He had to be from Avraham Avinu. He said that, he says he has a milchamah with Amalek forever, so why are we Doing what? We don't know who he is. Well, there's no way to find out. בא סנחריב ובלבל את העולם. Sancheriv mixed up all the nations, and we don't know where Amalek is. We assume the Nazis ימח שמם וזכרם were definitely Amalek, I can't see any other way. But You don't know who Mashiach is either. Mashiach is in every generation. Yeah, yeah. There's Mashiach here, we don't know where he is, who he is. No, the fault Mashiach, he's asking without Mashiach, why don't we go around and kill Amalek? We're supposed to. If we knew, we'd have to. When they searched Esav, when they got it was that איטליא של רומי. Romi. Sancheriv was before איטליא של רומי. Right, it became when when נשא שלמה את בת פרעה. נשא שלמה את בת פרעה, בשעה שנשא שלמה את בת פרעה ירד גבריאל ונעץ קנה בים והעלה שרטון ועליו נבנה כרך גדול של רומי. So it comes from Shlomo HaMelech. איטליא של רומי, okay. אמר רב יהודה אמר רב מפני מה נענש שאול? Why was Shaul punished? מפני שמחל על כבודו. He was a king and he was mochel on his kavod, that means he himself didn't respect his malchut. He himself felt, I'm not really a melech, I don't... So if he did that, that's why. One time or all the times? שנאמר, he quotes, שנאמר, it says: ובני בליעל אמרו, at one point that people said, מה יושיענו זה? Look at this guy help us. ויבזוהו, they embarrassed him, ולא הביאו לו מנחה, they didn't bring the present they should have, ויהי כמחריש, and he was quiet. He should have punished them, say, how dare you say speaking against me? See another pasuk, it says ויעל נחש העמוני, yeah, Nachash HaAmoni came, and Rashi brings the end, what happened there? And they said, the people said, whoever said that Shaul is not a good king, let's kill him. So what did Shaul say? \"No, no, no, don't bother anyone, let them say what they want.\" Even though David did the same thing? David forgave Shimi ben Gera. Hashem told him to curse me. Yeah, but he later on told Shlomo. Finally, he didn't, he just left him. But he was had it in mind, he kept it in heart, and he waited for a chance to do it. So, he takeh did it. That's why he told Shlomo to kill him. Shlomo, he'll kill him, yeah. Why wouldn't David kill him? Huh? David, he passed, he didn't At the same time, because ה׳ אמר לו קלל, ה׳ says he can curse, so David said, \"I deserve it, but the malchut doesn't, so mimela eventually he has to get killed.\" No, here he said, \"Let them go.\" ואמר רבי יוחנן משום רבי שמעון בן יהוצדק, he brought in the name of רבי שמעון בן יהוצדק, כל תלמיד חכם שאינו נוקם ונוטר כנחש אינו תלמיד חכם.

Any talmid chacham who doesn't take nekamah, doesn't take revenge, and doesn't take doesn't נטירה, What's נטירה? It's a grudge, that's it, yeah. Like a snake, is not a talmid chacham. In other words, a talmid chacham has to נעמט זיך אן, has to No, has to נעמט זיך אן for his kavod, has to what's נעמט זיך אן? Defend his kavod. I mean, not nowadays, not all talmidei chachamim, but real, and besides that you have to be sure that you're doing it for the kavod of the Torah, not for your own personal kavod, and then... So it wouldn't be for somebody, don't don't knock a snake or something, because later on he'll get you, he'll get you back? Don't knock a snake. Yeah, don't knock. It'll run away, yeah, he'll come back and yeah, don't take nekamah with him, yeah. Because he'll come and take revenge with you, right. פרעגט די Gemara: How can you say, והכתיב, it says לא תקם ולא תטר? It says: Do not take revenge, and do not take revenge, and not keep a grudge? So the Gemara answers: ההוא בממון הוא דכתיב. That's by money, someone made you lose money, well, we'll see the Gemara explains, דתניא, it told in a braita: איזו היא נקימה ואיזו היא נטירה? What's called revenge and what's called grudge? נקימה, revenge is: אמר לו, so a guy says to him, השאילני מגלך, lend me your your מגילה, lend me your ספר. אמר לו, the guy says, \"לא, I don't want to.\" למחר אמר לו הוא השאילני קרדומך, this other guy who didn't want to lend you the מגילה comes to you and says, \"Lend me your shovel.\" אמר לו: איני רוצה להשאילך, \"I don't want to give you,\" כדרך שלא השאלתני. That's what do you call? נקימה, that's revenge. He didn't want to give, he's not giving him. איזו היא נטירה? What's grudge? אמר לו: השאילני קרדומך, \"Lend me your shovel.\" אמר לו: לא, guy doesn't want to. למחר, next day, אמר לו: השאילני חלוקך, he comes back to him and says, \"You know what? Lend me your shirt.\" אמר לו, he says, \"הילך, I'll do it, I'll give you. ואיני עושה כמותך, I'm not going to do it like you, שלא השאלתני, that you didn't want to lend me.\" זו היא נטירה. That's netirah, that's like a grudge. מגילה, you said? Yeah, מגילה. מגילך? מגלך, מגלך. Oh, oh, מגלך, מגלך, yeah. Rashi says, no, מגלך, מגלך. מגלך is... I was thinking, why מגילה וקרדומך? If it's קרדומך, sickle. Yeah. And they make a whole דיוק why why this, yeah, מגל, yeah, yeah. Golf, yeah. No, it's the Gemara, מגל, yeah, not מגילה, yeah. מגל is... Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. Uh-huh. Fifty times to מכה, yeah, not sure. He doesn't finish... The צער of the גופא, like he פרעגט the Gemara, and only for money, money you have you're עובר on נקימה, but if a guy מצער you with the body, you're allowed to have נקימה? ותניא, it says הנעלבין ואינם עולבין, those people who are embarrassed by somebody else and don't embarrass back. שומעין חרפתם ואינם משיבין, they hear their embarrassment and they don't answer. עושים מאהבה, those that serve Hashem from love. שמחים ביסורים, those that love happy with יסורים. עליהם הכתוב אומר, the פסוק says: ואהביו כצאת השמש בגבורתו, that those that love Hashem, they will be the strongest one when משיח comes. So, seemingly you should not If a guy embarrasses you, you should not answer back. The Gemara says לעולם נוטר ליה בליבו. Takeh, you shouldn't answer back, but in your heart you could have you should have a grudge. Freigt the גמרא, אמר רבא: כל המעביר על מדותיו מעבירין לו על כל פשעיו. Someone goes against his middot, which means he doesn't he gives up his feelings, the Eibershter goes away his aveirot. What it answers: דמפייס ולא מפייס. That's only when you come he asks forgiveness. If a guy asks you forgiveness, then forgive him. Not only don't bother him, in your heart forgive. But a guy doesn't ask, you don't have to forgive. But it's not healthy to keep a grudge anyway. Anyway. It's all about talmid chacham. Except it's almost by a talmid chacham, understand? We hold they're not. You don't have that problem. This should apply to us. You don't have that problem. No, this should apply to us. We could be at that madregah, right? Should we? No? Excuse me. Look at my shirt. Not machine washable.