The Orphan Weighed in Gold Every Day
The Orphan Weighed in Gold Every Day
Part of Important Issues · 17:00
A short aggadic story about a wealthy widow who measured her fatherless son in gold each day for tzedakah, until the family's fortune collapsed when enemies conquered Yerushalayim.
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- Fatherless child and motherโs gold measurement
ืืืื ืื ืงืื, his father left him as he was a child, yes, his father died and he was still a baby. ืืืื ืืื ืืื ืืืืชื ืืืคืืื, every day his mother would measure him with the measuring sticks, ืื ืืชื ืช, and they send this, ืืฉืงืื ืืื, and she would give how much his size with the weight of gold ืืืืช ืืืงืืฉ. That's how rich she was. She was a very rich woman. ืืืื ืฉืืืจ ืืืื The additional amount or every day weigh weigh anew? Weigh it again, yeah. Weigh it again, they'd get the full amount. That's what it looks like. ืืืื ืฉืืืจ ืืืื, when the enemies became strong and they conquered ืืจืืฉืืื, ืืืืชืื, she shechted him, shechted him! ืืืืืชืื, and she ate him up. ืืขืืื ืงืื ื ืืจืืืื, ืืจืืืื ืื ืืื cries about her: ืื ืชืืืื ื ื ืฉืื ืคืจืื ืขืืืื ืืืคืืืื, that if if is it possible such a thing that a woman like this should eat the children? ืืืฉืืืชื ืจืื ืืงืืืฉ, and the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ, ืจืื ืืงืืืฉ answers ืืืืจื ืื, said to him: ืื ืืืจื ืืืงืืฉ ืืณ ืืื ืื ืืื. So you're saying your ta'anah, the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ says back ta'anah: \"How could this happen?\" So what did they go around telling the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ then: \"And how could you let a kohen and navi get killed?\" But the bottom line is we see that there was a child called Doeg. Now Doeg was not, was a rasha, so how did you give him the name Doeg? So that's a kushya on the Gemara what it said before that ืื ืืกืงืื ื ืืฉืืืืื, you shouldn't name somebody after a rasha. And the Gemara answers: ืืื ืืื ืกืืืง ืืื, you see what happened! Adrabah, this is a re'ayah, you shouldn't name somebody after a rasha, because here they did do it, and what happened? He he got killed, she killed him! That's a re'ayah that how it's, take it was wrong. He had a zechut because his weight went to It was hunger. It was hunger. Hunger, yeah, yeah. ืืืจ ืจื ืืืขืืจ, ืจื ืืืขืืจ said, ืฆืืืง ืืขืฆืื and rasha is ืืืืืจื. A tzaddik, when do you mention his ma'alot? When do you speak good about him? When you see him. It's through him. And a rasha, if you see another person who's a rasha, you start cursing all the resha'im. So a rasha gets cursed even because of his friends. Where do we see it? ืฆืืืง ืืขืฆืื, where do you see a tzaddik is from himself? D'chsiv, it says: ืืืจ ืฆืืืง ืืืจืื. A tzaddik is a mention to a bracha. And ืจืฉืข ืืืืืจื, ืจืฉืข even from somebody else, d'chsiv, it says: ืืฉื ืจืฉืขืื ืืจืงื. The name of the reshaim will rot. Doesn't say ืฉื ืจืฉืข ืืจืงื. As if why reshaim, it goes together, there's ืจืืื, and through one person, the other reshaim will also be. Zogt di Gemara: ืืืจ ืืื ืจื ืืื ืื ื ืืืืื ืืจืื ื, and Rav Hamnuna said to one of the talmidim What do you want to say about the yetzer hara? It's one yetzer hara and when fighting it you have two, two yetzer tovs? Here's ืจืืื. No, we're saying individually. It's saying righteous in each of his own merits, so each one is each yetzer tov. Yeah, but the reshaim thing is two. But here there's a But they're putting together like one, reshaim, all of them together, no? So Rav Hamnuna said to one of the ืชืืืืืื ืืืื ืืกืืจ ืืืืชื ืงืืื that was learning aggadata in front of him, he said to him: ืื ื ืื ืืืืชื ืืืืืจ ืจืื ื, where do we find a source to this that the chachamim said: ืืืจ ืฆืืืง ืืืจืื, you have to remember a ืฆืืืง ืืืจืื? ืืืจ ืืื, so he says: What do you mean? ืื ืืชืื, ืืืจ ืฆืืืง ืืืจืื. We see it in a pasuk, that ืืืจ ืฆืืืง ืืืจืื is a pasuk! So what do you ask where the chachamim took it from? It's a clear pasuk. So he said, ืืืืืจืืืชื ืื ืื, where do we see it in the Chumash? Because this is a pasuk not in Chumash, pasuk in Mishlei. So he answered him, d'chsiv, it says, ืืณ ืืืจ, ืืณ said in Bereishit: ืืืืกื ืื ื ืืืืจืื, and Hashem said, \"I'm going to destroy Sedom.\" And Hashem said, \"I better speak to ืืืจืื about it. Am I going to hide it from ืืืจืื?\" ืืืชืื, and right away it says: ืืืืจืื ืืื ืืืื, ืืืจืื is going to be ืืื ืืืื, big nations. So what we're learning here, the peshat is that as soon as the pasuk mentioned Avraham, right away the pasuk starts blessing, giving him a brachah. So from here we see that. The peshat peshat is not like that. Peshat peshat is that how could I how could I hide it from Avraham when Avraham is going to teach his children, and he'll be so great, so I better have to tell him. But the Gemara learns different peshat, that He said, \"How could I hide it from Avraham?\" And and you mentioned Avraham, give him a brachah. ืื ื ืื ืืืืชื ืืืืืจ ืจืื ื, then he asked him another she'eilah. Where did the chachamim take that it says, ืืฉื ืจืฉืขืื ืืจืงื, the name of the resha'im should be rotten? ืืืจ ืืื, he said the same answer: ืื ืืชืื, it's a pasuk, it says ืืฉื ืจืฉืขืื ืืจืงื. So he says the same thing, ืืืืืจืืืชื ืื ืื, where do we find it in the Torah, in chumash? So he answered, ืืืชืื, it says, ืืืืื ืขื ืกืืื. Says that Lot, when he separated himself from Avraham, he pitched his tent all the way till Sedom. ืืืชืื, right after that it says: ืืื ืฉื ืกืืื ืจืขืื ืืืืืื. The people from Sedom are are ra'im vachata'im, are bad. So why did he mention all of a sudden people are bad? Because you mentioned Sedom, you mentioned they're bad. Now again, this is not peshat peshat. Peshat peshat is that the Torah is telling us that he he went up to Sedom and he didn't care that the people were bad. Adrabah, he looked for such a thing. But the Gemara darshens it this way. So be'emet you have to understand the peshat of the Gemara here. What was the hava amina? He asked the ืฉืืื, where do the ืืืืื say it from, and he said there's a ืคืกืืง, so he said, \"Yeah, I meant from Chumash.\" But that's not what he asked. He asked, where did the ืืืืื say take it from? The Rebbe has a whole ืืืืืจ in this Gemara. What's the ืคืฉื ืืืจ ืฆืืืง ืืืจืื? What's that ืืืจ ืฆืืืง ืืืจืื? So ืืืจ ืฆืืืง ืืืจืื is two pshat'n. You can learn bracha means you have to give him a bracha, or bracha it means you praise him. So pashut peshat in ืคืกืืง ืืืจ ืฆืืืง, when you mention a tzadik, give him a bracha. Not talk about his ืืขืืืช, not ืืฉืื him, not praise him, and speak how great he is, give him a bracha. You mention a tzadik, say, \"Oh, the ืฆืืืง ืืื ืืืื ืืืื ืืขืืื ื ืืื ืฉืืืจืง.\" Like always say by the Rebbe, the Rebbe, you mention the Rebbe, \"The ืจืื ืืื ืืขืืื ื ืืืื.\" Right away, you say you give a bracha. But that's not, that's the pashut peshat in the ืคืกืืง. So the Gemara means here something else. ืืืจ ืฆืืืง ืืืจืื, when you mention the tzadik, mention his ืืขืืืช. That's the ืคืฉื ืืืจืื. And that is not the peshat in ืคืกืืง. That's what the Rebbe learns. The Rebbe says the peshat is when he asks the ืจืื ื said that ืืืจ ืฆืืืง you have to not just pashut give him a bracha, mention his greatness. So that the Gemara answers, Hashem, it says, ืืืืกื ืื ื ืืืืจืื, what did He do? He didn't bench him, He mentioned how great he is. ืืืจืื ืืืื, who he is, he is so great. When he mentions about the resha'im the same thing, ืคืฉืื, ืืฉื ืจืฉืขืื ืืจืงื means when you mention a rasha gives you a kelalah. But that's not what he's bringing here. He's asking, where do we find that you mention the rasha, you mention how bad he is? So he quotes, ืื ืฉื, when it says ืืืืื ืขื ืกืืื, what did he say? The pasuk says ืืื ืฉื ืกืืื ืจืขืื. So it's a different taytsh in the ืืืจ ืฆืืืง ืืืจืื. ืืคืจื ืขื ืจืฉืขืื, it depends. On ืืืื ืจืฉืขืื we don't say even whether they're alive, we don't say. We don't say yimach shemo even even if he's a rasha. There is a maaseh, I think with the Chidushei HaRim. Chidushei HaRim, once somebody mentioned in in front of him, I think Chidushei HaRim, mentioned in front of him a name of a, a Yid, but it's a, a frayer Yid completely, and he said, \"yimach shemo.\" He says, \"Huh? ืืืืฃ ื ืืื, someone is, ืืื ืืื ืฉืื, no matter how bad he is?\" He says, \"I'll show you a re'iyah from a halacha.\" What's the halacha? It says, if a ืืืืจ, someone mamash is against Torah, a ืืืืจ, and he dies, and he doesn't have any children, his wife needs chalitzah. ืืืืฆื ืืืงืื ืืืื. It's like, instead of yibum. What's the inyan of yibum? ืืืงืื ืืืืื ืฉื, ืฉืื ืืืื ืฉืื ืืืฉืจืื. So even by a rasha, you have to give chalitzah, which is like yibum, ืฉืื ืฉืื ืืืื ืฉืื ืืืฉืจืื, it shouldn't be. How could you say, how yimach shemo? I forget the Chidushei HaRim or the Sefat Emet, but one of the ืืขืจืขืจ ืจืื'ืก. He brought a ืจืืื that you don't say about ืืืื ืืื ืฉืื. Actually, there are a few Yidden which ืืืืฃ ืืืื ืืืื ืืขื ืืื ืฉืื. ืืืชื ืืืืฉ, right? His name ืืฉื, you know what ืฉืืืืจืื, ืืื ืฉืื ืืืืจื. ืืื ืืืืฃ ืืืืฃ ืืืืฃ ืืื ืืืืื? Wiesel? He gets that treatment? ื'ืืื ืืขืืืื ืืืืฃ Shabbetai Tzvi, ืฉืจืืืื ืืขื ืืื ืฉืื. ืืื ืืืืฃ ืืื ืืืืฃ Spinoza. Spinoza, ืฉืจืืืื ืื ืืขื ืืื ืฉืื. A philosopher. An apikores, a an an backer of apikorsut. You didn't remember people who hold by it. We don't say. Gemara says, ืขืฉื ืืฉืจืื ืืืืจ ืืื, but we don't, we don't say. But we don't say ืืื ืฉืื, ืืืืฃ ืืืื ืืืื ืืขื ื ืืฉื ืืื ืืืืจื. And also auf Yidden we don't say lehavdil between a mensch oder a tzadik with a ืคืจืืืขืจ ืืื. ืืื Yidden you don't say lehavdil. It's between a Yid and a goy you say lehavdil, but not between between Yidden. Yisroel Shemtov, Yisroel Shemtov once helped Yisroel Shemtov, whatever, helped helped out a goyah. She had an accident and, I don't know, she he helped her. And later he was on the radio, and they praised him, and they said, \"He helped a a society lady.\" So he says, \"Oh, but sure, we don't make any difference between Jews and non-Jews lehavdil.\" \"We don't make any difference between Jews and non-Jews lehavdil.\" ืืืื ืื Gemara ืืืืืืขืจ, ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืขืืจ, ืจืื ืืืขืืจ said, ืฆืืืง ืืจ ืืื ืฉื ื ืจืฉืขืื, we have a tzadik who lived between two ืจืฉืขืื, ืืื ืืื ืืืขืฉืืื, and didn't learn from them. On the other hand, we find a rasha that ืืจ ืืื ืฉื ื ืฆืืืงืื, lived between two ืฆืืืงืื, ืืื ืืื, and didn't learn from their maasim, and didn't become. Who's this ืฆืืืง ืืจ ืืื ืฉื ื ืจืฉืขืื ืืื ืืื ืืืขืฉืืื? Who's the tzadik that lived between two reshaim and didn't learn? Ovadiah. Ovadiah the navi, and he lived between Achav and Izevel, both reshaim, and he stayed a tzaddik, he's a navi. ืจืฉืข ืืจ ืืื ืฉื ื ืฆืืืงืื ืืื ืืื ืืืขืฉืืื, which rasha lived between two tzaddikim and didn't learn from them? Esav. Lived with Yitzchak and Rivka, and he just remained Esav. ืืืืจ ืจืื ืืืขืืจ, something else Rabbi Elazar said, ืืืจืืชื ืฉื ืฆืืืงืื ืืชื ืืื ืงืืื ืฉื ืจืฉืขืื. From a bracha that the tzaddikim get from the Eibershter you can learn out, it turns out into a klalah to the reshaim. ืืืงืืืชื ืฉื ืจืฉืขืื, and from the klalah to the reshaim, from a curse to the ืจืฉืขืื, ืืชื ืืื ืืจืื ืฉื ืฆืืืงืื, a bracha to tzaddikim. And it gives an example. In other words, when there's a chance to bless a tzaddik, automatically this brings a klalah to the rasha. To give a klalah to the rasha, brings a bracha to the tzaddik. No. No, the bracha... Yeah, but this is, not to learn, it has to be learning, it's... No. It was Yitzchak and Rivka. And, I mean, it was also a husband and wife. ืืืจืืชื ืฉื ืฆืืืงืื ืืชื ืืื ืงืืื ืฉื ืจืฉืขืื, we see from a bracha to a tzaddik, you turn out into klalah to the reshaim. We see that it says, by Avraham the Eibershter gave him a bracha, ืื ืืืขืชืื, this means I love him, ืืืขื ืืฉืจ ืืฆืื ืืช ืื ืื, because he's going to command his children, teach his children the proper way. ืืืชืื ืืชืจืื, what does it say right after that? ืืืืืจ ืืณ ืืขืงืช ืกืื ืืขืืจื, I heard this noise from Sodom vaAmorah, the reshaim. So since the Eibershter mentioned the tzadikim, right away it turns into the klalah to the resha'im. And on the other hand, ืืืงืืืชื ืฉื ืจืฉืขืื ืืชื ืืื ืืจืื ืฉื ืฆืืืงืื, from the klalah of the resha'im you learn a berachah to tzadikim. ืืชืื it says, but after it says, ืืื ืฉื ืกืื ืจืขืื ืืืืืื, the people of Sedom were resha'im, bad, ืืืณ ืืืจ ืื ืืืจื ืืืจื ืืคืจื ืืื ืืขืื, ืืณ spoke to him after Lot left him. So it mentions the tzadik, the ma'alah of the tzadik that Lot left him and the Eibershter spoke to him. So we see when you start off with a berachah to a tzadik, it brings klalah to the resha'im. You start a berachah from a rasha, a klalah of a rasha brings a berachah to a tzadik. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So it says... Yeah, ืืฉืจื ืืืืฉ, yeah. Oh, you mean at the end? Not the next pasuk, yeah. ืขื ืื ืื ืืงืืื ืจืฉืขืื ืืืฉืคื, ืื ืื ืื ืืจืฉืขืื... I don't know if here it's a klalah, here it's just telling you, tzadik is good, ืืฉืจื ืืืืฉ that goes and doesn't go with resha'im, and the resha'im, they're farkert, they're no good. Tzadik and then it says, ืจืฉืขืื ืืืืฅ ืืฉืจ ืชืืคื ื ืจืื and it's going to happen. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Zogt di Gemara vayter, ืืืืจ ืจืื ืืืขืืจ, Rabbi Elazar said also, ืืคืืื ืืฉืืื ืฆืืืง ืืื ืขืืื ื ืืจื, the world could be created for one tzadik. ืืชืื it says, ืืืจื ืืืงืื ืืช ืืืืจ ืื ืืื, the Eibershter saw that the light is good. What's good? ืืื ืืื ืืื ืฆืืืง. Remember it says, ืืืจื ืฆืืืง ืื ืืื, say to the tzadik is good, so tov it says, so the Eibershter ืืืจื, he saw ืื ืืื. In other words, when he created the world, and the first thing he created was ืืืจ, so it says ืืืจ is ืื ืืื, it's there for tov, for a tzadik. So even for one tzadik would... Basically, what it means to say, for even for one tzadik would be ืืืื to create the world. Huh? ืืืจ ืืจืืข ืืฆืืืง, yeah, but that's not talking about creation, this is spoken about the ืืจืืื. ืืืจ ืืจืืข ืืฆืืืง, yeah. Chassidus says ืืืจ ืืจืืข, he planted this for us. We learn in the ืืืืจ ืฉืืช... It's planted so that even all the Yidden should altogether... Anyway... ืืืืจ ืจืื ืืืขืืจ, ืจืื ืืืขืืจ says, ืื ืืืฉืื ืืืจ ืืื ืืชืืืืื, if someone forgets even one thing from his learning, ืืืจื ืืืืช ืืื ืื, you cause galut to your children. You're not allowed to forget your learning. Ay, what do you mean, it's not your fault? So first of all, you have to work hard not to forget. And second of all, it means really when it says, if a person forgets something from his learning, ืขืืืจ ืืืื, it says in Pirkei Avot, it's only that if he works on forgetting, he does things to forget. But if he stam, a person gets, forgets, he gets old and he forgets his learning, that's not the problem. Here also, if you do something to forget, and you're able to chazer over and not forget and you don't do it, that's also a problem. So you cause galut. Remember it says, ืืชืฉืื ืชืืจืช ืืืงืื, ืืฉืื ืื ืื ืื ืื ื. If you forgot the Torah, I will forget your children. That means that it causes galut to the children. ืจืื ืืืื ืืืืจ, Rabbi Abahu says, ืืืจืืืื ืืืชื ืืืืืืชื, we even, the Eibershter makes that he goes down, they lower him from his greatness, ืฉื ืืืจ, it says, ืื ืืชื ืืืขืช ืืืกืช, ืืืืืกื ืืืื ืื. You forgot the daat, you were ืืืืก, you were disgusted with the daat, I will be ืืืืก in you being a ืืื to me, being an officer, being a position. ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืื ืืจ ืืื ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืื ื, Rabbi Chiya bar Abba said ืจืื ืืืื ื, ืืื ืฆืืืง ื ืคืืจ ืื ืืขืืื ืขื ืฉื ืืจื ืฆืืืง ืืืืชื, a tzadik doesn't die from the world unless there's another tzadik created like him, ืฉื ืืืจ it says, ืืืจื ืืฉืืฉ ืืื ืืฉืืฉ, that the sun shines and the sun goes down. ืขื ืฉืื ืืืชื ืฉืืฉื ืฉื ืขืื, before Eli passed away, ืืจืื ืฉืืฉื ืฉื ืฉืืืื ืืจืืชื, ืฉื ืฉืืืื. The Gemara says a couple lines also, ืขื ืฉืื ื ืคืืจ, ืืืืื, ืืืืื ืฉื ืคืืจ... ืจืื ื ืืื ืจื ืืฉื. The day Rava passed away Rav Ashi was born. With one exception: there's one day that the sun doesn't set, the sun didn't set. ืืณ ืชืืื. ืืณ ืชืืื, he stopped the sun. On ืืณ ืชืืื, ืืืืฉืข, that's the day Yehoshua stopped the sun. When Yehoshua said, ืฉืืฉ ืืืืขืื ืืื, the sun shouldn't shouldn't set was ืืณ ืชืืื. You know the peshat? ืืณ ืชืืื, ืืณ ืชืืื. In Seder Olam, it was ืืณ ืชืืื. And it says that there's not not a day that... It's the words that that there's no day that a tzadik passes away. There's never a tzadik passes away where there's no other tzadik like him. So I'm saying that's, and he gives it because the sun sets, the sun the sun rises. But on a day of ืืณ ืชืืื, the sun didn't set. Is he using ืืื ืืืื ื ื together? ืก'ืืื ื ืืฉื ื ืืฉื ืื ืืืจืฆืืื. ืก'ืืื ื ืืฉื ืื ืืืจืฆืืื. ืืืื ืืื ืขืจ ืืืื, ืก'ืืื ืืื ืืืื ืื ืื ืืขืจืข, ืื ืจืขืื ืืขื ืคืื ื ืฆืืืง, ื ืืฉื ืคืื ืงืืื ืื ืืขืจ ืฆืืืง. ืื, ืืืืก ืืืืกื ืขืจ ืืขืื? ืขืจ ืืขืื. ืก'ืืื ืืื... ืื, ืืื ืืขืจ ืืืช'ืขืจ ืคืฉื! ืื, ืืืขืจ ื ืืฉื ื ืคืืืฉื ืคืฉื. ืืขืจ ืืืืืืืงืขืจ ืคืฉื ืืื ืืืืืื. ืขืจ ืืขืื ืืื ืืขืจ ืืืขืื, ืขืจ ืืขืื ืืื ืืื ื, ืขืจ ืืขืื ืืื ืขืจ ืืื ืืืข ืืฉืคืขืืช, ืืืก ืืืืืื. 100%! ืืืก ืืื ืืื ืืื! ืืืืก ืืืืกื, ื ืืฉื ืืขื? ืืืืื ืขืจ ืืขืื. ืืื, ืืขื ืืืื ืืขื ืืืืืืืงื ืคืฉื? ืืื, ืืขื ืืืื ืืขื ืืืืืืืงื ืคืฉื, ืืืขื ืืื ืืืื ื ืืฉื ืืื, ืืืืก ืืืจ ืืขืืืื, ืืื ืืขื ืืืืืืืงื ืคืฉื. ืื ืืขื ืืืื ืืื, ืืขื ืืืื ืคืืืฉ ืคืฉื, ืงืขื ืืขื ืฉืืื ื ืืฉื ืืืื. ืืื ืกืืจ ืขืืื ืฉืืืื ืืื ืกืืจ ืขืืื ืฉืืืื ืื ืฉืืฉ ืืืืขืื ืืื was ืืณ ืชืืื. Nu, nu, nu. And so the sun didn't The sun didn't set, because they were fighting the war and they have to finish, so the sun didn't set. So that day the sun It's ืืณ ืชืืื, the sun didn't set. Nu, nu, nu. So this what the Gemara says: every tzadik is, is like a sun that sets, and there's a new tzadik, but ืืณ ืชืืื it's... ืืืืก ืืืจืคืกืื ืืคืจืฉ ืืืื ืืืื ืชืืื? ืืื ืืื ื ืืฉื ืคืืจืฉืืื ืขื. ืคืืจ ืืืจ ืืื ืขืก ื ืืคืืจืฉ'ืข ืืืื ืชืืื. ืคืืจ ืงืืื ืขื ืืื ืขืก ื ืืฉื ืืืื ืชืืื. ืืืื ื ืืืืก, ืืืื ืชืืื? ืฉืืฉ ืืืืขืื ืืื ืืืจื ืืขืืง ืืืืืื. Yeah, but it happened