Month of Tevet
Why Chazal call Tevet a month when "the body has pleasure from the body" and how that coldest, driest month became a metaphor for Hashem's deepest connection to the Jewish people.
Part of Days on the Jewish Calendar: Tevet · 17:33
Chazal teach that Tevet, the coldest month of the year, is when "haguf neheneh min haguf," the body draws its greatest pleasure from another body, and the Megillah's account of Esther being brought to Achashveirosh specifically in Tevet carries this same idea as a mashal for Hashem's relationship with Klal Yisrael. Because summer's revealed nature makes it easy to sense Hashem's greatness while winter conceals it, serving Hashem in Tevet's cold demands more effort from the body, though never from the neshamah, which stays close to Hashem regardless of season, and that extra effort brings Him greater pleasure. This same word, guf, also means essence rather than body, revealing that even Hashem's deepest, nameless level delights in the avodah performed at the darkest, coldest point of the year, a point that also opens into the beginning of golus and the churban.
Audio Transcript
The 砖讬注讜专 today will be concerning the month of 讟讘转, because concerning 讟讘转, the 讙诪专讗 says in 诪讙讬诇讛 讚祝 讬\"讙 注诪讜讚 讗', concerning the 驻住讜拽 where it says in the 诪讙讬诇讛, 讜转诇拽讞 讗住转专 讗诇 讛诪诇讱 讗讞砖讜专讜砖, that 讗住转专 讛诪诇讻讛 was taken to the king 讗讞砖讜专讜砖, and it says when was she taken to 讗讞砖讜专讜砖, 讘讞讜讚砖 讛注砖讬专讬, the tenth month, 讛讜讗 讞讜讚砖 讟讘转, that was the month of 讟讘转. So the 讞讝\"诇 in the 讙诪专讗 诪讙讬诇讛 say, and 专砖\"讬 brings it down directly on the 驻住讜拽 in the 诪讙讬诇讛, that the specialty of the month of 讟讘转 is that this is a 讬专讞 砖讛讙讜祝 谞讛谞讛 诪谉 讛讙讜祝, a month that the body has pleasure from the body, which means that being that in the month of 讟讘转 it is very cold, as 专砖\"讬 explains, so therefore it is a time when the person could have the most pleasure from another person. Because when it's cold and you're all alone, so you feel the cold even more, but if there's another person there, then your body has pleasure and it doesn't feel the cold so much. And therefore, this is a month when a husband has pleasure and appreciates the most his wife. And that's why 讛砖诐 made it that 讗住转专 should be taken to 讗讞砖讜专讜砖 in the month of 讟讘转, so then would 讗讞砖讜专讜砖 appreciate it the most, and that would be another reason for him to choose her as his queen. Now we know that many times when we find 注谞讬谞讬诐 in the 转讜专讛 that deal with a husband and a wife, it is also a 诪砖诇 to 讛拽讚讜砖 讘专讜讱 讛讜讗 and 讻谞住转 讬砖专讗诇, it is also a 诪砖诇 concerning 讛砖诐 and 讻诇诇 讬砖专讗诇 and the 讘谞讬 讬砖专讗诇, because 讛砖诐 is compared to the husband, and the 讘谞讬 讬砖专讗诇 are like the wife of 讛砖诐. As we find many times in the 谞讘讬讗讬诐 that he compares 讛砖诐 to the husband and the 讘谞讬 讬砖专讗诇 to the wife. And as a matter of fact, the whole of 砖讬专 讛砖讬专讬诐 is based on this concept, because the whole of 砖讬专 讛砖讬专讬诐 is a discussion between a husband and a wife, and really all this is only a 诪砖诇 on 讛砖诐 and the 讘谞讬 讬砖专讗诇, as it is explained in 诪讚专砖讬 讞讝\"诇. Especially in this case, when we're talking about 讗讞砖讜专讜砖 and 讗住转专, we know in 住驻专讬诐 that 讗讞砖讜专讜砖 represents 讛砖诐, and 讗住转专 represents 讻谞住转 讬砖专讗诇, 讻诇诇 讬砖专讗诇. And therefore, when the 讞讝\"诇 say that in the month of 讟讘转, it's a time when the husband has the most 讛谞讗讛 and appreciates his wife the most, and in the case of the 诪讙讬诇讛, it was a time when 讗讞砖讜专讜砖 appreciated 讗住转专 the most, so certainly this is also a 诪砖诇 to tell us that during the month of 讟讘转, it's a time when 讛砖诐 appreciates the most the 讻诇诇 讬砖专讗诇, 讘谞讬 讬砖专讗诇.
Now the question is, what is so special about the month of 讟讘转 that 讛砖诐 appreciates the 讘谞讬 讬砖专讗诇 the most? Now we know it says in 住驻专讬诐 concerning the 驻住讜拽 where it says 讻讬 砖诪砖 讜诪讙谉 讛砖诐 讗诇拽讬诐, which is a 驻住讜拽 in 转讛诇讬诐, 拽驻讬讟诇 驻\"讚, 驻住讜拽 讬\"讘, which seems to be saying that just like we have the 砖诪砖 讜诪讙谉, the sun and the cover on the sun, the shield of the sun, so too is 讛砖诐, and he uses the name 讛讜讬'讛 there, the 砖诐 of 讛砖诐 which is 讬-拽-讜-拽, and 讗诇拽讬诐, that the 砖诐 of 讛砖诐, the name of 讛砖诐 讬-拽-讜-拽, is compared to the sun, and the name of 讛砖诐 which is 讗诇拽讬诐 is compared to the 诪讙谉, to the shield over the sun, as it is explained in 住驻专讬诐. At a time of the year when it is hot, it says in 住驻专讬诐 that's the time when in 专讜讞谞讬讜转, in the spiritual sense, the 砖诪砖 讛砖诐 is 诪讗讬专. Since everything that we have down here in this world, 讘讙砖诪讬讜转, comes as a result of the way the same things are in higher worlds, in 专讜讞谞讬讜转, so if 讘讙砖诪讬讜转 down here it is hotter and the sun shines stronger, it is because in 专讜讞谞讬讜转, the 砖诪砖 讛砖诐, the sun which represents 讛砖诐, is stronger. And we 讟讗拽注 see that during the summer, when it is hotter and the nature is stronger, it is easier to serve 讛砖诐. Because one of the ways to serve 讛砖诐 is, as the 驻住讜拽 says, 砖讗讜 诪专讜诐 注讬谞讬讻诐 讜专讗讜, pick up your eyes to heaven and see, and you could see 诪讬 讘专讗 讗诇讛, you could see who created everything. And the 驻住讜拽 also says 讛砖诪讬诐 诪住驻专讬诐 讻讘讜讚 拽诇, the heavens tell the 讻讘讜讚, the glory, the honor of 讛砖诐. Because when you look at the world and you see all the beautiful things the world has, and you start understanding that all this came from 讛砖诐, so this gives a person an understanding in the greatness of 讛砖诐. He realizes that 诪讛 专讘讜 诪注砖讬讱 讛砖诐, look how many your actions are, 诪讛 讙讚诇讜 诪注砖讬讱 讛砖诐, how great your actions are, and this brings a person to understand 讛砖诐 even more and to appreciate 讛砖诐 even more. So it comes out that during the summer, when the nature is at its best, so then a person is able to see 讛砖诐 more. But when it's cold, in the wintertime, and you don't see much of the nature in its highest 诪讚专讙讛, so then it is harder to see the greatness of 讛砖诐, because we don't see the greatness of the world, 诪诪讬诇讗 we cannot see the greatness of 讛砖诐 who created the world. This is also the reason why, on the other hand, during the summer, when it's hot, the 讬爪专 讛专注 is stronger, and the 转讗讜讜转, the physical desires of the person are more, because we know that 讝讛 诇注讜诪转 讝讛 注砖讛 讛砖诐, that 讛砖诐 made both sides, so to speak, one versus the other, and 讛砖诐 made a balance of power in the world, because otherwise there wouldn't be 讘讞讬专讛 讞驻砖讬转, a person wouldn't have free choice. So therefore, whenever we have 拽讚讜砖讛 stronger, at the same time the other side, the 住讟专讗 讗讞专讗, as we call it, the other side which fights 拽讚讜砖讛, is also stronger. And that's why during the summer the 转讗讜讜转 are stronger and the 讬爪专 讛专注 is stronger, because the 拽讚讜砖讛 at that time is stronger. And that is one of the reasons why during summertime we learn 驻专拽讬 讗讘讜转. One reason is because being that the 转讗讜讜转 are stronger, so that's when we have to strengthen ourselves in good 诪讬讚讜转 and in the 注谞讬谞讬诐 that are explained in 驻专拽讬 讗讘讜转. And then there is another reason that why we learn 驻专拽讬 讗讘讜转 during the summer, because that is a time when we're able easier to fulfill what it says in 驻专拽讬 讗讘讜转, being that it's hot and therefore the 砖诪砖 讛砖诐, the 砖诪砖, the sun, which represents 讛砖诐, is stronger. From that we understand that during the winter, when the 砖诪砖 is not so strong, so the 砖诪砖 讛砖诐 is also not so strong, and then it's a time when it is harder to reach the understanding in the truth of 讛砖诐 and in serving 讛砖诐. But because of that, 讛砖诐 has more pleasure when we serve him at that time than when we serve him at a time when it is easier, because we know 诇驻讜诐 爪注专讗 讗讙专讗, based on the 爪注专, based on the pain, based on the effort we put in, that's how much reward we get. And the more effort we put in, the more pleasure 讛砖诐 has from our 注讘讜讚讛, from our serving him, and therefore 讛砖诐 has more pleasure from our 注讘讜讚讛, from the service that the 讗讬讚谉 do to him at a time when it is not so easy, over the time when it is easier.
And that would be the 专诪讝 in the 讙诪专讗 that during the month of 讟讘转 it is 讛讙讜祝 谞讛谞讛 诪谉 讛讙讜祝, it's a time when the 讙讜祝, meaning the husband which is 讛砖诐, has pleasure from 讘谞讬 讬砖专讗诇, because then it is harder to serve 讛砖诐, and therefore when a 讗讬讚 nevertheless serves 讛砖诐, 讛砖诐 has more pleasure. And we see another 讚讬讜拽 here. The expression in the 讙诪专讗 is 讬专讞 砖讛讙讜祝 谞讛谞讛 诪谉 讛讙讜祝. It's a month that the 讙讜祝, the body, has pleasure from the body. It doesn't say the 诇砖讜谉 that it's a month when the husband has pleasure from his wife, etc. It uses the 诇砖讜谉 body. And this also fits with the idea that we were trying to bring out, because when we said before that there are times when it is easier for a person to serve 讛砖诐, and there are times when it is harder for him to serve 讛砖诐, all this is connected to the 讙讜祝, to the body of the person. 诪爪讚 the 谞砖诪讛 of the person, 诪爪讚 the holy soul that a 讗讬讚 has, which is actually a part of 讛砖诐, as the 驻住讜拽 says, 讻讬 讞诇拽 讛砖诐 注诪讜, that his nation, the 讗讬讚谉, are part of 讛砖诐, which means the fact that a 讗讬讚 is a 讗讬讚, which comes because he has a 谞砖诪讛 拽讚讜砖讛, a holy 谞砖诪讛, that is part of 讛砖诐. And as the expression used in 讗讬讜讘, 拽驻讬讟诇 诇状讗, 驻住讜拽 讘壮, that it's a 讞诇拽 讗诇讜拽 诪诪注诇, it's part of 讛砖诐 from above. So being a 讗讬讚 has a 谞砖诪讛 which is part from 讛砖诐 above, 诪爪讚 the 谞砖诪讛 he is always close to 讛砖诐. 诪爪讚 the 谞砖诪讛 he is always able to serve 讛砖诐. It is never hard to serve 讛砖诐. When we say that sometimes it is harder for a 讗讬讚 to serve 讛砖诐, it is only because he has a 讙讜祝, he has a body, the 谞砖诪讛 was put into his body, and 诪爪讚 the body it is not so easy to serve 讛砖诐. So therefore, when we make differences that certain times of the year it is easier to serve 讛砖诐, and certain times is harder, it is not because of the 谞砖诪讛, but it is because of the 讙讜祝, it is because of the body. So when we say that during the month of 讟讘转 讛砖诐 has pleasure from the 注讘讜讚讛 of the 讗讬讚谉, because then it's harder to serve 讛砖诐, so the main pleasure he has from the 讙讜祝. It is not so much he has pleasure from the 谞砖诪讛, because as far as the 谞砖诪讛 is concerned, it is not harder. It is only harder 诪爪讚 the 讙讜祝. Since the body does not feel the truth of Godliness, the body needs other things to make it understand the truth of 讛砖诐 and be able to serve 讛砖诐, so when the body does not have that ability so much, and nevertheless overcomes the difficulties and serves 讛砖诐, that's when 讛砖诐's pleasure. So 讛砖诐 has pleasure from the 讙讜祝, from the body. And therefore, this is during the wintertime, because during the summer, when the 砖诪砖 讛砖诐 is It, so it is easier for the body to recognize the greatness of 讛砖诐. So the 注讘讜讚转 讛砖诐 doesn't need so much effort, so the pleasure is not that great. During the winter time, when it's harder to recognize the greatness of 讛砖诐, which means that it's harder for the body to recognize the greatness of 讛砖诐, and nevertheless the 讗讬讚 does it, so that's when 讛砖诐 has pleasure from the body. And within the winter months itself, there is a difference between the month of 讟讘转 and other months. In the other months, since it is not that cold, that means that then it is nevertheless not as hard to serve 讛砖诐, the body does not feel the lack in its connection to 讛砖诐 as much as it does in the time when it's very, very cold. In the month of 讟讘转, as 专砖状讬 says in 驻专砖转 谞讞, 拽驻讬讟诇 讞壮 驻住讜拽 讻状讘, that is the coldest time of the year. So since the 讙砖诪讬讜转, physically that is the coldest time of the year, the sun shines the least of the whole year, that means that in 专讜讞谞讬讜转 it's a time when the 砖诪砖 讛砖诐 is not 诪讗讬专, doesn't shine that much, it's a time of the year when it's the hardest for the person to see the greatness of 讛砖诐. Being that's the time when the nature is at its lowest, 诪诪讬诇讗 to recognize the 诪讛 专讘讜 诪注砖讬讱 讛砖诐, 诪讛 讙讚诇讜 诪注砖讬讱 讛砖诐 is the hardest at that time. And that's why it says that when does 讛砖诐 have the most pleasure from the 讙讜祝 of the 讗讬讚, which means from the 讗讬讚 serving 讛砖诐 and overcoming the hardships of his body, of his 讙讜祝, is 讚讜讜拽讗 in the month of 讟讘转. And that's why that's the time when 讛讙讜祝 谞讛谞讛 诪谉 讛讙讜祝, that's when 讛砖诐, who is like the husband, has the most pleasure from the 讙讜祝 of the 讗讬讚谉, from the fact that the 讗讬讚谉 don't care that it's hard for them to serve 讛砖诐, nevertheless they serve 讛砖诐, and that's when 讛砖诐 has the most pleasure. But this only explains why concerning the 讘谞讬 讬砖专讗诇 the 诇砖讜谉 is 讙讜祝.
But we also see that when it refers to the husband, which in the 谞诪砖诇 would mean 讛砖诐, there also it refers to the 诇砖讜谉 讙讜祝. The 诇砖讜谉 is when the 讙讜祝 谞讛谞讛 诪谉 讛讙讜祝, when the body has 讛谞讗讛 from the body. So we explained why when it refers to 讘谞讬 讬砖专讗诇 in the 谞诪砖诇, it uses the 诇砖讜谉 讙讜祝, but why does he also use the 诇砖讜谉 讙讜祝 concerning 讛砖诐? Now we know that the word 讙讜祝 means body, but the word 讙讜祝 also means the essence, the thing itself. As we find a 诇砖讜谉 a lot of times, 讙讜驻讬 讛诇讻讜转. 讙讜驻讬 讛诇讻讜转 means the essence, the depth of the 讛诇讻讜转. Or we find a 诇砖讜谉 讙讜驻讗 讚诪诇讻讗, the 讙讜祝 of the king, which means not the body, but it means the essence of it. Or we find a 诇砖讜谉 sometimes in 讙诪专讗, 讙讜驻讗 讚注讜讘讚讗, which means the thing the way it actually happened, essentially the way it happened. So when we refer to 讛砖诐 here with the expression 讙讜祝, we mean to say that the 讙讜祝 of 讛砖诐, 讛砖诐 Himself, the way He is 诪爪讚 Himself, He has pleasure from the 注讘讜讚讛 that the 讗讬讚谉 do during the winter that they overcome their 讙讜祝. Because we know that 讛砖诐 reveals Himself to the world and connects Himself to the world in many different ways. And that is why 讛砖诐 has different names, as it says in the 诪讚专砖 that 讛砖诐 is 诇驻讬 诪注砖讬 讗谞讬 谞拽专讗. 讛砖诐 said that according to My actions, that's how I am called. When 讛砖诐 expresses His 诪讬讚讛 of 专讞诪讬诐, He is called 讛讜讬壮, 讬讜状讚 拽状讗 讜讗状讜 拽状讗. When He expresses the 诪讬讚转 讛讚讬谉, then He is called 讗诇拽讬诐, as we know. When He expresses 讞住讚, as it says in 住驻专讬诐, He is called with the name 拽诇. So every name expresses a different way 讛砖诐 reveals Himself and the way 讛砖诐 acts. And that is why 讛砖诐 has many names, because 讛砖诐 connects Himself to the world and does different things, and each name represents a different way 讛砖诐 does things, and therefore He has many names. And that is what it says in the 砖讜诇讞谉 注专讜讱, that when we make a 讘专讻讛, we say 讘专讜讱 讗转讛 讛砖诐 讗诇拽讬谞讜, the 讻讜讜谞讛 we have to have is 讛砖诐 is 讛讬讛 讛讜讛 讜讬讛讬讛 讻讗讞讚. This refers to 讛砖诐 the way He is beyond nature, and therefore in this one word of 讬讜状讚 拽状讗 讜讗状讜 拽状讗, we have a combination of past, present, and future, which is beyond nature if you have them all together, because naturally you can't have past, present, and future together. So this refers to 讛砖诐 beyond nature. 讗诇拽讬谞讜, when we say, refers to 讛砖诐 the way He is our power, the way He gives the life to the world, as it says in 砖讜诇讞谉 注专讜讱. So all these different names represent 讛砖诐 the way He connects Himself to us. But then we have the way 讛砖诐 is beyond all that, and that is the first word of the 讘专讻讛, 讘专讜讱 讗转讛 讛砖诐 讗诇拽讬谞讜. When we say 讗转讛, You, that is even beyond the way 讛砖诐 is within the name 讛讜讬壮. As 讛砖诐 said by the 注砖专转 讛讚讘专讜转, 讗谞讻讬 讛砖诐 讗诇拽讬讱. First He said 讗谞讻讬, I, and then He said 讛讜讬壮, He said 讛砖诐 with the name 讛讜讬壮, and then He said 讗诇拽讬讱. And it says in the 讝讜讛专 that the word 讗谞讻讬 represents sents 讛砖诐 the way he is even higher than the way he comes down to the world as 专讞诪讬诐 or as 讚讬谉. And that's why he is only referred to as 讗谞讻讬, he calls himself I, because that level has no name. Because, as we said before, a name expresses a certain action. So it's only the way 讛砖诐 acts. But if we talk about 讛砖诐 the way he is essentially, then we have no name. And that's what the 讝讜讛专 says, that 讗谞讻讬 represents 讛砖诐 in such a way that 诇讗 讬砖转专诪讬讝, 诇讗 讘砖讜诐 讗讜转, 讜诇讗 讘砖讜诐 拽讜抓, 讜诇讗 讘砖讜诐 砖诐. As the way 讛砖诐 cannot be hinted not with any hint, not with any sign, and not with any name. And that is 讗谞讻讬. When 讛砖诐 spoke to us he used the term 讗谞讻讬. When we speak to him and we make a 讘专讻讛, we say 讘专讜讱 讗转讛. So we use the word 讗转讛, which is even higher than the 砖诐 讛讜讬讛 of 讛砖诐. And this is what the 讙诪专讗 is trying to tell us according to this 驻砖讟, that when 讛砖诐 has pleasure from the 讗讬讚's 注讘讜讚讛, especially when it's hard for a 讗讬讚 to do 注讘讜讚讛, and the body, so to speak, doesn't allow it so much, and nevertheless he overcomes the hardship and serves 讛砖诐, so 讛砖诐 himself, essentially, not only the way he is when he connects himself to the world, but 讛砖诐 the way he is on the highest level the way he is in himself, has pleasure from the 注讘讜讚转 讛砖诐 that the 讗讬讚 does. And that's why the 讙诪专讗 uses the 诇砖讜谉 that in the month of 讟讘转, it's a month, a 讬专讞 砖讛讙讜祝 谞讛谞讛 诪谉 讛讙讜祝. It's a time when the 讙讜祝, which means the essence of 讛砖诐, as we said before that the word 讙讜祝 means the essence. The essence of 讛砖诐 the way he is beyond any connection to the world, has pleasure from the 讙讜祝 of the 讗讬讚, which means has pleasure from the fact that the 讗讬讚 is able to overcome his 讙讜祝 and serve 讛砖诐 properly. Even though it's a time of the year when it is the hardest for him to serve 讛砖诐.
And as we 讟讗拽注 see that during the month of 讟讘转 we read in the 转讜专讛 concerning the 讬专讬讚讛 to 讙诇讜转 诪爪专讬诐 and concerning 讙诇讜转 诪爪专讬诐, because that's the time of the year when the 拽讚讜砖讛 is the least, and that's what 讙诇讜转 is, 讙诇讜转 represents a time when the 砖讻讬谞讛 is also in 讙诇讜转. And that is also why we see that 注砖专讛 讘讟讘转, which was the beginning of the 讞讜专讘谉 讘讬转 讛诪拽讚砖 when 谞讘讜讻讚谞爪专 surrounded 讬专讜砖诇讬诐, is also in the month of 讟讘转, because the month of 讟讘转 is a time when it's the hardest to get close to 讛砖诐, the 砖讻讬谞讛 is the least revealed. So when a 讗讬讚 at that time nevertheless serves 讛砖诐 properly, 讛砖诐 has the greatest pleasure. And that's what the 讙诪专讗 means when it says that the month of 讟讘转 is a 讬专讞 砖讛讙讜祝 谞讛谞讛 诪谉 讛讙讜祝.