Sotah 17
Why God's Name Is Erased for the Sake of Peace
Part of Sotah: chapter 2 · 45:17
Covers the halachic debate over exactly which verses are written into the sotah scroll, and the chassidic teaching that a husband and wife together create a dwelling place for the Divine Presence.
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Jewish Audio on Chabad.org. Today's 砖讬注讜专 will be in 诪住讻转 住讜讟讛 讚祝 讬"讝, from the beginning of 注诪讜讚 讗, from the beginning of the 诪砖谞讛. The 诪砖谞讛 starts, 讘讗 诇讜 诇讻转讜讘 讗转 讛诪讙讬诇讛, when he came to write the 诪讙讬诇讛, 诪讗讬讝讛 诪拽讜诐 讛讜讗 讻讜转讘, from which place did he write? By the 住讜讟讛 they had to write certain 驻住讜拽讬诐 on a piece of parchment, then they would erase these 驻住讜拽讬诐 into the water, and then the 住讜讟讛 would drink that water. So the 诪砖谞讛 asks, which 驻住讜拽讬诐 of the 转讜专讛 did they write on this 诪讙讬诇讛? And in the 诪砖谞讛 we will have different opinions. And mainly we deal here with four 驻住讜拽讬诐. This is in 驻专砖转 谞砖讗, 拽讗驻讬讟诇 讛, 驻住讜拽 讬"讟, 讻, 讻"讗, and 讻"讘. 驻住讜拽 讬"讟 starts with the words, 讜讛砖讘讬注 讗讜转讛 讛讻讛谉, the 讻讛谉 should make her swear, 讜讗诪专 讗诇 讛讗砖讛, he would say to the woman, 讗诐 诇讗 砖讻讘 讗讬砖 讗讜转讱, if a man didn't sleep with you, 讜讗诐 诇讗 砖讟讬转 讟讜诪讗讛 转讞转 讗讬砖讱, and if you didn't turn away and become 讟诪讗 under your husband, 讛谞拽讬 诪诪讬 讛诪专讬诐 讛诪讗专专讬诐 讛讗诇讛, so you should be clean from the these bitter and these waters that curse others. Then 驻住讜拽 讻 says, 讜讗转 讻讬 砖讟讬转 转讞转 讗讬砖讱, if you did turn away under your husband, 讜讻讬 谞讟诪讗转, and you did become 讟诪讗, 讜讬转谉 讗讬砖 讘讱 讗转 砖讻讘转讜 诪讘诇注讚讬 讗讬砖讱, and a man slept with you other than your husband. So 驻住讜拽 讻"讗 continues, 讜讛砖讘讬注 讛讻讛谉 讗转 讛讗砖讛, the 讻讛谉 should make the woman swear, 讘砖讘讜注转 讛讗诇讛, in the oath of the curse, 讜讗诪专 讛讻讛谉 诇讗砖讛, and the 讻讛谉 should say to the woman, 讬转谉 讛' 讗讜转讱 诇讗诇讛 讜诇砖讘讜注讛 讘转讜讱 注诪讱, 讛' should give you for a curse and for a oath amongst your nation, 讘转转 讛', when 讛' will give, 讗转 讬专讻讱 谞讜驻诇转, your thigh would be falling, 讜讗转 讘讟谞讱, and your stomach, 爪讘讛, would swell up. Then 驻住讜拽 讻"讘 says, 讜讘讗讜 讛诪讬诐 讛诪讗专专讬诐 讛讗诇讛 讘诪注讬讱, and these waters that curse will go into your stomach, 诇爪讘讜转 讘讟谉, to swell up the stomach, 讜诇谞驻讬诇 讬专讱, and to drop the thigh, 讜讗诪专讛 讛讗砖讛 讗诪谉 讗诪谉, and the woman should say 讗诪谉 讗诪谉. Then we have another 驻住讜拽 which is not 谞讜讙注 in the 诪砖谞讛, but it will be important in the 讙诪专讗, the next 驻住讜拽 which is 驻住讜拽 讻"讙 that says, 讜讻转讘 讗转 讛讗诇讜转 讛讗诇讛 讛讻讛谉 讘住驻专, that the 讻讛谉 should write these curses down on a 住驻专, 讜诪讞讛, and he should erase it, 讗诇 诪讬 讛诪专讬诐, into the bitter waters. And then the 驻住讜拽 continues that the woman, the 住讜讟讛, should drink from the water that has the words of this 诪讙讬诇讛 erased into it. And this is what the 诪砖谞讛 will discuss: from which of these 驻住讜拽讬诐 does he start writing the 诪讙讬诇讛? So the
first opinion in the 诪砖谞讛 is, 诪讗诐 诇讗 砖讻讘 讗讬砖 讜讙讜诪专, he starts from the first first 驻住讜拽 that we mentioned before which is 讬"讟, not from the beginning of the 驻住讜拽, but from the words where it says, 讗诐 诇讗 砖讻讘 讗讬砖 讗讜转讱, that if a man did not sleep with you, etc., and you write this complete 驻住讜拽 where it says that if you did not become 讟诪讗 under your husband, you should be clean from these bitter waters that curse. And the reason we write this 驻住讜拽, even though this is not a curse, this is a 讘专讻讛, this is saying that if she is clean, she should be clean from the waters, she should not be punished. But nevertheless, since this 驻住讜拽 seems to imply that if she did become 讟诪讗, then she should be cursed, so these are 拽诇诇讜转, curses that come from the understanding of the 讘专讻讜转. So therefore, you write this 驻住讜拽 too. Then we continue with the next 驻住讜拽, 讜讗转 讻讬 砖讟讬转 转讞转 讗讬砖讱, that you if you did turn away under your husband and you did become 讟诪讗. So you write that 驻住讜拽 too till the end of the 驻住讜拽. Then he says, 讜讗讬谞讜 讻讜转讘 讜讛砖讘讬注 讛讻讛谉 讗转 讛讗砖讛. When you come to the third 驻住讜拽, you don't start by writing the first words of the 驻住讜拽 where it says that the 讻讛谉 should make the woman swear in the 砖讘讜注转 讛讗诇讛, in the 砖讘讜注讛 of the curse, and the 讻讛谉 should say to the woman, 讬转谉 讛' 讗讜转讱. You skip the beginning of the 驻住讜拽, 讜讻讜转讘, but you do write, you continue writing the rest of the 驻住讜拽 where it says, 讬转谉 讛' 讗讜转讱 诇讗诇讛 讜诇砖讘讜注讛, that 讛' should give you for a curse and for an oath. And he continues with the 驻住讜拽 till the end of the 驻住讜拽. And then you continue with the next 驻住讜拽, 讜讘讗讜 讛诪讬诐 讛诪讗专专讬诐 讛讗诇讛 讘诪注讬讱, that these waters that curse should come into your stomach, 诇爪讘讜转 讘讟谉 讜诇谞驻讬诇 讬专讱, to swell up your stomach and to have your thigh drop, and then 讜讗讬谞讜 讻讜转讘 讜讗诪专讛 讛讗砖讛 讗诪谉 讗诪谉, and the end of the 驻住讜拽 where it says that the woman should say 讗诪谉 讗诪谉 you skip, that you do not write. And the reason for that is, because you only write the curses, but you do not write the part of the 驻住讜拽 where the 转讜专讛 tells the 讻讛谉 what to do, or tells the woman what to do. And therefore, in the second the third 驻住讜拽, 驻住讜拽 讻"讗, where the 驻住讜拽 starts off by saying that the 讻讛谉 should make the woman swear, and the 讻讛谉 should say to the woman, this is all not written in the 诪讙讬诇讛. This is what the 转讜专讛 tells the 讻讛谉 to do. And therefore, too, at the end of the fourth 驻住讜拽, where it says that the woman should say 讗诪谉 讗诪谉, that is not written in the 诪讙讬诇讛 either, because that is something that the 转讜专讛 commands the woman to say, but this is not part of the curses. This is the opinion of the first 诪讗谉 讚讗诪专 in the 诪砖谞讛, and as we see later on in the 讙诪专讗, this is 专讘讬 诪讗讬专, because whenever we do not have a name in the 诪砖谞讛, we assume that 住转诐 诪砖谞讛 专讘讬 诪讗讬专, that the 诪砖谞讛 that is written without a name is 专讘讬 诪讗讬专, as the 讙诪专讗 says in 住谞讛讚专讬谉. So the opinion of 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 is that you write all the 驻住讜拽讬诐, except those words that imply what the 讻讛谉 should do, or what the woman should do.
专讘讬 讬讜住讬 讗讜诪专, but 专讘讬 讬讜住讬 says, 诇讗 讛讬讛 诪驻住讬拽, he didn't interrupt. He started from the first 驻住讜拽, as we said before, from the words, 讗诐 诇讗 砖讻讘 讗讬砖 讗讜转讱, and he continued all the way through all four 驻住讜拽讬诐, including those words that tell the 讻讛谉 what to do, and including the words that tell the woman what to do. In other words, he would go all the way through till the words 讜讗诪专讛 讛讗砖讛 讗诪谉 讗诪谉, including these words too. 专讘讬 讬讛讜讚讛 讗讜诪专, 专讘讬 讬讛讜讚讛 says, 讻诇 注爪诪讜 讗讬谞讜 讻讜转讘 讗诇讗 讬转谉 讛砖诐 讗讜转讱 诇讗诇讛 讜诇砖讘讜注讛 讜讙讜诪专, and he wouldn't write the first and the second 驻住讜拽 at all. He would only write beginning in middle of the third 驻住讜拽, where it says 讬转谉 讛砖诐 讗讜转讱 诇讗诇讛 讜诇砖讘讜注讛, because the first 驻住讜拽, where it says that if you are clean, you should be clean from these waters, that is not a curse. And therefore, 专讘讬 讬讛讜讚讛 holds you didn't write that 驻住讜拽. You started from the curses themselves 诪诪砖, and that is in middle of the third 驻住讜拽, where the 驻住讜拽 says 讛砖诐 should give you for a curse, and for a 砖讘讜注讛, etc., that your thigh should fall, and your stomach should blow up. And then you would continue to the next 驻住讜拽, where it says 讜讘讗讜 讛诪讬诐 讛诪讗专专讬诐 讛讗诇讛 讘诪注讬讱 讜讙讜诪专, that these waters that curse should come into your stomach, etc. And you would go till the words 讜诇谞驻讜诇 讬专讱, 讜讗讬谞讜 讻讜转讘 讜讗诪专讛 讛讗砖讛 讗诪谉 讗诪谉, and he would not write the last words of that 驻住讜拽, where it says that the woman should say 讗诪谉 讗诪谉. In other words, according to 专讘讬 讬讛讜讚讛, you would start only from the middle of the third 驻住讜拽, and go to the middle of the fourth 驻住讜拽. 讙诪专讗 continues, 讘诪讗讬 拽诪讬驻诇讙讬, what is the argument between these different opinions?
讙诪专讗 says, 讘讛讗讬 拽专讗 拽诪讬驻诇讙讬, their argument is based on this following 驻住讜拽. And this is that fifth 驻住讜拽 that we mentioned before. The 驻住讜拽 says, after it mentions all the curses, it says, 讜讻转讘 讗转 讛讗诇转 讛讗诇讛 讛讻讛谉 讘住驻专, that the 讻讛谉 should write these curses on a 住驻专. So 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 住讘专, 专讘讬 诪讗讬专, who is the first opinion of the 诪砖谞讛, he holds that we 讚专砖 it as follows: When it says you should write the curses, so the word 讗诇转 itself, without the 讛壮, 讛讗诇转, just the word 讗诇转, curses, means 讗诇转 诪诪砖, would refer to the curses themselves, would refer to only those words where the 转讜专讛 says, 讬转谉 讛砖诐 讗讜转讱 诇讗诇讛 讜诇砖讘讜注讛, 讛砖诐 should give you for a curse, and the water should come into your stomach to blow up your stomach, and to drop your thigh, just these words, exactly as the opinion of 专讘讬 讬讛讜讚讛. But since the 转讜专讛 says 讛讗诇转, there's an extra 讛壮 to the word curses, the curses, that comes to include more, 诇专讘讜转 拽诇诇讜转 讛讘讗讜转 诪讞诪转 讘专讻讜转, that comes to include that you also have to write those curses that are understood from the 讘专讻讜转. And therefore, he holds that you start from the first 驻住讜拽, where it says 讗诐 诇讗 砖讻讘 讗讬砖 讗讜转讱, that if you did not sleep with a man, and you are clean, so you should be clean from these waters, because this like implies that if you are not clean, you should not be clean from these waters. So these are 拽诇诇讜转 that come from 讘专讻讜转. So if not for the extra 讛壮, we wouldn't write them. But since it says 讛讗诇转, the curses, so the 讛壮 comes to include also the curses that come from the 讘专讻讜转. Then the 转讜专讛 says 讗诇讛. It says 讛讗诇转 讛讗诇讛, you should write these curses. 诇诪讬注讜讟讬 拽诇诇讜转 砖讘诪砖谞讛 转讜专讛, that comes to exclude the curses of 讞讜诪砖 讚讘专讬诐. If it wouldn't say the words 讛讗诇讛, these, if it would just say 讜讻转讘 讗转 讛讗诇转 讛讻讛谉 讘住驻专, that the 讻讛谉 should write the curses on a 住驻专, I would think that this also includes all the other curses, because in 驻专砖转 讻讬 转讘讜讗 in 讞讜诪砖 讚讘专讬诐, we find many curses that 讛砖诐 cursed the 讬讬讚谉 if 讞住 讜砖诇讜诐 they will not keep the 转讜专讛 讜诪爪讜讜转. So I would think that all those curses have to be written down in this 诪讙讬诇讛. Therefore, the 转讜专讛 says that you write these curses to exclude those curses. Then the 转讜专讛 says 讛讗诇讛. If it would have just said 讜讻转讘 讜讻转讘 讗转 讛讗诇讜转 讗诇讛, these curses, I would already exclude the curses of 讞讜诪砖 讚讘专讬诐. Since the 转讜专讛 adds a extra 讛 to the 讗诇讛, to the word 讗诇讛, it says 讛讗诇讛, 诇诪注讜讟讬 爪讜讜讗讜转 讜拽讘诇讜转 住诪讬. That comes to exclude something else: to exclude the command to the 讻讛谉 and the acceptance of the woman. In other words, when you start writing from the first 驻住讜拽, from the words 讗诐 诇讗 砖讻讘 讗讬砖 讗讜转讱, so I would think you write straight through from there till the end where it says 讜讗诪专讛 讛讗砖讛 讗诪谉 讗诪谉. By the letter 讛 to the word 讛讗诇讛, it comes to teach us that you have to skip those words that are only commands to the 讻讛谉 and are the acceptance of the woman. And therefore we skip the words 讜讛砖讘讬注 讛讻讛谉 讗转 讛讗砖讛 讘砖讘讜注转 讛讗诇讛 讜讗诪专 讛讻讛谉 诇讗砖讛, we skip these words, and we also skip the words 讜讗诪专讛 讛讗砖讛 讗诪谉 讗诪谉. That is the opinion of 专讘 诪讗讬专. That's where he comes out with his opinion that you start from the beginning of 讜讗诐 诇讗 砖讻讘 讗讬砖 讗讜转讱 till the words 讜诇谞驻讜诇 讬专讱, skipping 讜讛砖讘讬注 讛讻讛谉 and not writing 讜讗诪专讛 讛讗砖讛 讗诪谉 讗诪谉. 专讘讬 讬讜住讬, what is the opinion of 专讘讬 讬讜住讬? He holds 讻讜诇讜 讻讚拽讗诪专转, exactly as you say that you write everything. But what you said that the letter 讛 comes to exclude the commands and comes to exclude the acceptance of the woman, he says it doesn't come to exclude that. Since it says 讗转, the 转讜专讛 says 讜讻转讘 讗转 讛讗诇讜转, the extra word 讗转, 诇专讘讜转 爪讜讜讗讜转 讜拽讘诇讜转, that comes to include, to add that you also have to write the commands and the acceptance of the woman. And even though from the 讛 of 讛讗诇讛 we would think that you don't write the 爪讜讜讗讜转, the commands and the acceptance of the woman, comes the word 讗转 to teach us that you write them too. And therefore he holds that you write from the beginning 讗诐 诇讗 砖讻讘 讗讬砖 讗讜转讱 till 讜讗诪专讛 讛讗砖讛 讗诪谉 讗诪谉, including the words 讜讛砖讘讬注 讛讻讛谉 and including the words 讜讗诪专讛 讛讗砖讛 讗诪谉 讗诪谉. But the question is with 专讘 诪讗讬专: why does 专讘 诪讗讬专 say that you exclude those few words? Doesn't it say 讗转? And as we just said, 讗转 comes to include that you write them too. And the 讙诪专讗 answers: 讗转讬诐 诇讗 讚专讬砖. 专讘 诪讗讬专 does not 讚专砖 the 讗转. He feels that the 讗转 is just a regular way of writing, the 转讜专讛 doesn't mean to tell us any special 讚讬谉 with the word 讗转. Then we go to the opinion of 专讘讬 讬讛讜讚讛. What does 专讘讬 讬讛讜讚讛 hold? That you only start from the third 驻住讜拽 讬转谉 讛砖诐 讗讜转讱 诇讗诇讛 讜诇砖讘讜注讛 till the middle of the next 驻住讜拽 讜诇谞驻讜诇 讬专讱, because he says 讻讜诇讛讜 讘诪讬注讜讟讗 讚专讬砖 诇讛讜. All these extra words that the 转讜专讛 says in the 驻住讜拽 讜讻转讘 讗转 讛讗诇讜转 in the fifth 驻住讜拽, he 讚专砖'es it not like before we said we include certain 驻住讜拽讬诐 because of those words, he says that these words comes to exclude. When it says 讗诇讜转, the 转讜专讛 says you should write these curses, so if it would just say 讗诇讜转, write the curses, we would say 讗诇讜转 诪诪砖, just actually the curses from the words 讬转谉 讛砖诐 讗讜转讱 诇讗诇讛 讜诇砖讘讜注讛, 讛砖诐 should give you for a curse, etc., into the next 驻住讜拽 that the water should come into you to swell up your stomach and to drop your thigh. But now that it says 讛讗诇讜转 with a 讛, that comes 诇诪注讜讟讬 拽诇诇讜转 讛讘讗讜转 诪讞诪转 讘专讻讜转, comes to exclude the 拽诇诇讜转 that are learned out from the 讘专讻讜转. It doesn't come to include them, it comes to exclude them, to tell us that don't think that you should write the first 驻住讜拽 too, where it says that if you are clean the water should not affect you, but it comes to exclude that we shouldn't write it. Then we have the word 讗诇讛. It says 讜讻转讘 讗转 讛讗诇讜转 讛讗诇讛, these curses, so he learns the same: 诇诪注讜讟讬 拽诇诇讜转 砖讘诪砖谞讛 转讜专讛. Comes to exclude the curses of 讞讜诪砖 讚讘专讬诐. But that would be if it would just say 讗诇讛. Now that it says 讛讗诇讛, 诇诪注讜讟讬 爪讜讜讗讜转 讜拽讘诇讜转, it comes to exclude the commands and the acceptance of the woman. So according to this way of learning the 驻住讜拽, all we're left with is the 拽诇诇讜转 诪诪砖, the actual curses from the words 讬转谉 讛砖诐 讗讜转讱 诇讗诇讛 讜诇砖讘讜注讛 through the middle of the next 驻住讜拽 诇爪讘讜转 讘讟谉 讜诇谞驻讜诇 讬专讱. Then the 讙诪专讗 asks a 拽讜砖讬讗:
讜诇专讘 诪讗讬专, according to 专讘 诪讗讬专, 诪讗讬 砖谞讗 讛讗讬 讛 讚诪专讘讬 讘讬讛 讜诪讗讬 砖谞讗 讛讗讬 讛 讚诪诪注讟 讘讬讛? Why is it that one 讛 he uses to include certain things, to add certain things, and the other 讛 he uses to exclude? As we said before, the 讛 of the word 讛讗诇讜转 he says comes to add, to include the 拽诇诇讜转 that are learned from the 讘专讻讜转. Then he said later that the 讛 of 讛讗诇讛 comes to exclude the commands to the 讻讛谉 and acceptance of the woman. It's one of the two: is a 讛 诪专讘讛, is the letter 讛 come to be 诪专讘讛 to include, to add more, so then the letter 讛 from the word 讛讗诇讛 should also come to include something. If we're going to say that the letter 讛 comes to exclude, then the letter 讛 of the word 讛讗诇讜转 should also comes to exclude. Why is it that the first one comes to include and the second one comes to exclude? And the 讙诪专讗 answers: 讛 讚讙讘讬 专讬讘讜讬讬讗 专讬讘讜讬讬讗 讛讜讗. A 讛 that's written by a word that comes to add, so the 讛 comes to add even more. 讛 讚讙讘讬 诪讬注讜讟讗 诪讬注讜讟讗 讛讜讗. And A 讛 that's in the front of a word that the word itself comes to exclude something, so the 讛 comes to exclude even more. And therefore here, the word 注讜诇讛 we said before comes to tell us what we should do, which words we should write, we should write the curses. So when we have a 讛 in front of that word, that comes to add more to what we should do, what we should write. Therefore he learns that this comes to include the 拽诇诇讜转 that are learned from the 讘专讻讜转. The word 讗诇讛 we said before comes to exclude. It comes to exclude the 拽诇诇讜转 of 讞讜诪砖 讚讘专讬诐. So the 讛 that's in front of the word 讗诇讛, 讛讗诇讛, comes to add to the exclusion, that we exclude even more. Therefore he learns that comes to exclude the 爪讬讜讜讬 and the 拽讘诇讛. Then the 讙诪专讗 asks a 拽砖讬讗: 讜诇讬转 诇讬讛 诇专讘讬 诪讗讬专 诪讻诇诇 诇讗讜 讗转讛 砖讜诪注 讛谉? Don't we know that 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 does not hold of this 讻诇诇 that from the negative we understand the positive? 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 here is saying that the reason we write the first 驻住讜拽 too, even though the 驻住讜拽 tells us that if she did not do the 注讘讬专讛, she should be clean, which is not a 拽诇诇讛, which is a 讘专讻讛, but nevertheless he says we write it because from the 讘专讻讛 we understand the 拽诇诇讛. Since it says that if she didn't do the 注讘讬专讛 she is clean, that itself comes to imply that if she did do 注讘讬专讛 she is not clean. So so we see here that 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 accepts the 住讘专讗 of 诪讻诇诇 诇讗讜 讗转讛 砖讜诪注 讛谉, that from saying no, we understand the yes. Even though the 转讜专讛 doesn't say the positive part, doesn't say that if you did do 注讘讬专讛 you would get punished, but since it says if you didn't do you won't get punished, that itself comes to tell us that if you did do it, you will be punished. So the 讙诪专讗 asks, but don't we know that 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 does not accept that 住讘专讗 of 诪讻诇诇 诇讗讜 讗转讛 砖讜诪注 讛谉? And where do we see that 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 doesn't accept that 住讘专讗? So as 专砖状讬 brings that this is in the 讙诪专讗 拽讬讚讜砖讬谉. In the 讙诪专讗 拽讬讚讜砖讬谉, 讚祝 住状讗 注诪讜讚 讗壮, we find a 诪砖谞讛 where it says that 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 holds that a 转谞讗讬 must be made as the 转谞讗讬 of 讘谞讬 讙讚 讜讘谞讬 专讗讜讘谉. Whenever you make a condition to anything, whether you give 拽讬讚讜砖讬谉 on condition of something, or you give a 讙讟 on condition of something, whatever the thing might be, if you give it on condition, 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 holds that the only time the condition is valid, which means that if you fulfill the condition, then the 拽讬讚讜砖讬谉 is 拽讬讚讜砖讬谉 or the 讙讟 is a 讙讟. If you don't fulfill the condition, the 讙讟 is not a 讙讟 and the 拽讬讚讜砖讬谉 is not a 拽讬讚讜砖讬谉. When do we say that we must keep the condition? Only if the condition was made similar to the condition given to the children of 讙讚 and the children of 专讗讜讘谉. And this is in 讞讜诪砖 where we find that the 砖讘讟 讙讚 and 砖讘讟 专讗讜讘谉 and half of the 砖讘讟 of 诪谞砖讛 came to 诪砖讛 专讘讬谞讜 asking him that they want to take their part in 讗专抓 讬砖专讗诇 on this side of the 讬专讚谉, not to cross over on the other side of the 讬专讚谉. And 诪砖讛 专讘讬谞讜 made a condition with them, that he's only ready to give it to them if they will first go and fight across the 讬专讚谉 with the other 讗讬讚谉 against the enemy, against the 讻谞注谞讬诐. Then he says, when you will come back you are allowed to have your share on this side of the 讬专讚谉. So we find in the 转讜专讛 that the way 诪砖讛 专讘讬谞讜 made the condition was, he said to them, that if you are going to go over the 讬专讚谉, then you will get your share here. Then he said, but if you will not go over the 讬专讚谉, you will not get your share here. 诪砖讛 said the positive and the negative. So 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 says that anytime a person makes a condition, has to be made in the same way. You have to specifically clearly say that I'm giving this to you on condition that you do this and that, and if you do not do this and that, then I am not giving it to you. You have to clearly say the negative and the positive. And if you do not specify the negative and the positive, then 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 holds that condition is not valid. So we see that 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 does not accept the 住讘专讗 of 诪讻诇诇 诇讗讜 讗转讛 砖讜诪注 讛谉, that from saying the no, you understand yourself the yes. You must specify the negative and the positive. So that seems to contradict the opinion of 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 in our 诪砖谞讛. Because in our 诪砖谞讛 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 holds that from the negative we do understand the positive. And therefore he says, that even though the 驻住讜拽 says the negative, that if you didn't do the 注讘讬专讛 you will be clean, nevertheless we do write it down in the 诪讙讬诇讛 because this is considered a curse also, because we understand from that that if you did do the 注讘讬专讛, you would be punished. So we see that 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 does hold from the 住讘专讗 诪讻诇诇 诇讗讜 讗转讛 砖讜诪注 讛谉 in our 诪砖谞讛, while over there he holds that we do not accept the 住讘专讗 of 诪讻诇诇 诇讗讜 讗转讛 砖讜诪注 讛谉. 讗诪专 专讘 转谞讞讜诐, so 专讘 转谞讞讜诐 said to answer this question, 讛谞拽讬 讻转讬讘. When the 转讜专讛 says that if you did not do the 注讘讬专讛 you will be clean, the expression of the 转讜专讛 is 讛谞拽讬 诪诪讬 讛诪专讬诐 讛诪讗专专讬诐 讛讗诇讛, you should be clean from the bitter waters that curse. But it uses the 诇砖讜谉 讛谞拽讬, and in 诇砖讜谉 拽讜讚砖, in Hebrew, sometimes a 讛 and a 讞 are interchanged. So it's as if the 转讜专讛 is saying 讞讬谞拽讬. 讞讬谞拽讬 means you should be choked. So he 讚专砖's the 驻住讜拽 as if the 驻住讜拽 would say, not 讜讗诐 诇讗 砖讟讬转 讟讜诪讗讛 转讞转 讗讬砖讱 讛谞拽讬, that if you did not do the 讟讜诪讗讛 under your husband you should be clean, but start from the word 砖讟讬转, that if 砖讟讬转 讟讜诪讗讛 转讞转 讗讬砖讱, then 讞讬谞拽讬, that if you did turn away and you did become 讟诪讗 under your husband, you should be choked. So it's not only that we understand from the negative of the 驻住讜拽 the positive, but as if the 驻住讜拽 itself is saying that if you did do the 注讘讬专讛 you should be choked, and therefore he holds that you do write this 驻住讜拽 down in the 诪讙讬诇讛, too. Then the 讙诪专讗 continues:
讚专砖 专讘讬 注拽讬讘讗, 专讘讬 注拽讬讘讗 讚专砖谞'讚, 专讘讬 注拽讬讘讗 taught: 讗讬砖 讜讗砖讛, a husband and a wife, 讝讻讜, if they merit, 砖讻讬谞讛 讘讬谞讬讛诐, the 砖讻讬谞讛 is amongst them, because the word 讗讬砖 is made up of the three letters: 讗诇祝, 讬讜讚, 砖讬谉. So you have the 讗诇祝, 砖讬谉, and you have a 讬讜讚 there. The word 讗砖讛 is made up of 讗诇祝, 砖讬谉, 讛讗. So you have an 讗诇祝, 砖讬谉, and you have a 讛讗. So the word 讗讬砖 and the word 讗砖讛, two of the letters are the same. The difference is that the 讗讬砖 has another 讬讜讚, and the letter word 讗砖讛 has a 讛讗. 讬讜讚 and a 讛讗 make up the word 拽讛, which is part of the name of 讛砖诐. And therefore he says that if everything works fine, they are 讝讜讻讛, they live peacefully, and they are faithful to each other, so then the 讬-拽 is amongst them, the 砖讻讬谞讛 is amongst them. 诇讗 讝讻讜, but if they're not 讝讜讻讛, they do not merit, they're not faithful, then 讗砖 讗讜讻诇转谉, then the fire will eat them up, because if you take out the 讬讜讚 from the word 讗讬砖, from the man, and you take out the 讛讗 from the word 讗砖讛, in other words, you take out 讛砖诐's name from both of them, you're only left with twice the word 讗砖. 讗砖 means fire. So if they do not have the 砖讻讬谞讛 because they are not 讝讜讻讛, then the fire will eat them up.
讗诪专 专讘讗, 专讘讗 said, 讜讚讗砖讛 注讚讬驻讗 诪讚讗讬砖, and the fire of the woman is worse, is stronger than of the man. And he gives the reason, because 讛讗讬 诪爪讟专祝, 讛讗讬 诇讗 诪爪讟专祝. By the name 讗讬砖, so the 讬讜讚 is in between the 讗诇祝 and the 砖讬谉, so the word 讗砖 that is there is not so close, the 讗诇祝 and the 砖讬谉 are not so close, they are not 诪爪讟专祝, the word is not combined. But by the 讗砖讛, so the letter that is part of 讛砖诐's name is at the end of the word, but the 讗诇祝 and the 砖讬谉 which makes the word 讗砖 is together, is combined. So therefore, if the woman does not merit, if it's her fault, then the fire is stronger, it is even worse. 讗诪专 专讘讗, 专讘讗 said, 诪驻谞讬 诪讛 讗诪专讛 转讜专讛, why did the 转讜专讛 say 讛讘讗 注驻专 诇住讜讟讛, you should bring sand to a 住讜讟讛? Because 讗诐 讝讻转讛, if she is 讝讜讻讛, if she merits, 讬讜爪讗 诪诪谞讜 讘谉 讻讗讘专讛诐 讗讘讬谞讜, a son like 讗讘专讛诐 讗讘讬谞讜 will come from her, 讚讻转讬讘 讘讬讛 that by 讗讘专讛诐 it says 注驻专 讜讗驻专, sand and ashes. 讗讘专讛诐 said to 讛砖诐 that what am I? I am only sand and ashes. And the 驻住讜拽 says by a 住讜讟讛 that if she really is clean, so after she drinks the water, not only will she not be punished, but on the contrary, because of that, she will gain a lot. If she didn't have any children before, she will have children now. If she didn't have such good children, she will have better children. So drinking of the water is for the benefit of the woman, too, if she is 讝讜讻讛, if she is clean. So therefore, we put 注驻专, sand, into the water to show that through this water she is able to merit to have a son like 讗讘专讛诐 who said that what is he? He is 注驻专. And on the other hand, 诇讗 讝讻转讛, if she is not 讝讜讻讛, she does not merit, if she is not clean, then 转讞讝讜专 诇注驻专讛, she will go back to the dust. In other words, she will die. So because of both sides, whether she is 讝讜讻讛 or not 讝讜讻讛, because of both sides, we put sand into her water.
讚专砖 专讘讗, 专讘讗 讚专砖谞'讚, 专讘讗 learned: 讘砖讻专 砖讗诪专 讗讘专讛诐 讗讘讬谞讜 讜讗谞讻讬 注驻专 讜讗驻专, in the 砖讻专, in the reward for what 讗讘专讛诐 said that I am sand and ashes, 讝讻讜 讘谞讬讜 诇讘' 诪爪讜转, so his children were 讝讜讻讛 to two 诪爪讜转 which are connected to sand and ashes. They were 讝讜讻讛 to the 诪爪讜讛 of 讗驻专 驻专讛, of the ashes of the 驻专讛 讗讚讜诪讛, 讜注驻专 住讜讟讛, to the 诪爪讜讛 of the sand by the 住讜讟讛. Then the 讙诪专讗 asks, 讜讛讗讬讻讗 谞诪讬 注驻专 讻讬住讜讬 讛讚诐, why only mention these two 诪爪讜转? There is another 诪爪讜讛 which is with sand, that is the sand of covering of the blood, that when you 砖讞讟 a bird, or you 砖讞讟 a 讞讬讛, you must cover the blood with sand, which is a 诪爪讜讛. So why didn't he mention that, too? And the 讙诪专讗 answers, 讛转诐 讘讻讬住讜讬 讛讚诐, 讛讻砖专 诪爪讜讛 讗讬讻讗, 讛谞讗讛 诇讬讻讗. It is a 诪爪讜讛, but there is no benefit. And what 专讘讗 said was that because 讗讘专讛诐 said 讗谞讻讬 注驻专 讜讗驻专, his children got reward. Reward means that they get benefit. And since from the 诪爪讜讛 of 讻讬住讜讬 讛讚诐 we don't see any physical benefit, therefore, he didn't mention it. It is just a 诪爪讜讛, but no physical benefit. But by the other two, we actually gain also. The case of the 注驻专 住讜讟讛, the sand of the 住讜讟讛, we gain because first of all, if she is clean, then she goes back to her husband, and she gains, as we mentioned before. If she is not clean, at least her husband gets rid of her problem. Plus we will know for sure that the children are not 诪诪讝专讬诐. If she is clean, we know that her children are 讻砖专 children, not 诪诪讝专讬诐. So there is a benefit for the 讬讬讚谉 through the 诪爪讜讛 of 注驻专 住讜讟讛. And the same is concerning the 诪爪讜讛 of 注驻专 驻专讛, of the ashes of the 驻专讛 讗讚讜诪讛, is also for the benefit of the 讬讬讚谉, because if a person is 讟诪讗, he becomes 讟讛讜专, he becomes clean through the 注驻专 驻专讛. And also, as 专砖状讬 says, the 诪爪讜讛 of 驻专讛 讗讚讜诪讛 is to forgive for the 讞讟讗 讛注讙诇, for the 注讘讬专讛 that the 讬讬讚谉 made, the golden calf. So that is a 砖讻专. But 讻讬住讜讬 讛讚诐, even though it is a 诪爪讜讛, but it is not a 砖讻专. Then the 讙诪专讗 continues: 讚专砖 专讘讗, 专讘讗 讚专砖'谞讟, 专讘讗 taught: 讘砖讻专 砖讗诪专 讗讘专讛诐 讗讘讬谞讜 讗诐 诪讞讜讟 讜注讚 砖专讜讱 谞注诇, in reward of what 讗讘专讛诐 讗讘讬谞讜 said: 'If I will take from you, from a thread to a shoelace.' This he said to 住讚讜诐 after 住讚讜诐 fell into the hands of 讻讚专诇注讜诪专, and along with them also 诇讜讟, the nephew of 讗讘专讛诐, fell into the hands of 讻讚专诇注讜诪专. So 讗讘专讛诐 went to rescue 诇讜讟. So when he rescued 诇讜讟, he also rescued the people from 住讚讜诐 and all the treasures from 住讚讜诐. And the king of 住讚讜诐 told 讗讘专讛诐 讗讘讬谞讜, 'Please give us the people, and all the treasures, all the money, you could keep.' So 讗讘专讛诐 讗讘讬谞讜 answered that 'I promise I will not take anything, not from a thread to a shoelace.' So in reward for 讗讘专讛诐 讗讘讬谞讜 saying that, and staying away from 讙讝诇, from stealing as much as possible, 讝讻讜 讘谞讬讜, his children were 讝讜讻讛 诇讘壮 诪爪讜转, to two 诪爪讜转: 讞讜讟 砖诇 转讻诇转, the thread of the blue wool that you put into the 爪讬爪讬转, that was a reward for what he said, 'I will not take a thread from you.' And then for what he said, 'I will not take a shoelace,' 讜专爪讜注讛 砖诇 转驻讬诇讬谉, they were 讝讜讻讛 to the 专爪讜注讛, the strap of 转驻讬诇讬谉, because a strap is like a shoelace. So in the reward for what he said, 'I will not take a shoelace,' his children were 讝讜讻讛 to the strap of 转驻讬诇讬谉. And the 讙诪专讗 asks: 讘砖诇诪讗 专爪讜注讛 砖诇 转驻讬诇讬谉, 诪讬诇讗 we understand why the 诪爪讜讛 of 转驻讬诇讬谉 is considered a reward. The benefit that we get from it is because 讚讻转讬讘, it says: 讜专讗讜 讻诇 注诪讬 讛讗专抓 讻讬 砖诐 讛壮 谞拽专讗 注诇讬讱, the 驻住讜拽 says that all the nations of the world will see that 讛砖诐'住 name is upon you, and the 驻住讜拽 continues: 讜讬专讗讜 诪诪讱, and they will be afraid of you. 讜转谞讬讗, and we learned: 专讘讬 讗诇注讝专 讛讙讚讜诇 讗讜诪专, 专讘讬 讗诇注讝专 讛讙讚讜诇 said:
讗诇讜 转驻讬诇讬谉 砖讘专讗砖, that this refers to the 转驻讬诇讬谉 of the head. So we see that because we have the 诪爪讜讛 of 转驻讬诇讬谉, the 讙讜讬诐 are afraid of us. So this is reward for what 讗讘专讛诐 讗讘讬谞讜 said. 讗诇讗 讞讜讟 砖诇 转讻诇转 诪讗讬 讛讬讗, but the thread of the blue wool from the 爪讬爪讬转, what kind of reward is it? And as we said before, we have to find some kind of benefit that we get from this 砖讻专. We do not see any benefit. It is a 诪爪讜讛, but what kind of benefit do we see that we get from the 诪爪讜讛 of 爪讬爪讬转 from the thread of blue wool in the 爪讬爪讬转? But the 讙诪专讗 answers: 讚转谞讬讗, because we learned: 讛讬讛 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 讗讜诪专, 专讘讬 诪讗讬专 said: 诪讛 谞砖转谞讛 转讻诇转 诪讻诇 诪讬谞讬 爪讘注讜谞讬诐, why is 转讻诇转, the blue wool, different than all other colors? Why did 讛砖诐 choose for the 诪爪讜讛 of 转讻诇转 of 爪讬爪讬转 the color blue? And the answer is: 诪驻谞讬 砖讛转讻诇转 讚讜诪讛 诇讬诐, because the blue looks like the 讬诐, like the ocean. 讜讛讬诐 讚讜诪讛 诇专拽讬注, and the 讬诐 is similar to the skies. 讜讛专拽讬注 讚讜诪讛 诇讻住讗 讛讻讘讜讚, the 专拽讬注, the sky, is similar to the 讻住讗 讛讻讘讜讚, to the throne of glory. Where do we see that? 砖谞讗诪专, because the 驻住讜拽 says in 砖诪讜转 讻状讚, that after 诪转谉 转讜专讛: 讜讬专讗讜 讗转 讗诇拽讬 讬砖专讗诇, they saw the God of the 讬讬讚谉, 讜转讞转 专讙诇讬讜, and under His feet, 讻诪注砖讛 诇讘谞转 讛住驻讬专, it looked like a paved area of sapphire stone, 讜讻注爪诐 讛砖诪讬诐 诇讟讛专, and as it were the very heaven for clearness. So we see here that the 砖诪讬诐 is compared to 诇讘谞转 讛住驻讬专, to sapphire stone. 讜讻转讬讘, and there's another 驻住讜拽 in 讬讞讝拽讗诇 that says: 讻诪专讗讛 讗讘谉 住驻讬专 讚诪讜转 讻住讗, that the 讻住讗, the 讻住讗 讛讻讘讜讚, the chair of glory, the throne of glory, looks like 讗讘谉 住驻讬专. So we see from these 驻住讜拽讬诐 that the 专拽讬注 looks like the 讻住讗 讛讻讘讜讚. Now we don't need any 驻住讜拽讬诐 to show us that the 转讻诇转 looks like the 讬诐 and the 讬诐 looks like the 专拽讬注, that we could see. So what do we see from here? That by putting in 转讻诇转 in the 爪讬爪讬转, it is similar to the 讻住讗 讛讻讘讜讚. So really what that means is that by keeping the 诪爪讜讛 of 爪讬爪讬转, we have the 讻住讗 讛讻讘讜讚 amongst us, which means we have the 砖讻讬谞讛 amongst us. And this is what he said. We asked what kind of reward is it, the 诪爪讜讛 of 转讻诇转? So he answered the reward is that by keeping the 诪爪讜讛 of 转讻诇转, the 诪爪讜讛 of 爪讬爪讬转, we have 讛砖诐 amongst us. And now we will continue with the 诪砖谞讛. 诪砖谞讛 says:
讗讬谞讜 讻讜转讘, you're not allowed to write the 诪讙讬诇讛 of the 住讜讟讛, 诇讗 注诇 讛诇讜讞, not on a board, on a wooden board, 讜诇讗 注诇 讛谞讬讬专, not on paper, as 专砖状讬 explains that they would take grass and they would stick them together and it would look like leather, and this really was called 谞讬讬专, this is a kind of paper, 讜诇讗 注诇 讛讚讬驻转专讗 讜诇讗 注诇 讛讚驻转专讗, and not on 讚驻转专讗. 讚驻转专讗, 专砖''讬 explains a kind of parchment. It is parchment, but it was not prepared 100%. Usually parchment, which is called 拽诇祝, was prepared through salt and flour, and then also through 注驻爪讬诐, as 专砖''讬 says, which means gallnut. 讚驻转专讗 is when it's prepared partially. They only prepared it through the salt and through the flour, but they didn't use the 注驻爪讬诐. So you cannot write on that kind of parchment the 诪讙讬诇讛 of the 住讜讟讛. 讗诇讗 注诇 讛诪讙讬诇讛, only on a 诪讙讬诇讛, which means on complete parchment, which is called 拽诇祝, 砖谞讗诪专, because the 驻住讜拽 says, you should write it 讘住驻专, on a 住驻专, which means it has to be like a 住驻专, which was made of 拽诇祝. 讜讗讬谞讜 讻讜转讘, and you're not allowed to write on the parchment, 诇讗 讘拽讜诪讜住 讜诇讗 讘拽谞拽谞转讜诐, not with 拽讜诪讜住 and not with 拽谞拽谞转讜诐, not with gum and not with vitriol. And as 专砖''讬 explains, 拽讜诪讜住 was the juice that comes from a tree, and that could write, but that gets absorbed in the parchment when you write with it. And 拽谞拽谞转讜诐 is, as 专砖''讬 says, it's called vitrioli or or dimant in his language. So you can't write with these, 讜诇讗 讘讻诇 讚讘专 砖专讜砖诐, and not with anything else that leaves an indentation on the parchment that even if you erase it, you will still be able to tell that something was written on it. 讗诇讗 讘讚讬讜, you only write with ink, ink that when you erase it, you will not be able to tell that it was written on it before. 砖谞讗诪专, because the 驻住讜拽 says 讜诪讞讛, that when you write the 诪讙讬诇讛, you have to afterwards erase it. So we learn out from there, it has to be a 讻转讘 砖讬讻讜诇 诇讛诪讞讜转, a 讻转讘, a writing that could be erased. And therefore, these different things are 驻住讜诇 because they cannot be erased. And the only thing that could be erased is 讚讬讜, is ink. Then the 讙诪专讗 says,
讗诪专 专讘讗, 专讘讗 said, 诪讙讬诇转 住讜讟讛 砖讻转讘讛 讘诇讬诇讛 驻住讜诇讛. If you wrote the 诪讙讬诇讛 of the 住讜讟讛 during the night, it is 驻住讜诇. It must be done during the day. 诪讗讬 讟注诪讗? What is the reason? 讗转讬讗, we learn it out from a 讙讝讬专讛 砖讜讜讛 of 转讜专讛 转讜专讛. 讻转讬讘 讛讻讗, it says by this 住讜讟讛, 讜注砖讛 诇讛 讛讻讛谉 讗转 讻诇 讛转讜专讛 讛讝讗转, the 讻讛谉 should do to her as this 转讜专讛. 讜讻转讬讘 讛转诐, it says in another 驻住讜拽 in 讚讘专讬诐 讬''讝, 注诇 驻讬 讛转讜专讛 讗砖专 讬讜专讜讱, based on the 转讜专讛 that they will teach you, 讜注诇 讛诪砖驻讟, and on the judgment that they will give you. In other words, you have to listen to the 讞讻诪讬诐 as they will teach you. But we learn out from there, since in that 驻住讜拽 it says the word 转讜专讛, and in our 驻住讜拽 it says the word 转讜专讛, so we compare the two, and we learn out from there, and we say, 诪讛 诪砖驻讟, just like in that 驻住讜拽 it mentions 诪砖驻讟 together with 转讜专讛, so just like 诪砖驻讟 is 讘讬讜诐, 诪砖驻讟 means judgment, you cannot have a judgment of a 讘讬转 讚讬谉 at night, it must be during the day, as the 讙诪专讗 learns out in 住谞讛讚专讬谉 讚祝 诇''讚 from the 驻住讜拽 讜讛讬讛 讘讬讜诐 讛谞讞讬诇讜, so 讗祝 诪讙讬诇转 住讜讟讛 讘讬讜诐, so also when you write the 诪讙讬诇讛 of the 住讜讟讛, it must be done during the day, because by the 住讜讟讛 it also says the word 转讜专讛. Then he continues: 讻转讘讛 诇诪驻专注, if he wrote it backwards, 驻住讜诇讛, it's 驻住讜诇. In other words, if he didn't write it in the proper order, but he wrote the last word first, and then the word before that, then the word before that, or even if one of the 驻住讜拽讬诐 were written backwards, so then the 讚讬谉 is that it is 驻住讜诇, as long as the whole 诪讙讬诇讛 was not written in the proper order. 讚讻转讬讘, because the 驻住讜拽 says, 讜讻转讘 讗转 讛讗诇讜转 讛讗诇讛, you should write these curses, so we learn out, 讻讬 讚讻转讬讘讗, as they are written. You should write them as they are written in the 转讜专讛, in that same order, but not in a different order. Then he continues: 讻转讘讛 拽讜讚诐 砖转拽讘诇 注诇讬讛 讛砖讘讜注讛, 驻住讜诇讛. If he wrote the 诪讙讬诇讛 before she accepted upon herself the 砖讘讜注讛, it is 驻住讜诇, 砖谞讗诪专, because the 驻住讜拽 says, 讜讛砖讘讬注, he should make her swear, 讜讗讞专 讻讱 讜讻转讘, then the 转讜专讛 says he should write. And therefore, if you do it in a different order, it is 驻住讜诇. 讻转讘讛 讗讬讙专转, if he wrote it like a letter, 驻住讜诇讛, it's 驻住讜诇. That means, as 专砖''讬 explains, that you wrote it without 砖专讟讜讟. The 讚讬谉 is that when you write a 住驻专 转讜专讛, or whenever you write 驻住讜拽讬诐 from the 转讜专讛, you must have 砖专讟讜讟 first. 砖专讟讜讟 means you make an indentation on the parchment in order for you to write the words evenly. You make an indentation on top, and you start the letters that you're going to write from that indentation, so it'll come out that the line that you will be writing will be even. That's the 讚讬谉 by a 住驻专 转讜专讛. So he says, if you wrote the 诪讙讬诇讛 of the 住讜讟讛 without 砖专讟讜讟, without these lines, this this indentation, so then 驻住讜诇讛, it is 驻住讜诇. Because 讘住驻专 讗诪专 专讞诪谞讗, the 转讜专讛 says it should be written in a 住驻专, so it has to be written similar to a 住驻专 转讜专讛, which means it has to be written with 砖专讟讜讟. Then he continues: 讻转讘讛 注诇 砖谞讬 讚驻讬诐, if he wrote it in two columns, 驻住讜诇讛, it is 驻住讜诇. As 专砖''讬 says he wrote it like our 住驻专 转讜专讛's, that after you have finished one column, you continue to the next column. So if these 驻住讜拽讬诐 that he wrote, he wrote them in two columns, it is 驻住讜诇, because 住驻专 讗讞讚 讗诪专 专讞诪谞讗, the 转讜专讛 says that you should write it in a 住驻专, so we learn from here it should be one 住驻专, 讜诇讗 砖谞讬诐 讜砖诇砖讛 住驻专讬诐, and not two or three 住驻专讬诐. So if you write it in two columns or three columns, then it is not one 住驻专, but it's like two or three 住驻专讬诐, that's why it's 驻住讜诇. 讻转讘 讗讜转 讗讞转 讜诪讞拽 讗讜转 讗讞转, the 讚讬谉 is that you have to write the whole 诪讙讬诇讛, and then you erase the whole 诪讙讬诇讛 into the water. What happens if he wrote one letter of the 驻住讜拽讬诐 and he erased it right away into the water? 讜讻转讘 讗讜转 讗讞转 讜诪讞拽 讗讜转 讗讞转, then he continued, and wrote the second letter, and he erased it again, and that's how he went on till the end of the 驻专砖讛. In other words, he actually did write all the 驻住讜拽讬诐, but he didn't first write them all and then erased them, but he wrote them one by one, wrote one letter and erased it, the next letter and erased it, the next letter and erased it, 驻住讜诇讛, it is 驻住讜诇, 讚讻转讬讘, because the 驻住讜拽 says: 讜注砖讛 诇讛 讛讻讛谉 讗转 讻诇 讛转讜专讛 讛讝讗转, the 讻讛谉 should do to her the whole 转讜专讛, this whole 转讜专讛, this whole 讚讬谉. So since it says 讗转 讻诇 讛转讜专讛 讛讝讗转, so we learn out from here that you have to have the whole 诪讙讬诇讛 written at once and then you erase it. But if you don't have the whole 诪讙讬诇讛 written at once, it is 驻住讜诇.
Concerning we learned before, that 专讘讬 注拽讬讘讗 said that a 讗讬砖 and a 讗砖讛, husband and a wife, if they are 讝讜讻讛, then the 砖讻讬谞讛 is between them, because the 讗讬砖 has the 讬讜讚 of the name of 讛砖诐 in his word 讗讬砖, and the 讗砖讛 has the 讛讗 of the name of 讛砖诐 in the word 讗砖讛. So together, it turns into 讬讜讚 拽讗, which is part of 讛砖诐's name. So it says in 讞住讬讚讬砖注 住驻专讬诐, in 诇拽讜讟讬 转讜专讛 from the 讘注诇 讛转谞讬讗 and in other 住驻专讬诐, that the reason that 讛砖诐's name is set up so that the 讬讜讚 of the name is in the 讗讬砖, and the 讛讗 of the name is in the 讗砖讛, is because the function of the 讗讬砖 is similar to the 讬讜讚, and the function of the woman is similar to the 讛讗. The difference between a 讬讜讚 and a 讛讗 is, is the 讬讜讚 is a dot, while a 讛讗 is already with an 讗讜专讱, 专讜讞讘 and an 注讜诪拽, which means it has a length, width, and depth. It is as if you would be saying that the 讬讜讚 is stretched out to the length, width, and depth, that is the 讛讗. The job of the man and the woman is explained in the 讙诪专讗 讬讘诪讜转 讚祝 住状讙 注诪讜讚 讗. The 讙诪专讗 says there: 讗讚诐 诪讘讬讗 讞讬讟讬谉, 讞讬讟讬谉 讻讜住住? When a person brings home wheat, can you chew the wheat? What happens? He gives it to his wife, and she is the one that prepares it. And then it says, 谞诪爪讗转 诪讗讬专讛 注讬谞讬讜, so it comes out she lights up his eyes, 讜诪注诪讬讚转讜 注诇 专讙诇讬讜, she puts him on his feet. So we see from that 讙诪专讗 that the job of the man is to bring home whatever it is supposed to be, and she is the one who is supposed to develop it, and prepare it such a way that it should be ready to be eaten, and ready to be used. And that is generally what it says in 住驻专讬诐 the difference between the husband and the wife. The husband is the one that is supposed to set the tone, and put down the point of what is supposed to be done, while the wife is supposed to develop what the husband brings home, and make it ready so it should be used, and find ways to apply it. As it says in 转谞讗 讚讘讬 讗诇讬讛讜 专讘讛 驻专拽 讟, and similar to it in the 讙诪专讗 谞讚专讬诐 讚祝 住状讜 注诪讜讚 讘, that 讗讬讝讜 讛讬讗 讗砖讛 讻砖专讛, what is considered a proper Jewish woman? 讛注讜砖讛 专爪讜谉 讘注诇讛, that she does the will of her husband. What it means is that the husband is the one that knows what is proper, but she is the one that is supposed to do it, which means she is the one that knows how to apply it, how to bring it down into practice. So it comes out that the difference between the husband and the wife is that the husband is the one that has the point, has the dot, he has the 谞拽讜讚讛 of what is supposed to be done. The 讛转驻砖讟讜转, the development of that 谞拽讜讚讛, that is done through the wife. And as we see concerning 讗讘专讛诐 and 砖专讛, it says 讗讘专讛诐 when he looked at 讬砖诪注讗诇, he said as the 驻住讜拽 says, 诇讜 讬砖诪注讗诇 讬讞讬讛 诇驻谞讬讱. He said to 讛砖诐 that he wants 讬砖诪注讗诇 also to live. He didn't feel that 讬砖诪注讗诇 should be chased out of the house. But the one that was able to apply what is proper, and to see what is actually to be done, it was 砖专讛. She was the one that knew that it was right to chase 讬砖诪注讗诇 out of the house. And 讛砖诐 said to 讗讘专讛诐, that 讻诇 讗砖专 转讗诪专 讗诇讬讱 砖专讛 砖诪注 讘拽讜诇讛, that you should listen to what 砖专讛 tells you. Because even though 讗讘专讛诐 讗讘讬谞讜, he knew what was right and what was wrong, and he definitely set the tone in the house what is right and what is wrong, but 砖专讛 the wife, she was the one that knew how to apply the different 注谞讬谞讬诐 that came from 讗讘专讛诐. And that is what the 讙诪专讗 means, that if the husband and the wife are 讝讜讻讛, each one does his job, so then you have the 讬讜讚 拽讗, you have the 讬讜讚 by the 讗讬砖, 讬讜讚 represents the dot, that he is the one that sets the tone, and you have the 讛讗, the 讛转驻砖讟讜转 by the woman, and then you have the 砖讻讬谞讛 between them, because they do what 讛砖诐, what the 砖讻讬谞讛 wants them to do. Concerning we learned towards the end of the 讘诇讗讟, That if they wrote the 诪讙讬诇讛 of the 住讜讟讛 like an 讗讙专转, like a letter, it is 驻住讜诇 because the 转讜专讛 says 讘住驻专. And 专砖"讬 explained what it means is, if you wrote the 诪讙讬诇讛 of the 住讜讟讛 without 砖专讟讜讟, without the lines that you're supposed to indent in order to write even. So if you wrote it without the 砖专讟讜讟, it is 驻住讜诇. And the reason why it is 驻住讜诇 is because the 转讜专讛 says 讘住驻专, it has to be written like a 住驻专 转讜专讛. So 转讜住驻讜转 asks a 拽讜砖讬讗, why do we need a special 驻住讜拽 讘住驻专 to teach us that if you write the 诪讙讬诇讛 without 砖专讟讜讟 it is 驻住讜诇, it would be 驻住讜诇 anyway? Because 转讜住驻讜转 quotes the 讙诪专讗 in 讙讬讟讬谉 讚祝 讜' 注诪讜讚 讘' that whenever you write 驻住讜拽讬诐 from the 转讜专讛, you must write it with 砖专讟讜讟. And the 讙诪专讗 says that if you write two words of a 驻住讜拽 you don't have to have 砖专讟讜讟, but if you write three or more words, you must have 砖专讟讜讟. So since the 诪讙讬诇讛 is more than three words of the 驻住讜拽讬诐, you would have to write 砖专讟讜讟 anyway. So why does the 讙诪专讗 need here a special 驻住讜拽 讘住驻专 to teach us that you must have 砖专讟讜讟 by the 诪讙讬诇讛 of the 住讜讟讛? Without that special 驻住讜拽, we would also know that you
cannot write the 诪讙讬诇讛 of the 住讜讟讛 without 砖专讟讜讟. And 转讜住驻讜转 answers that it is true that without the 驻住讜拽 讘住驻专 we would also know that you must make a 砖专讟讜讟 before you write the 诪讙讬诇讛 of the 住讜讟讛, but we wouldn't know that that 诪讙讬诇讛 is 驻住讜诇. We would think that you did an 注讘讬专讛, you wrote it without 砖专讟讜讟, but nevertheless, the 诪讙讬诇讛 讘讚讬注讘讚 is 讻砖专. Therefore, we have a 驻住讜拽 讘住驻专 to teach us that if you didn't make it in the form of a 住驻专, then it is 驻住讜诇. And 转讜住驻讜转 adds that since it is 驻住讜诇, then this water that would have the words of this 诪讙讬诇讛 in it, would not take effect on the 住讜讟讛, because the 诪讙讬诇讛 was 驻住讜诇, so if you erase a 驻住讜诇 诪讙讬诇讛 into the water, the water does not take effect. And then, 转讜住驻讜转 asks an interesting 砖讗诇讛: what would be the 讚讬谉 if he made 砖专讟讜讟 between the lines after the words were written already? On one hand you could say that since it was written 讘讗讬住讜专, when it was written the 诪讙讬诇讛 was 驻住讜诇, so now the 诪讙讬诇讛 remains 驻住讜诇 and you can't make it 讻砖专 again. On the other hand, you could say that since now the 诪讙讬诇讛 has 砖专讟讜讟, the 诪讙讬诇讛 is 讻砖专. And then
转讜住驻讜转 brings the 驻讬专讜砖 of 专讘讬谞讜 转诐, that 专讘讬谞讜 转诐 holds that even by a 住驻专 转讜专讛 诪爪讚 讛讚讬谉 you don't have to have 砖专讟讜讟 by every line. You just must have 砖专讟讜讟 by every column on all four sides of the column, but not that every line needs 砖专讟讜讟. And he brings 专讗讬讜转 from different 讙诪专讜转 to his opinion. And at the end, 转讜住驻讜转 says that according to the opinion of 专讘讬谞讜 转诐, that 讘讗诪转 you don't have to have 砖专讟讜讟 by every line even by a 住驻专 转讜专讛, he doesn't understand the 驻砖讟 in the 讙诪专讗 that it says that if you wrote the 诪讙讬诇讛 of the 住讜讟讛 without 砖专讟讜讟 it is 驻住讜诇 because the 转讜专讛 says 讘住驻专, it has to be like a 住驻专 转讜专讛, and even a 住驻专 转讜专讛 doesn't really have to have 砖专讟讜讟 by every line. So how could we say that a 诪讙讬诇讛, if it doesn't have 砖专讟讜讟 by every line, should be 驻住讜诇? Then 转讜住驻讜转 brings from the 专讬讘"讗 in the name of 专讘讬谞讜 讗诇讬讛讜 讛爪专驻转讬 that this 讚讬谉 that you have to have 砖专讟讜讟 when you mention a 驻住讜拽, when you write at least three words of a 驻住讜拽, that is only if you're interested in explaining that 驻住讜拽. So then, when you quote the 驻住讜拽, it must be with 砖专讟讜讟. But if you write a 驻住讜拽 in a letter of greetings, and you're not interested in explaining, in 讚专砖注谞注谉 that 驻住讜拽, then you don't have to have 砖专讟讜讟 when you write that 驻住讜拽. And then 转讜住驻讜转 asks that he doesn't know why when we write 驻讬专讜砖讬诐 and we mention 驻住讜拽讬诐 in the 驻讬专讜砖讬诐, in the commentary that we write, why can we write them without 砖专讟讜讟? 诇讻讗讜专讛, the 讚讬谉 should be that every time you mention the 驻住讜拽, you should have to make 砖专讟讜讟, and 转讜住驻讜转 doesn't answer. It is
also interesting to note that the 专诪讘"诐 in his 驻讬专讜砖 讛诪砖谞讬讜转 on the 诪砖谞讛 in our 讙诪专讗 asks a 拽讜砖讬讗 from the 讙诪专讗 in 讬讜诪讗. He quotes the 讙诪专讗 in 讬讜诪讗 讚祝 诇"讝 注诪讜讚 讗'. There it speaks about the mother of 诪讜谞讘讝 讛诪诇讱, who was 讛讬诇谞讬. And the 诪砖谞讛 says there that she made a 讟讘诇讗 砖诇 讝讛讘, a plaque of gold, that she had the 驻专砖讛 of 住讜讟讛 written on it. So we see from there, it seems that you're allowed to write the 驻专砖讛 of 住讜讟讛 even on gold. In our 诪砖谞讛, it says that you're not allowed to write it on a piece of wood, you're not allowed to write it on anything else but on 拽诇祝, but on parchment. And there we see that they wrote the 驻专砖讛 of 住讜讟讛 on a plaque of gold. And the 专诪讘"诐 answers that there it wasn't the 驻专砖讛 of 住讜讟讛 that was written for a 住讜讟讛 to be used as the 驻专砖讛 of 住讜讟讛 and to be erased into the water. When the 讻讛谉 used to write the 驻专砖讛 of 住讜讟讛 for a 住讜讟讛, they had to bring a 住驻专 转讜专讛 into the 注讝专讛 and he would copy out from the 住驻专 转讜专讛 the 驻专砖讛 of 住讜讟讛 onto the 诪讙讬诇讛, and then he would erase the 诪讙讬诇讛 into the water. So what she did was to save them from the trouble of bringing the 住驻专 转讜专讛 and copying it out of the 住驻专 转讜专讛, she had the whole 驻专砖讛 written on a plaque of gold in the 讘讬转 讛诪拽讚砖. So whenever they needed to copy the 驻专砖讛 of 住讜讟讛 onto a 诪讙讬诇讛, they would copy it off that plaque. But not that when they actually had to write the 诪讙讬诇讛 for a 住讜讟讛, were they allowed to use gold, but they had to use, as the 诪砖谞讛 says here, 拽诇祝, they had to use regular parchment.