Lag BaOmer: Part 3
Rashbi was so great that even his own colleagues couldn't grasp his level -- so why did he insist that everyone celebrate his simcha?
Part of Days on the Jewish Calendar: Iyar · 16:54
On the semicha story showing Rav Shimon bar Yochai's greatness was beyond even his fellow students' comprehension, the seeming contradiction between that isolation and his demand that every Jew celebrate his yahrtzeit, and how his own two extreme positions -- Torah as one's entire vocation, yet a mere Shema counted as fulfilling the same pasuk -- show a rebbi who brought the highest down to the lowest.
Audio Transcript
Concerning the ืฉืืื of ืืดื ืืขืืืจ, we explained in the last ืฉืืขืืจ that there are many reasons. But the one reason we were talking about was the reason that this is the day that ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื passed away. And since the day that a ืฆืืืง passes away, all the ืชืืจื and ืขืืืื of that ืฆืืืง gathers together and shines and is strong on that day, therefore on ืืดื ืืขืืืจ, the ืขืืืื of ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื was very strong. And therefore, that is the day we are able and have a special ืื to take a lesson from the ways of ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื and to try to follow in his footsteps at least a little bit as much as possible. What was the specialty of ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื? So as we mentioned in the last ืฉืืขืืจ, the day that he passed away he said that all his lifetime he was ืืื ืงืืืจื ืืชืงืืจื ื, he was tied with one knot with ืืฉื, his ื ืฉืื was ืืื ืืืืื, was ืืืืื with ืืฉื, ืืื ืืืืื was desirable to ืืฉื, and also was ืืืืง to ืืฉื, etc., etc. And it's self-understood that on that day, the day that he passed away, all this was even stronger. His ืงืฉืจ, his knot so to speak, and his unity with ืืฉื was even stronger. As it says in the ืืืืจ there, ืืฃ ืจืฆืดื ืขืืื ืืณ, that when he passed away, he finished off by saying the ืคืกืืง, ืดืื ืฉื ืฆืื ืืฉืืด, and the ืคืกืืง continues, ืดืืช ืืืจืื ืืืื ืขื ืืขืืืืด. And he didn't manage, it says in the ืืืืจ there, to finish and say the word ืืืื. ืื ืกืืื ืืืฆืื ื ืงืืืฉื ืืืืืจ ืืืื. He didn't finish the word ืืืื, and that's when his ื ืฉืื left him. In other words, he finished off with the word ืืืื. That is to show that his whole lifetime was the fact that he was united with ืืฉื, who is ืืืืงืื ืืืื, and when he passed away, he remained connected to ืืฉื with a ืงืฉืจ ื ืฆืื, with an eternal ืงืฉืจ, and that's why he finished off, his ื ืฉืื left him when he said the word ืืืื. And since every year, when the same day comes around, the same things happen over again, as the ืคืกืืง says, ืดืืืืื ืืืื ื ืืืจืื ืื ืขืฉืืืด, these days are remembered and done, which means because they are remembered, that's why they are done, the same thing happens over again, so this of ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื takes place again every year on ืืดื ืืขืืืจ. And since every ืืื has a special connection to ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื, so every ืืื is able to take a lesson in this thing. To go a little bit more in detail of the ืขืืืื of ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื, it says in ืืจืืฉืืื ืืกืืช ืกื ืืืจืื ืคืจืง ืืณ ืืืื ืืณ that when ืจื ืขืงืืื gave ืกืืืื to his ืชืืืืืื, ืจื ืืืืจ and ืจื ืฉืืขืื, he said like this, ืืฉื ืจื ืืืืจ ืชืืืื, that ืจื ืืืืจ sit first. So it says there, ื ืชืืจืืื ืคื ื ืจื ืฉืืขืื, so the face of ืจื ืฉืืขืื became darkened, he felt bad. So ืจื ืขืงืืื said to him, ืืืื ืฉืื ื ืืืืจืื ืืืืจืื ืืืื, it's enough for you that I and your Creator recognize your power. Which means that he said to him the reason he couldn't put him in front is because the other ืชืืืืืื did not recognize his greatness, and they wouldn't understand why he put him first. So he says, \"I and your Creator and ืืฉื recognize your greatness.\"
Now this shows how great ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื was. Because concerning ืจื ืืืืจ, who did sit in front, it says in the ืืืจื in ืขืืจืืืื ืืฃ ืืดื ืขืืื ืืณ and ืืฃ ื ืดื ืขืืื ืืณ that ืฉืื ืืืื ืืืืจืื ืืขืืื ืขื ืกืืฃ ืืขืชื. The ืืืจืื of ืจื ืืืืจ could not enter into the depth of his ืืขืช, which means the ืืืืื did not understand the greatness of ืจื ืืืืจ, the greatness of his knowledge. Nevertheless, they understood enough that ืจื ืืืืจ should sit first. That's why when ืจื ืขืงืืื set them up, he put ืจื ืืืืจ first, because he knew that the ืืืืื would feel that ืจื ืืืืจ belongs first. So even though the ืืืืื did not understand the greatness of ืจื ืืืืจ, but that much understanding they did have in his greatness that he belongs first. But concerning ืจื ืฉืืขืื, his greatness was so deep that they didn't even have an understanding in his greatness. It's only as ืจื ืขืงืืื said, ืื ื ืืืืจืื ืืืืจืื ืืืื. Just me, ืจื ืขืงืืื. And ืจื ืขืงืืื we know was so great that it says in ืืืงืืื ืืฉืดืก of the ืืจืืืดื, ืกืืฃ ืืจืืืช, that he was parallel to ืืฉื, ืืืืืื. Concerning the ืขืฉืจื ืืจืืื ืืืืืช, the ten ืืืืื that were killed by the ืืืืืช, and they were ืื ืื the ten sons of ืืขืงื who sold ืืืกืฃ, and really they were not ten then, they were only nine there, the tenth they were ืืฆืจืฃ, they combined ืืฉื, so each one of the ืขืฉืจื ืืจืืื ืืืืืช was ืื ืื one of the ืฉืืืื. So it says there in ืืืงืืื ืืฉืดืก that ืจื ืขืงืืื was ืื ืื ืืฉื. So that's what he said to him, \"It's enough that your Creator and me,\" who is so great, ืจื ืขืงืืื was so great as we said before, he was ืื ืื ืืฉื, \"so we understand your greatness.\" But from here we see that most people could not understand his greatness, which means that ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื was so great, beyond the grasp even of his ืืืจืื, certainly beyond the grasp... grasp of anyone else, especially people from our generation. So ืืืืืจื, on one hand, how can we say that we are able to celebrate the ืฉืืื of ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื and take a lesson from his ืขืืืื, when he was so great that even the ืืืืื in his time did not have any understanding in his greatness? On the other hand, we know that ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื commanded, wanted, that the people should celebrate in the day of his ืฉืืื. As it says in ืืฉื ืช ืืกืืืื ืืกืืช ืืืืจ, ืคืจืง ื' ืืฉื ื ื', that ืืืื ืืดื ืืขืืืจ is ืืฆืื ืืฉืืื ืฉืืืช ืจืฉืืดื. It's a ืืฆืื to be happy with the ืฉืืื of ืจืฉืืดื. And it's told in ืคืจื ืขืฅ ืืืื, ืฉืขืจ ืกืคืืจืช ืืขืืืจ ืคืจืง ื', and brought down in ืฉืืืื ืขืจืื ืืืจืืืดื ืืืื ืืช ืืขืืืจ ื', that one of the ืชืืืืืื of the ืืจืืืดื, who used to say ื ืื everydayโwe say ื ืื only on ืชืฉืขื ืืื. ื ืื is a special ืชืคืืื ืืณ should comfort us and rebuild the ืืืช ืืืงืืฉ. So on ืชืฉืขื ืืื, when we really feel the ืืืจืื ืืืช ืืืงืืฉ, the destruction of the ืืืช ืืืงืืฉ, we say ื ืื. Now this ืชืืืื of the ืืจืืืดื, he used to say ื ืื everyday. And it's ืืฉืืข from there that he even used to say ื ืื on ืฉืืช and ืืื ืืื, because he really felt the ืืืจืื ืืืช ืืืงืืฉ. So everyday he ืืืืื ื to ืืณ to rebuild the ืืืช ืืืงืืฉ. He came on ืืดื ืืขืืืจ to ืืืจืื to be ืืฉืชืื on the ืงืืจ of ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื, and he said ื ืื there, too. So ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื was very upset and he punished this ืชืืืื of the ืืจืืืดื for saying ื ืื. And he said, \"Why isn't he ืฉืื ืืฉืืืชื? Why isn't he happy in my ืฉืืื? Why does he come to disturb my ืฉืืื by saying ื ืื?\" And the reason is very simple: ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื was so great, as brought down in ืกืคืจืื, that he was beyond the ืืืจืื. The ืืืจืื ืืืช ืืืงืืฉ, spiritually, did not affect him. So he didn't want that other people who come to celebrate his ืฉืืื should talk about the ืืืจืื at the time of his ืฉืืื. But what do we see from here? We see that ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื wanted everybody to celebrate his ืฉืืื. So ืืืืืจื, it seems like there is a
contradiction in ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื. On one hand, he was so great that nobody, not even the ืืืืื of his own time, were able to grasp his greatness. And at the same time, we say that everybody is supposed to celebrate the ืฉืืื of ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื as he wanted, which means that he has a ืงืฉืจ, a connection, to every single ืืื. And the answer is, this is exactly what ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื was. ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื was, on one hand, so great that his greatness was beyond anybody else, and at the same time, he brought down from his greatness to everybody, that every single person has the ืื to follow in his footsteps and take part of his greatness and act that same way. And therefore, he wanted that everybody should be ืฉืื ืืฉืืืชื, should be happy with his ืฉืืื, because his ืฉืืื has a connection to everybody. And the truth is, we see this concept in ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื's opinions in ืืืื, that on one hand we see the greatness of the great, and at the same time we see how much he lowered it down to everybody. The ืคืกืืง says, ืดืื ืืืืฉ ืกืคืจ ืืชืืจื ืืื ืืคืืืด. The ืคืกืืง in ืืืืฉืข ื' ื'. And in the ืืจืืืชื in ืืจืืืช ืืฃ ืืดื ืขืืื ื', we find a ืืืืืงืช. The ืคืกืืง means that a person should never leave the ืชืืจื, should always study ืชืืจื. So ืจืื ืืฉืืขืื says that it doesn't mean ืืืชืื, it doesn't mean exactly as it says, that every person should actually never stop learning ืชืืจื, but ืจืื ืืฉืืขืื says that ืื ืื ืืื ืื ืื ืืจื ืืจืฅ. You have to do your work also. ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื holds that it means ืืคืฉืืื, that a person should learn ืชืืจื a whole day. ืดืืืด, what will happen with all the person's work? So he says if the ืืืื do the ืจืฆืื of ืืณ, the will of ืืณ, ืดืืืืืชื ื ืขืฉืืช ืขื ืืื ืืืจืืืด. Others will do their work. And the ืืืจื says, ืดืืจืื ืขืฉื ืืจืื ืืฉืืขืื ืืขืืชื ืืืืืดโmany people did like ืจืื ืืฉืืขืื, which means they worked, they also learned ืชืืจื, they had a ืงืืืขืืช in the ืชืืจื, but most of their time they spent working, ืืขืืชื ืืืื, and they succeeded. But ืืจืื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื, many did like ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื, ืืื ืขืืชื ืืืื, they didn't succeed. ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื himself followed that way. He was ืชืืจืชื ืืืื ืืชื, as the ืืืจื says in ืฉืืช ืืฃ ืืดื ืขืืื ื'. His business, so to speak, his whole trade, his whole work, everything he did was only ืชืืจื. But for others, it was beyond them. But he himself, ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื, it seems on one hand held that that's the way it's supposed to be. On the other hand, we find in the ืืืจื ืฉืืช ืืฃ ืืดื ืขืืื ื' that when ืจื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื went out of the cave after the thirteenth year, when he went went out already permanently, and they would see a person getting involved in ืืื ืฉืขื, in work, so ืจ' ืืืขืืจ punished the person. He would look at him and the person would get burned, because he said, ืดืื ืืืื ืืื ืขืืื ืืขืืกืงืื ืืืื ืฉืขืืด. They're leaving the life, the eternal life, and they're getting involved in temporary life. Instead of learning ืชืืจื all day, they're working. And it says that wherever ืจ' ืืืขืืจ was ืืื, wherever he punished, so ืจ' ืฉืืขืื his father was ืืกื, cured, and he said to him, ืื ืืขืืื ืื ื ืืืชื, it's enough for the world, me and you. But most people can't be that way. So ืืืืืจื we see
two extremes in the opinions of ืจ' ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื. On one hand, ืจ' ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื said, and he acted that way, that a person is supposed to be the highest ืืืจืื, learn ืชืืจื, only learning ืชืืจื and nothing else, and at the same time he said, ืื ืืขืืื ืื ื ืืืชื. When we learn ืชืืจื all day, it's enough for the world, but not for everybody. And we see even more, in ืื ืืืช ืืฃ ืฆ\"ื ืขืืื ื', ืจ' ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื says, ืืคืืื ืื ืงืจื ืืื ืืื ืงืจืืืช ืฉืืข ืฉืืจืืช ืืขืจืืืช, even if a person only said the ืฉืืข in the morning and evening, ืงืืื ืื ืืืืฉ. He is ืืงืืื the ืคืกืืง where it says ืื ืืืืฉ ืกืคืจ ืืชืืจื ืืื ืืคืื, that the ืกืคืจ ืชืืจื should not go away from your mouth, you should always learn ืชืืจื. So we see that ืจ' ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื held that even if a person just says the ืคืกืืง, ืงืจืืืช ืฉืืข, in the morning and evening, and the rest of the time he's involved in work ืขื ืคื ืชืืจื because he has no other choice, he is ืืืฆื the ืืฆืื of ืชืืืื ืชืืจื all day. Because the rest of the time he is ืคืืืจ, because ืืื ืก ืจืืื ื ืคืืจืื. When a person is ืืื ืก, he's forced, the ืชืืจื ืคืืืจ's him. So since there is no choice, the ืชืืจื ืคืืืจ's him, and he is ืืงืืื the ืืฆืื of ืื ืืืืฉ. So we see here two extremes in ืจ' ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื. On one hand he says the best thing to do and the right thing would be to learn ืชืืจื all day, and at the same time he says if a person does not learn ืชืืจื all day, he gets involved in work ืขื ืคื ืชืืจื, then when he does learn, he's ืืงืืื the ืืฆืื of ืื ืืืืฉ. So what is the ืคืฉื? The ืคืฉื is that this is what ืจ' ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื stands for: to bring the highest ืืืจืืืช down to the lowest. On one hand he had the highest ืืืจืืืช and that was his own lifestyle, his own ืืืจืื, but he brought it down in such a way that could affect every single person. And as we see later, in the ืืืจื there when he came out of the cave, he asked, ืืืื ืืืืชื ืืืขื ืืชืงืื ื? Is there anything that I could be ืืชืงื, or anything I could fix? He didn't even wait for people to come to him and ask him for help. He himself went around looking is there anything that he could help. And they found that there was a place that the ืืื ืื could not pass because of ืืืืื, ืืืืืช ืืช. So he did something to avoid them the trouble of having to go around, etc. etc., and he helped them. So we see that ืจ' ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื not only did he not care about the world, but was completely removed from the world, isolated himself to a high ืืืจืื and did not have anything to do with the lower world, that is not so. He, when he came out of the cave, and he was at that time in the highest ืืืจืื, what he cared about, what can he do for the world? And he said, ืืืื ืืืืชื ืืืขื ืืชืงืื ื, is there something that the world needs that I could help the world, and make it easier for people not only in ืชืืจื ืืืฆืืืช, make it easier ืืืื ืืคืืื in ืืฉืืืืช'ืืืงืข things. Because ืจ' ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื's level was so great that he brought down from his high level to the lowest. As the ืืื goes, ืื ืืืืื ืืืืชืจ ืืืจื ืืืื ืืืืชืจ, the higher you are, the lower you could go. So he was so great that he was able to bring down from his ืืืจืืืช to the lowest ืืืจืืืช, and was able to lower himself also to the lowest people and the lowest places, to be able to help there and bring ืงืืืฉื there too. We also find the ืืืจื says in ืกืืื ืืฃ ื\"ื ืขืืื ื', that ืจ' ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื said, ืืืื ืื ื ืืคืืืจ ืืช ืื ืืขืืื ืืืื ืื ืืืื. I am able to free the whole world of any judgment. Which means that he has a ืืืืื ืืืืช, he could find certain underlying explanations of merit for all the people to take them away from any ืืื. They shouldn't be punished for any ืขืืืจื that they did. Now we can understand that when ืจ' ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื would get involved in this ืืืืื ืืืืช, he would have to lower himself from his high ืืืจืื, lower himself to the level of the ืขืืืจืืช of the people, which means get involved with them and try to be ืืืื ืืืืช for them. Nevertheless, he was ready to do that. Which was, in a way, even more than what happened by ืืฉื ืจืืื ื. By ืืฉื ืจืืื ื it says ืืฉื said to him, ืื ืจื, go down from your ืืืจืืืช. Because of the ืืืื who did a ืขืืืจื, you have to go down. But there he was forced to go down, he didn't choose it on his own. ืจ' ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื said he on his own is able to choose to come down and ืคืืืจ the whole world from ืืื, which means get involved with these people who do ืขืืืจืืช and try to elevate them, bring them out from their low level. And this is the greatness of ืจ' ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื. On one hand he is the greatest, and it says in ืืจืืฉืืื that not even the ืืืืื in his generation understood his greatness. Also, as the ืืืจื says that he said on himself, he is from the ืื ื ืขืืื, he is from the top people. And if there's only one great person in the world, it's himself, because it says ืฆืืืง ืืกืื ืขืืื, there's always one ืฆืืืง who is the greatest. And this wasn't ืืืื, self-understood, because he knew the truth. When a person is an ืขื ื, is humble, it doesn't mean that he doesn't know his ืืขืืืช, it just means that he thinks that if somebody else would have his background or his ืืืืืช or what Whatever it is, would be greater than him. But he definitely knew his ืืืจืื. So he knew that he was the greatest. So he was the greatest in the world, he was the ืฆืืืง ืืกืื ืขืืื. And at the same time, he lowered himself and he said that, \"I am able to pick up the people who did ืขืืืจืืช, pick them up, and ืคืืจ them ืื ืืืื.\" So he took from his high ืืืจืืืช and lowered it down very low. And therefore, he combined both opinions too. On one hand, he said the highest ืืืจืื and the best way is to learn ืชืืจื all day, and at the same time, he said that if a person is very low and is not able to learn all day, he's also ืืงืืื ืื ืืืืฉ. So this is also a ืืืืื ืืืืช on those people. He lowered himself to those people, tried to show that they are also great, and they're also ืืงืืื the ืขื ืื of ืื ืืืืฉ. And we also see that ืจืื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื, as we said before, who always lived a life of ืืื ืงืืืจื ืืชืงืืจื ื, with one knot I am tied to ืืฉื, ืืืื ืืืื, is ืืืืื with ืืฉื, and at the same time, he cared about helping other people who have a problem in not being able to walk and have to go roundabout and couldn't have a shortcut. This shows the greatness of ืจืื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื, that as great as he was, and he was the greatest, lowered himself to the lowest. From here, we take a lesson too, that this is the ืขืืืื that we're supposed to do, especially when it comes ืืดื ืืขืืืจ. And the ืื of the ืขืืืื of ืจืื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื is strong, and every person is able to take from him, because every person has a ื ืืฆืืฅ of ืจืื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื, as we said in the previous ืฉืืขืืจ. So everyone is supposed to follow in the footsteps of ืจืื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื to do the same: try and go to reach the highest ืืืจืืืช possible, learn the most ืชืืจื, do the most ืืฆืืช, to reach the highest spiritual ืืืจืื. But not to isolate himself and not to care about others, on the contrary, to take this highest ืืืจืืืช and bring it down to everybody who needs it, and try to bring ืงืืืฉื to the people who are low and to the world who is low, and by doing that, we'll be following the footsteps of ืจืื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื, and we will truly be ืืฉืื ืืฉืืืช ืจืื ืฉืืขืื ืื ืืืืื.