืืจืฅ. But ืืื, within ืืื, people do because people travel a lot. That's what the ืืืจื says first. Then the
ืืืจื said that there were two cities, one city is called ืืจืืฉืืจ, and one is called ืืงืืืกืคืื. If you bring the ืื from ืืจืืฉืืจ to ืืงืื ืืงืืืกืคืืโWe'll see in a second. The ืืืจื said if you bring from ืืจืืฉืืจ to ืืงืืืกืคืื, you don't have to say. If you bring from ืืงืืืกืคืื to ืืจืืฉืืจ, you do have to say. The ืชืืกืคืืช explains that ืืจืืฉืืจ is ืืื, and ืืงืืืกืคืื is not ืืื, it's outside. So ืชืืกืคืืช says, ืืงืืืกืคืื... So if you bring from ืืจืืฉืืจ to ืืงืืืกืคืื, since you're bringing from ืืื, so they're ืืงื and and they soon ืืงืืื it. If you're bringing the other way, and the ืืืจื asks, why not? But if they come, anyway, the ืืืจื explains that they they come to the marketplace and not they they don't have time to look at the signatures. But that's the ืคืจืืื are not ื ืืืข, the details are not ื ืืืข here. That's what the ืืืจื says. And ืชืืกืคืืช explained ืืจืืฉืืจ is ืืื, this is not, so if you bring from ืืจืืฉืืจ to ืืงืืืกืคืื you don't, from ืืงืืืกืคืื to ืืจืืฉืืจ you do. And ืชืืกืคืืช said that even though ืืงืืืกืคืื is right next to ืืจืืฉืืจ, ืืจืืฉืืจ seems to be the by the border of ืืื, ืืงืืืกืคืื is on the outside of the border, and there was nothing in between but a river, but still, this is ืืื, and this is not. So if you bring from outside ืืื into ืืื, you have to say. This is all ืืงืืื. Then the
ืืืจื tells a story. ืจื ืื ื said a story, that ืจื ืืื ื brought a ืื. He says, I don't know if it came from ืกืืจื to ื ืืจืืขื, in other words the ืื was written in ืกืืจื, he brought it to ื ืืจืืขื, or from ื ืืจืืขื to ืกืืจื. But there's no difference because both of them are ืืื. And he came to ืจื, and he said to ืจื, ืฆืจืืื ื ืืืืืจ ืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืืืคื ื ื ืืชื, ืื ืื ืฆืจืืื ื? Do I have to say, or don't I have to say? ืืืจ ืืื, so he said to him, ืื ืฆืจืืืช, you don't have to, it is ืืื. But ืืื ืขืืืช, ืืื ืช. But if you'll say, it'll work. So the ืืืจื, what do you mean it'll work? ืืื ืืชื ืืขื ืืขืจืขืจ, ืื ืืฉืืืื ื ืืื. This needs a little background. In ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, you don't have to say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืืืคื ื ื ืืชื if you bring from ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. But if the husband would later on come and say, be ืืขืจืขืจ, that the that the ืื is forged, she will have to find ืขืืื to be to to prove it that the ืื is good. Only thing is, we're not afraid, she'll be able to find. If it's in ืืืฅ ืืืจืฅ, she won't find. So the ืคืืขื is like this: in in ืืืฅ ืืืจืฅ, when you bring a ืื from ืืืฅ ืืืจืฅ, you must say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืืืคื ื ื ืืชื. If you don't say it, you can't use the ืื. If you bring from ืืื, you don't have to say, like from ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. But if the ืฉืืื happens to say it, it works, it helps. What does it help? That if later the ืืขื, the husband will come and be ืืขืจืขืจ, you won't have to find ืขืืื, his the ืืฉืื is ืื ืืชื ืืขื ืืขืจืขืจ, ืื ืืฉืืืื ื ืืื, we won't look at him. And the ืืืจื says, I'll prove to you that this is the case, ืื ืืชื ืื.
Brings a ืืจืืืชื, ืืขืฉื ืืืื ืืื, a story with a man, ืฉืืืื ืื ืืคื ื ืจืื ืืฉืืขืื, he brought a ืื to ืจืื ืืฉืืขืื. ืืืจ ืืื, he said to him, ืฆืจืื ืื ื ืืืืจ ืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืื ืืื ื ืฆืจืื? He brought a ืื, and he asked, do I have to say? ืืืจ ืืื, so he said, ืื ื, ืืืื ืืชื? Where are you from? So he said to him, he's from ืืคืจ ืกืกืื. ืืคืจ ืกืกืื was a city outside the borders of ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, but it was ืืืืืขืช. ืืืืืขืช means that it was swallowed in, because the border of ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื was like this. And if this area in the middle over there, which is outside of ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, but that's considered ืกืืื. If you made a square around it. Yeah, make a square be around it. So he said, in that case, he said, ืืืจ ืืื, ืฆืจืื ืืชื ืืืืจ, you should say, you should say, ืฉืื ืชืืงืง ืืขืืื, so you don't need ืขืืื. So the same thing, this was basically from a place where you don't have to say, since it was ืืืืืขืช, it was in, that's, so the ืืื is according to most ืชื ืืื, you don't have to say like ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, since it was ืืืืืขืช ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. So he said to him, you should say in order to avoid later that you shouldn't need ืขืืื. So the same thing like the case before, that he said to him, you don't have to say, but if you say, then the husband will come, but nothing will happen. How's that ืงืืื? That's ืงืืื is, regular ืงืืื is that. And this is when you bring it, you're ืืืชืืืื knowing it. So we
have two stories here in the ืืืจื. Question is, if you look at the wording of the stories, which seem to be the same, they're different wording. When he asked him in the first case, from an ืขืืจ ืืืื ืกืืจืื, he said, do I have to say or not? You know what he answered him? You don't. But if you'll say, if the husband will come, nothing will happen. The case of ืจืื ืืฉืืขืื, what happened? When he asked, do I have to say or not, he said, yeah, in order not to not to have not to need ืขืืื later. This the thing is the same. In both cases, the ืืื is that ืืขืืงืจื ืืืื ื you don't have to say. If you say, you'll avoid ืขืืื, even if there be a problem, you won't have you won't need to look for ืขืืื. So why in the first case did he say to him no, but if you do it will help, the second one he said yes, in order to in order to help? That's one thing. Another thing, the first case he said what will it help? If the husband will come, ืื ืืฉืืืื ื ืืื, we don't look at him. Won't mean anything if the husband will be ืืขืจืขืจ. The second one, he didn't say that. He just says, so you won't need if the husband will come, so you won't need ืขืืื. The first one, he didn't mention anything about ืขืืื. First thing he mentioned only that you won't listen to the husband, which means, in other words, if you would listen to the husband, that you would have to find ืขืืื. We won't listen to the husband, so you won't need ืขืืื. But the way he expressed himself in the first one, he said if the husband will ืืขืจืขืจ, ืื ืืฉืืืื ื ืืื, you don't look at him. And the second one, he says so you don't need ืขืืื. So we have two differences. One, here he said yes, and here he said no. First one he said no, and the later one said yes. Even though the ืืื is the and they meant the same thing. And the first one he said so if the husband comes, it's nothing. And the second one he says so you don't need ืขืืื. Also, the first case, when it says if the husband will come and ืืขืจืขืจ, ืื ืืฉืืืื ื ืืื, so ืจืฉ\"ื says, ืืื ืื ืื ืืืจืช, but if you will not say, ืืืชื ืืขื ืืืขืจืขืจ, the husband will come and ืืขืจืขืจ, if I'd write ืจืฉ\"ื, I would write here the same way it says later. I would write that if you do not say and the husband will ืืขืจืขืจ, you will need ืขืืื. So ืจืฉ\"ื says, but if you will not say, ืืืชื ืืขื ืืืขืจืขืจ, ืืืคืกื, the ืื will be ืคืกืื. In the second case also the ืื will be ืคืกืื, but if you bring ืขืืื, it's not. Till you get ืขืืื, the ืื is ืคืกืื. The moment the husband comes, if you don't say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืืืคื ื ื ืืชื, and the husband comes and ืืขืจืขืจ, right away the ืื is ืคืกืื. The ืื is no good. If you bring in your ืขืืื and you're ืืงืืื, the ืื is good. So what ืจืฉ\"ื doesn't say that if you don't say and the husband will ืืขืจืขืจ, ืชืืงืง ืืขืืื, you'll need ืขืืื. He says it will be ืคืกืื. And the second case, what the ืืืจื says, doesn't say the ืื will be ืคืกืื, even though the ืืื is the same. In the second case also, you brought it from ืืคืจ ืกืกืื, you didn't have to say, and everything is fine. If the husband is ืืขืจืขืจ, you got a problem with the ืื, the ืื is ืคืกืื. You'll need you'll bring ืขืืื and it'll be okay. But there it doesn't say ืคืกืื, it says ืชืืงืง ืืขืืื, and the first one says ืคืกืื. Okay. This this one ืฉืืื who says this, he's the ืขื ืืื. Why does he have to... of his not? You need ืขืืื to verify the signatures. Verify the signatures. And he can't say it ืืืคืจืข, can't say it after? No, in fact he didn't say it because he didn't see it being written. Oh, that's why he didn't see it. I see. Okay. How's he going to say it, ืืคื ื ื ืืชื, if he didn't see it? So that's why he couldn't say. That's the reason. But he asked is it does it make the ืื ืคืกืื because of that? If he came and asked basically what he was saying is, do I or even before, do I have to look in order to have to say it? Maybe I don't have to come and see it. So he said, the first guy answered him, ืืืงืข you don't. It's not that But your and if you look at it and you say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื you'll gain. What will you gain? That if the husband ืืขืจืขืจ, nothing will happen. It's not that he saw it, but he just didn't say. No, that's Now, that could also be. Oh, yeah? It could also be. So, he could say it later. No, that's he can't say it later. ืืืจื says if he didn't if he gave it, he didn't say it, it's too late. First of all, who knows later when the ืืขื ืืขืจืขืจ, he'll be long gone, in the in ืขืืื ืืชืืื already. How big So, to explain this, the difference between the first case, two cases, is like this. Let's go back to the case of the ืืจืืฉืืจ and ืืืชืืกืคืื. ืชืืกืคืืช says that ืืืจื says if you bring from ืืจืืฉืืจ to ืืืชืืกืคืื, you don't have to say. From ืืืชืืกืคืื to ืืจืืฉืืจ, you do. So, ืชืืกืคืืช says even though ืืืชืืกืคืื is very close to ืืจืืฉืืจ, you still have to say. Still have to say there. As the the ืืชื ืกืืคืจ, doesn't understand. In the first ืืฉื ื, it speaks about ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, that in from ืืืื ืก ืืื you have to say, from ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื not. What happens if you bring from ืจืงื ืืืืจ? Now ืจืงื ืืืืจ were very close to ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. So, the first opinion in the ืืฉื ื says from ืจืงื ืืืืจ, you don't have to say, even though it's outside of ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. But that's very close to ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, ืกืืืืืช we call it. So, because of ืกืืืืืช, because it's close, you don't have to say. So, ืืชื ืกืืคืจ asks, \"How come here by ืืื, which ืืืชืืกืคืื is close to ืืื, you do have to say? Just like ืืื is like ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, ืืื you don't have to like ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. By ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื we said anything that's ืกืืื to ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, you don't have to say, so the same thing should be ืกืืื to ืืื.\" But
ืืื's degree is so low. That's, that's ืคืฉื ืคืฉื in the ืืืจื, yeah? What makes them Because they have ืขืืื ืืฆืืืื ืืงืืืื, and they have ืืงืืืื ืืฉืื. But you have to have You have to have a so it's always something you could be both both No, close to close, no, but close to the ืืงื, close to ืืื. ืืื is not because it's close to ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. ืืื is a ืืื in itself. ืืื actually was far from ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. And what was the But ืืื is a special place because all the conditions are there. What was the reason ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื? Ah? What was the reason ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื? Because also they know ืืฉืื, and there is ืขืืื ืืฆืืืื ืืงืืืื. They seem as though almost the same degree. That's what it sounds like. Same as ืืื, same as ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. So, the ืืื of ืกืืืืืช He has that ืฉืืื. The ืืื of ืกืืืืืช should be the same. The different ืกืืื, you shouldn't have to say. It is a much degree lower. It has to be a much degree lower. Why is it a degree lower? Cuz they have to mention it. They have to mention it. No, because the ืืฉื ื doesn't say it. The ืืฉื ื didn't say it, so the ืืืจื says, \"ืืืจ ืืืื.\" ืืื is not included. The ืงืืืฉื there is if you don't base it on this. ืงืืืฉื there is no ืงืืืฉื not. No. ืงืืืฉื But we'll see Let's see. We're we're getting to this ืขื ืื. He says maybe the reason is because there was a river in between. He says, \"No, but that's there was a bridge. It's a ืืืืง.\" So, he comes up with this ืกืืจื. He says the whole ืืื of ืกืืืืืช, we only say by ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, not that it's ืกืืื to someplace else, to ืืื, even though ืืื has ืืื like ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, we don't say it. And he says in the ืืฉื ื he excepted it. Doesn't say exactly why. He says that in ืขืืื ืืจืื He says does say says from because ืกืืื to ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, people would travel to go ืขืืื ืืจืื. He says, \"Ay, there's a ืืื that you don't have to be ืขืืื ืืจืื from ืืืฅ ืืืจืฅ, but still it's a good idea.\" That's why, but in ืืื, because there's no ืืฆืื to be ืขืืื ืืจืื, so it doesn't apply. But if the whole thing is based on ืขืืื ืืจืื in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, then it should be not only ืกืืื, cuz if it's a ืืฆืื to go to ืืจืื, even from far also. I'm trying to say that there is something more to it to be ืืืืง between ืืื and ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, that by ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื we say ืกืืื, and by ืืื not, is another ื ืงืืื here that you could add. And that is we the ืืืจื said before that there is a ืืืืืงืช in the ืืฉื ื that the ืชื ื ืงืื says ืกืืื to ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื doesn't have to say. ืจืื ืืืืืื says, \"ืืฃ ืื ืืจืงื ืืื ืืืืจ, even ืกืืื you also have to say.\" The ืืืจื explained what's the ืืืืืงืช? Why does he hold yeah, not? So, the way the ืืืจื puts the words is like this: that the ืชื ื ืงืื holds since it's ืกืืื, so close, they know ืืฉืื, there are ืขืืื ืืฆืืืื ืืงืืืื. Comes ืจืื ืืืืืื says, \"No, even though it's close, they don't know, and it's not ืขืืื ืืฆืืืื ืืงืืืื.\" Seems like it's a ืืืืืงืช in ืืฆืืืืช. ืคืฉืื the fact go check it out. Go over there, see, test the people if they know ืืฉืื, see the people who ืขืืื ืืฆืืืื ืืงืืืื, see how they travel. How could it be a ืืืืืงืช of ืืฆืืืืช? I want to say ืืืืืงืช is not a ืืฆืืืืช. It's ืคืฉื like this. I want to say something which is not really written, and I mean it's it's really a little bit out of the box, as we say, that this ืืื that ืกืืื is like ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, it's not only because the technicality, because since it's ืกืืื, there are ืขืืื that you'll always find. There is a ืืชืคืฉืืืช of ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื into a close place that's close. We find in a lot of things, the ืจืื has an ืืขืจื has in different ืฉืืืืช, that there's a ืืื and a ืืงืื, the ืขื ืื of a ืืจ ืืฆืจ, there's a ืืชืคืฉืืืช from one to the other. In ืืื, ืชืืกืคืช ืฉืืช is because that the ืืื is ื ืชืคืฉื. So I want to say that the ืืื, that the ืืงืื of ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื is ื ืชืคืฉื to the ืกืืื. Now that
itself would not be enough, because here we need the technical reason that there are ืขืืื ืืฆืืืื ืืงืืืื. So I want to say like this: since it's ืกืืื, pretty much that there are ืขืืื there to ืืงืื, but not 100%. In ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื it's 100%, here it's let's say ืขืืื ืืฆืืืื ืืงืืืื 70%, but a little bit not, or they know ืืฉืื, not 100%. ืืืืืืงืช is, the ืชื ื ืงืื says because after all they knew they are ืขืืื ืืฆืืืื ืืงืืืื, so we say it's you don't have to say it. ืจืื ืืืืืื says, but ืกืืฃ ืื ืกืืฃ it's not the same way, not exactly, you do. What makes them say each side? How the ืืืืืงืช is makes, what's it makes in ืืืื? Because the ืชื ื ืงืื learns the ืขื ืื of ืกืืื of ืืชืคืฉืืืช. Since it's ืืชืคืฉื, so if there would be not, they wouldn't know ืืฉืื at all, and there wouldn't be any ืขืืื, so the ืืชืคืฉืืืช wouldn't be enough to be able to say don't say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืืืคื ื ื ืืชื. There is a reason to say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื not to say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืืืคื ื ื ืืชื, because they are close and they do know ืืฉืื, they are ืขืืื a little, but not 100%. So you're ืืฆืืจืฃ, you add the fact that it's ืกืืื, so there is a ืืชืคืฉืืืช of the ืืื of ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. ืฉืืื ืื ืจืื ืืืืืื says we don't learn this ืืื of ืกืืื. Because the ืจืื, whenever he talks about the ืืชืคืฉืืืช, he always brings that there are ืฉืืืืช, ืืืืืงืช. So ืชื ื ืงืื holds we do say the ืืชืคืฉืืืช, and ืจืื ืืืืืื says we don't say the ืืชืคืฉืืืช. And I'm repeating again: if it wouldn't be at all ืขืืื ืืฆืืืื ืืงืืืื, that wouldn't help a ืืชืคืฉืืืช. It's not even so... But since there is ืขืืื, that's what the ืชื ื ืงืื says: since it's close, there are ืขืืื. ืจืื ืืืืืื says: no, they're not ืขืืื. Doesn't mean the ืืืืืงืช is whether there are. Both agreed that there is and there isn't. The ืฉืืื is which side do you stress? And the ืชื ื ืงืื stresses the side that it is. Why? Because he says the ืกืืื of ืืชืคืฉืืืช, and this not. ืืคื ืื you could say like this: What, is it easier to find ืขืืื, why is it easier to find ืขืืื over there? Because it's close. No, I don't mean the ืกืืื, I mean just in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื versus... Ah, that's the ืืืจื says, because the ืืฉืืื is there and the people go to ืืจืืฉืืื for ืืื ืืื, so... ืขืืื ืืฉืจ ืขืืื, ืืฉืจ ืขืืื. Yeah, yeah, obviously. Not necessarily the people that saw the... No, no, ืขืืื that recognize the signatures, that only people who communicate, so they know people from this city know the signatures of the people in this city. So, other cities wouldn't be like that? Right, if there's no communications, people don't do any business, so they don't know. But that's the ืืืจื, that's not the... that's the... I want to say like this: When we speak about ืืื, that ืืื is like ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, I want to say that ืืื has the ืืื of ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, but it's not the same, not ืืขืฆื. ืืืก ืืืืกื ืืืื: there is a place where you don't have to say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืืืคื ื ื ืืชื like ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, that's the ืืื ืืขืฆื, that's a ืืงืื where you don't have to say, and then there is in ืืื, the ืืงืื is actually, it's included in the ืชืงื ื that you have to say, because it's ืืืื ืช ืืื. The ืืืืื said in ืืืื ืช ืืื you have to say. ืืคืืขื they said, because of these reasons, ืืคืืขื you don't have to say. But ืืขืฆื you would have to say. ืขื ืืจื last year in ืืกืืช ืฉืืช we learned, so I explained many times, it's also not so ืคืฉืื, that you have a ืจืฉืืช ืืืืื, you have a ืจืฉืืช ืืจืืื, you have a ืืจืืืืช. So I want to say in ืจืฉืืช ืืืืื you have two kinds: you have certain things which are ืืขืฆื a ืจืฉืืช ืืืืื, and certain things which have a ืืื of a ืจืฉืืช ืืืืื. Certain things are ืืขืฆื a ืจืฉืืช ืืจืืื, and certain things have a ืืื of a ืจืฉืืช ืืจืืื. By a ืืจืืืืช, ืืืืืื we see that, it's the famous ืืขื ืืืืืจ. The the ืืจืืืชื mentions the different ืจืฉืืืืช and then it mentions what they are. Then it says: what's a ืืจืืืืช? A ืื, ocean, a river, then it says ืืืืจืืืืช, and a ืืจืืืืช. So the ืืืจื asks what, they're all ืืจืืืืช. So the ืืืจื says it comes to add a corner, it's also whatever. Comes the ืืขื ืืืืืจ and he says what the ืืฉื ื, ืืืจื is trying to tell us that the ืขืฆื ืืจืืืืช is the ืงืจื ืืืืช, is that extra thing. All the other ืืจืืืืช they have a ืืื of a ืืจืืืืช. So the same thing I want to say here also: in this ืชืงื ื that you don't, that here you have to say, here not. So ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื was ืืืชืืืื not part of the ืชืงื ื, it's ืืขืฆื a ืืงืื that you don't have to say. ืืื is ืืขืฆื a ืืงืื that you would have to say. ืืคืืขื for a certain reason, this the ืืืืื said that you don't. Now that... huh? No, it's a ืืื. No, it's a... It has, no. It's a... ืคืืจืงืขืจื, it's a ืืื only that you don't have to say. It's not ืืขืฆื you don't have to say. It's only a ืืื that ืืคืืขื you don't have to say. What is that ื ืืืข? Since we came to the point that the ืืื of ืกืืืืืช is because of the ืืชืคืฉืืืช, why is ืกืืืืืช because the ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื is ืืชืคืฉื? ืืชืคืฉืืืช you could only say from a ืืงืื. If this ืืงืื is ืืงืื is ืืชืคืฉื further. From a ืืื, you can't say the ืืื is ืืชืคืฉื. So in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื where ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื is a ืืขืฆื a ืืงืื that you don't say, ืกืืืืืช could get the ืืชืคืฉืืืช of ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. ืืื, who ืืขืฆื you have to say, ืืื ืืื, ืืคืืขื you don't, so you want to say that ืกืืืืืช shouldn't say because of the ืืชืคืฉืืืช of ืืื, that you can't say. From a ืืื you don't say ืืชืคืฉืืืช. And that answers the ืฉืืื on this ืงืืฉืื on ืชืืกืคืืช ืืจื\"ืฉ, that ืชืืกืคืืช says you do have to say, and he asked, \"But it's ืกืืื, why don't you have to say? It's ืกืืื just like you're ืกืืื in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื you don't, why ืกืืื to ืืื?\" So I'm saying now, why ืกืืื to ืืื you...
because the whole ืขื ืื of ืกืืืืืช does not apply there, because ืกืืืืืช has to do with the ืืชืคืฉืืืช from the place to that, and this idea that you don't say in ืืื is not a ืืงืื, it's a ืืื. According to this, I want to explain the two stories. The two stories, if you look at it, the first story was ืืื, the second one was ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. The first story was from ืืจืืื to ืกืืจื, ืกืืจื to ืืจืืื. The second was ืคืืจืกื ืกืืื which was by ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. So I want to say like this: when it came the case of ืืื and he asked him, \"Do I have to say or not?\", had he answered him, \"You have to say,\" he would really think that you ืืคืืขื have to say. Why? Because since ืืขืฆื ืืื is a place where ืืขืฆื is under the ืชืงื ื, had he told him, \"Yes, you have to...\" he asked him, \"ืฆืจืืืช?\" Had he said, \"ืฆืจืืืช, you have to say,\" and then he would have explained, \"Why do you have to say? In order to avoid later the problem of ืขืืื,\" it would have caused a mistake to think. So that's why he couldn't, he answered him, \"You don't have to say,\" because ืืคืืขื you don't have to say. And he didn't want to tell him you do have, \"You should say,\" because it's too close to what it really is ืืขืฆื. While on the second case, since ืืขืฆื in ืืื you have to say, and had he told, he asked him, \"Do I have to say?\", he would say, \"Yes,\" we would think that you have to say. See, the second case where it's ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, by saying, \"You should say in order to avoid problem of ืขืืื,\" does doesn't give a ืืงืื that maybe you have to say. Everyone knows ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื is a place you don't say. But ืืื, which is part of ืืืื ืช ืืื, and anyway, even if you don't have, even if the ืืื if you don't have to say, but ืืขืฆื you have to, he didn't want to tell him you have to say. But the second case he said, \"ืื ืฆืจืืืช.\" When he asked him, \"Do I have to say?\", he said, \"No, you don't need.\" Also, in the first case, we're saying like this: it's talking about ืืื. ืืื ืืขืฆื you have to say. Now, this, you have to listen here, ืืื ืงืืค. This
ืชืงื ื of saying ืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืืืคื ื ื ืืชื, is it a ืืืืจื or a ืงืืื? A ืงืืื for the woman? It's a ืืืืจื that we make you say something, but it's a ืงืืื that you don't have to find two ืขืืื. To the woman. In other words, no, it's not in a ืงืืื for the woman, it's a ืงืืื in ืืื. This guy is ืืงืืื the ืฉืืจ. Normally, the ืืืจื you have to have two ืขืืื. The ืืืืื were ืืืงื. The ืืืจื says on ืืฃ ื ืขืืื ื: ืืฉืื ืขืืืื ื ืืงืืื ืื ืจืื ื. They were ืืืงื. It would make sense that in a place where you don't have to say, there is no ืชืงื ื that you have to say, when you say, it shouldn't help. Right? Because why does it help? Because of the special ืชืงื ื. If there is no ืชืงื ื, so ืืืืช in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื where you don't have to say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื, even if the guy would say, ืืืืืจื it shouldn't work, because one guy is not enough to be ืืงืืื. The ืืื is not like that, the ืืื is that it does work, but it's a big ืืืืืฉ. Now where is there a bigger ืืืืืฉ that if you do say it works, even though you don't have to, in ืืื or ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื? ืืื. It's not a ืืืืืฉ. No, it's a bigger ืืืืืฉ in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื that it works. ืืื which is ืืขืฆื part of the ืชืงื ื, so it should work. The ืชืงื ื was to say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื and it should work even though he's one, that's the ืชืงื ื. ืืื is part of that ืชืงื ื. ืืคืืขื ืืืฉ, the ืืืืื said, \"We took off that the fact that you should say, we're not ืืืืื you to say.\" But the fact that if you do say it works in ืืื makes more sense. ืื ืฉืืื ืื in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, it's a big ืืืืืฉ. There's no ืชืงื ื, the ืืื is ืืขืฆื you don't have to say, so why would it work with one guy? So it comes out that when the guy says in ืืื, It would not work. Huh? Because he doesn't have to say, so wouldn't it not work? Where? In ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. So it can't work, like shouldn't work. Right, I mean wouldn't not work. No, in ืืื you also don't have to say, but ืืขืฆื you do have to. But you have to. So the ืชืงื ื is there, if the ืชืงื ื is there, then the ืชืงื ื works. So it comes out like this: that if ืืคืืขื you said in ืืื, it's exactly as as if you said it in ืืืื ืช ืืื. In ืืืื ืช ืืื, if you say it, it works. But there you have to. Here you don't ืืคืืขื have to, but it works just the same as there. What is in ืืืื ืช ืืื when you say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืืืคื ื ื ืืชื and the husband comes, and he's ืืขืจืขืจ? No problem. We don't look at him. So that's why the first case where it was ืืื, he said like this: You don't have to say, but if you say, know what will happen? If the ืืขื will come, ืื ืืฉืืืื ื ืืื. ืื ืืฉืืืื ื ืืื! We won't look at him! Because since it's part of the ืชืงื ื, the saying works. In ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, he didn't say we won't look at him. ืืคืืขื ืืืฉ it helps there too, but over there it helps that you don't need the ืขืืื. ืืคืืขื it works, ืื ืคืืขื it works, but he couldn't use the ืืฉืื ืื ืืฉืืืื ื ืืื, it will be nothing, because it's a big ืืืืืฉ that in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื that you don't that if you say it works, cuz it's not part of the ืชืงื ื ืืคื ื ื ืืชื. Why should it work? Nevertheless, the ืืืืื said it works. Now, the ืชืืกืคืืช says because ืืขืฆื is that you don't have to say, therefore Right. So there's no ืชืงื ื. There's no ืชืงื ื. The ืชืงื ื made that you have to say plus that if one guy if one guy says it's enough, but that's still not part of the ืชืงื ื. If the husband does come then So you got a big problem. But that Because you don't have to, because you don't have to say, it's it's just you didn't have to say, But if you did say, then you have no problem. But that's not the ืคืฉื that it's nothing, it's a ืืืืืฉ that if the husband comes you don't no problem. Why? Because it's not part of the ืชืงื ื, so the ืชืงื ื that you should say doesn't apply. So the ืชืงื ื of believing one guy is a big ืืืืืฉ in it. But in ืืื it's no ืืืืืฉ, it's like ืืืื ืช ืืื, so it's ืื ืืฉืืืื ื ืืื. That answers the ืชืืกืคืืช ืฉืืื. Now going to ืจืฉ\"ื, in ืืื, since ืืขืฆื you should say, ืืื ืืื the ืืืืื said ืืคืืขื you don't have to say. If the husband comes and is ืืขืจืขืจ, know what happens? Since ืืขืฆื you had to say, it brings back, it becomes like in ืืืื ืช ืืื if you wouldn't say. In ืืืื ืช ืืื, if you don't say, what happens if you bring a ืื and you don't say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืืืคื ื ื ืืชื? The ืื is ืคืกืื. You did something wrong. In ืืื if you don't say you didn't do anything wrong, but ืืคืืขื ืืืฉ if the
husband is ืืขืจืขืจ, it brings back that ืืขืฆื the ืคืกืื is there. Because we said ืืขืฆื in ืืื you have to say. In ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, ืืืชืืืื it was no ืชืงื ื to say. So if you didn't say, there is nothing missing here. Okay, ืืื also nothing missing, nothing wrong, but ืืคืืขื you're missing this because really it's part of the ืชืงื ื. So in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, till the ืืขื is ืืขืจืขืจ, when the ืืขื is ืืขืจืขืจ, did you is there anything missing? No, you did everything 100%. ืืื ืืื, when the ืืขื is ืืขืจืขืจ, now you got a problem, you got to find ืขืืืช. In ืืื, if the ืืขื is ืืขืจืขืจ, it's not only that you got to find ืขืืืช. Since ืืขืฆื you should have said ืืคื ื ื ืืชื, if the ืืขื is ืืขืจืขืจ, it makes it ืคืกืื. Technically, they're both the same. It's both the same. In ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, if you don't say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื ืืืคื ื ื ืืชื and the ืืขื is ืืขืจืขืจ, till the ืืขื is ืืขืจืขืจ, the ืื is fine. When the ืืขื is ืืขืจืขืจ, you can't use the ืื. It's finished. She stays she can't. When you bring ืขืืื afterwards, it becomes good again. The same thing in ืืื. You don't have to say, if the if you didn't say and the ืืขื is ืืขืจืขืจ, you have to stop, the ืื is no good anymore. If you bring ืขืืื, it becomes good again. So ืืืขืฉื it's the same, but in in in ืืืืืื, what's happening here? In ืืื when the ืืขื is ืืขืจืขืจ is worse. If In other words, it's both worse. If you said ืืคื ื ื ืืชื, it's better in ืืื than ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. Why? Cuz in ืืื it's part of the ืชืงื ื. If you didn't say ืืคื ื ื ืืชื and the ืืขื is ืืขืจืขืจ, in ืืื it's worse! Just like in in ืืืื ืช ืืื it's worse. Better and worse. That's why in the first case ืจืฉ\"ื says if the ืืขื will be ืืขืจืขืจ, ืืื ืื ืื if you don't say, ืืืชื ืืขื ืืืขืจืขืจ, ืืคืกืื. It'll be ืคืกืื. And that he only said by ืืื. By ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, he didn't say. Even though ืืคืืขื ืืืฉ it'll be the same ืคืกืื, over there it's not ืืขืฆื ืคืกืื, it's just you got to hold you didn't do anything wrong, the ืื is fine. ืืื ืืื you got to wait for ืงืืื. And here the ืื is ืคืกืื because it's similar to ืืืื ืช ืืื. And that's all because ืืื is not ืืขืฆื a place where you don't say. Okay. Yeah. It's quite clear. ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื it seems to be, what, what, what's, it's more sensitive. In other words, you don't have to say, but if the husband come and there's more of an opening for the husband to be No, wherever you don't say the husband is able to come and be ืืขืจืขืจ. Right, wherever you don't say. Now, in ืืืื ืช ืืื if you don't say, It's weaker in the sense What's weaker? The The saying ืืคื ื ื ืืชื is weaker. Right, obviously it's weaker, but it also then the not saying, the fact that you don't have to say No, you do say it. It's weaker. Yeah. It's it's also The not saying also is not There's no strength behind it. It's also weak. You'd think that No, the not saying is fine. The not saying is 100% because in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื there's no ืชืงื ื to say. In ืืื the not saying is weaker. But because the not saying is weaker, the saying is stronger. To do say is stronger than in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. In In ืืื. In ืืื. Right, but that doesn't help you in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื. That's it. That's it. But ืืคืืขื it helps, but it's but it's much weaker than in ืืื. It's much weaker, right. Because ืืื is ืืืืช similar to ืืืื ืช ืืื. Right, but again I don't
Why is it weaker in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื? Why is it Is it weaker because Because there's no ืชืงื ื! Right, I know, but why why not is it Because there's ืขืืื ืืฆืืืื ืืงืืืื! It's not ืืืื ืช The ืชืงื ื was ืืืื ืช ืืื and ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื, that's all. In ืืืื ืช ืืื ืืืคื there was ืืื, so they said ืืื ืืคืืขื you don't have to say. It's not being trusting. You know, when you're more trusting, you're more open to to get hurt, you know, somebody could take advantage of you. It seems like in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื it's it's like it's a trust factor. You don't have to say it because we all know and and and it's a certain level of there's the ืืฉืืืืช, the learning, the No, ืืคืืขื ืืืฉ they was the same, but because it's part of ืืืื ืช ืืื, so it falls under the general category of the ืชืงื ื. Of ืืื, right. ืืืฉืจ ืื, ืืืฉืจ ืื. Thanks so much for doing it with five. Yeah, 100 shares, at a little 120 shares. Yeah. Was that five? Yeah, I wanted to translate for you quickly the ืคืฉื, and there was a couple of things I wanted, but I I didn't want to I wanted to say it quickly. I was I was thinking about you. You can't think. Actually, I was trying not to listen.