Kiddushin: 33
The Mitzvah of Standing for Torah Scholars
Part of Kiddushin: chapter 1 · 58:46
A Kiddushin sugya on the halachos of 拽讬诪讛 讜讛讬讚讜专, exploring who is obligated to stand for a Torah scholar, the exemptions for artisans and the Mishnah's bikkurim-bearers, and the boundaries of standing out of kavod in places like the bathhouse.
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Maseches Kiddushin 讚祝 诇"讙, and we will start at the end of the second line from the top of the amud. And the Gemara here is the middle of discussing the 驻住讜拽, 诪驻谞讬 砖讬讘讛 转拽讜诐 讜讛讚专转 驻谞讬 讝拽谉. This is the pasuk in 驻专砖转 拽讚讜砖讬诐 讬"讟, 驻住讜拽 诇"讘. The pasuk says, 诪驻谞讬 砖讬讘讛 转拽讜诐, for an old man you should stand up, 讜讛讚专转 驻谞讬 讝拽谉, you should give honor the face of a zaken. And as the Gemara explained before, zaken means the one that is a talmid chacham. And the Gemara is going to discuss the beraisa that the Gemara brought before concerning this 驻住讜拽, 诪驻谞讬 砖讬讘讛 转拽讜诐 讜讛讚专转 驻谞讬 讝拽谉. 讗诪专 诪专, we have learned before, 讬讻讜诇 讬讛讚专谞讜 讘诪诪讜谉, that when the pasuk says 讜讛讚专转 驻谞讬 讝拽谉, you should give hidur, you should give honor to the 驻谞讬 讝拽谉, I might think that you have to honor him through money. And the reason we would think so is, as Rashi says, because we find other pesukim where the Torah uses the same expression of hidur and there it does mean money. For instance, the pasuk in 驻专砖转 拽讚讜砖讬诐 where it says, 诇讗 转讛讚专 驻谞讬 讙讚讜诇, which means do not give honor a 讙讚讜诇, and the peshat in the pasuk is that when you have a din Torah, a dispute between a rich man and a poor man, do not give honor to the rich man and say, "I will make him win the din Torah, because after all he is rich, I don't want to embarrass him." So the pasuk says, 诇讗 转讛讚专 驻谞讬 讙讚讜诇, do not give hidur to the 讙讚讜诇, which means do not make him win the din Torah and get the money. Or the other pasuk where it says, 讜讚诇 诇讗 转讛讚专 讘专讬讘讜, do not give hidur to a poor man in his argument. Because one might think that since he is poor, I might as well make him win the din Torah, and let him get the money. So the pasuk says do not do it. And in both of these pesukim, the Torah uses the term hidur and there it does talk about money. So I would think here, too, since the pasuk says 讜讛讚专转 驻谞讬 讝拽谉, I would think it means that you have to spend money for the 讛讬讚讜专, you have to give him money. 转诇诪讜讚 诇讜诪专, so therefore we learn out from the pasuk that it says 转拽讜诐 讜讛讚专转. The pasuk is, as we said before, 诪驻谞讬 砖讬讘讛 转拽讜诐 讜讛讚专转 驻谞讬 讝拽谉, so we
compare the two words, 转拽讜诐 讜讛讚专转, that stay next to each other, and we say that 诪讛 拽讬诪讛 砖讗讬谉 讘讛 讞住专讜谉 讻讬住, just like 拽讬诪讛, standing up, the beginning of the pasuk which is 诪驻谞讬 砖讬讘讛 转拽讜诐, you should stand up for a 砖讬讘讛, and standing up has no loss of money, 讗祝 讛讬讚讜专, so too, when the Torah says you have to give 讛讬讚讜专 to the 讝拽谉, it's a kind of 讛讬讚讜专 砖讗讬谉 讘讜 讞住专讜谉 讻讬住, that has no loss of money. And therefore we know that it does not mean that you have to be 诪讛讚专 him through money. And then the Gemara asks, 讜拽讬诪讛 诇讬转 讘讛 讞住专讜谉 讻讬住? How can you say that 拽讬诪讛, standing up, has no loss of money? There is a possibility that your standing up should cost you money. 诪讬 诇讗 注住拽讬谞谉, aren't we talking also in a case 讚拽讗 谞拽讬讘 诪专讙诇讬住讗, when a person is cutting diamonds, 讗讚讛讻讬 讜讛讻讬 拽讗讬 诪拽诪讬讛, so while he's standing up, 讜讘讟讬诇 诪诪诇讗讻转讜, he is batel from his work. Since he'll stand up, he'll stop working, and since he is doing a very expensive job, so that moment that he will stand up will be costing him money. And nevertheless, the din is that you would have to stand up, so we see that standing up could also be in a case where there is a 讞住专讜谉 讻讬住, a loss of money. So how can we say that we know that 讜讛讚专转 驻谞讬 讝拽谉 means not in a case where it cost you money, because we learn out from the beginning, 诪驻谞讬 砖讬讘讛 转拽讜诐, who says that 诪驻谞讬 砖讬讘讛 转拽讜诐 does not cost money? Who says that 拽讬诪讛, standing up, doesn't cost money? 讗诇讗, the Gemara answers, 讗拽讬砖 拽讬诪讛 诇讛讬讚讜专. We go first, we compare 拽讬诪讛 to 讛讬讚讜专. We compare standing up to 讛讬讚讜专. 诪讛 讛讬讚讜专 砖讗讬谉 讘讜 讘讬讟讜诇, just like 讛讬讚讜专, giving kavod, has no 讘讬讟讜诇 诪诇讗讻讛, 讗祝 拽讬诪讛 砖讗讬谉 讘讛 讘讬讟讜诇, so too, when you stand up, it's only if there is no 讘讬讟讜诇 诪诇讗讻讛, only if you do not have to waste time from work. So first we learn out that standing up is only in a case where you don't waste time from work, and we learn that out from 讛讬讚讜专, because 讛讬讚讜专 normally has nothing to do with wasting time of work. Now that we know that you don't have to stand up in a case where you are giving up time from work, 讜讗拽讬砖 谞诪讬 讛讬讚讜专 诇拽讬诪讛, now we go back and we compare 讛讬讚讜专 to 拽讬诪讛. And we say, 诪讛 拽讬诪讛 砖讗讬谉 讘讛 讞住专讜谉 讻讬住, just like standing up is only in a case where there is no loss of money, because the only possible loss of money by standing up is wasting time of work, and since we just learned out that you don't have to waste time from work, so we know that by 拽讬诪讛, by standing up, there is no din of losing money. So now that we know that, we learn out, just like standing up has no 讞住专讜谉 讻讬住, 讗祝 讛讬讚讜专 砖讗讬谉 讘讜 讞住专讜谉 讻讬住. So too, when the Torah says 讜讛讚专转 驻谞讬 讝拽谉, that you have to give honor to the 讝拽谉, it is only in a case where there is no 讞住专讜谉 讻讬住, where there is no loss of money. But if there is a loss of money, you don't have to give 讛讬讚讜专. And Rashi explains the reason b'klal the Torah has to say 讜讛讚专转 is because of the different 诇讬诪讜讚讬诐 that we learn out, as the Gemara said earlier.
讜诪讻讗谉 讗诪专讜, from here the Chachamim said: 讗讬谉 讘注诇讬 讗讜诪谞讬讜转 专砖讗讬谉 诇注诪讜讚 诪驻谞讬 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐 讘砖注讛 砖注讜住拽讬谉 讘诪诇讗讻转谉, that the 讘注诇讬 讗讜诪谞讬讜转, the people who work, do not have to stand up in front of 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐 while they are involved in their work. Because, as we said before, if it's going to cause them money, they do not have to stand up in front of the 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐. The truth is that the expression 专砖讗讬谉, in 诇砖讜谉 拽讜讚砖, in Hebrew, means you're not allowed. So if we're going to translate this 诪讗诪专 讞讝状诇, a literal translation that would mean that the 讘注诇讬 讗讜诪谞讬讜转, the people who work, are not allowed to stand up in front of 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐 when they are working. And Tosafos really asks: it is not the pshat that they're not allowed to stand up; they're allowed to if they want to, they don't have to stand up. So why does the Gemara use the 诇砖讜谉 讗讬谉 讘注诇讬 讗讜诪谞讬讜转 专砖讗讬谉 诇注诪讜讚, which would mean that they're not allowed to stand up? So Tosafos has two pshatim. One pshat is that we're talking in a case where they're working for other people. So then, if they would stand up, they would be, so to speak, stealing money from others, they would be wasting time from the work that they have to work for others, and therefore they are not allowed to stand up. Since they don't have to stand up, and it is not their time, they are not allowed to stand up. Or another pshat Tosafos is saying that really we are talking in a case where they're working for themselves, too. And the word 专砖讗讬谉 could also mean they don't have to stand up. Then the Gemara continues:
讜诇讗, is it not so? What did we say? That they do not have to stand up in front of 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐 while they are working? 讜讛转谞谉, didn't we learn in a Mishnah: 讻诇 讘注诇讬 讗讜诪谞讬讜转 注讜诪讚讬诐 诪驻谞讬讛诐, that all the workers would stand up in front of them? This refers to those that brought 讘讬讻讜专讬诐. There's a din that you have to bring 讘讬讻讜专讬诐 to Yerushalayim, that after the field grows, the first fruit has to be brought to Yerushalayim. And this was a special mitzvah. And the Gemara says that they used to come in groups to Jerusalem with the bikkurim, and they used to have a lot of kavod on the way to Jerusalem. And when they came into Jerusalem, the Mishnah says, all the workers would stand up in front of them. 讜砖讜讗诇讬诐 讘砖诇讜诪诐, they would ask 砖诇讜诐, they would say hello to them. 讜讗讜诪专讬诐 诇讛诐, and they would say to them: 讗讞讬谞讜, our brothers, 讗谞砖讬 诪拽讜诐 驻诇讜谞讬, people from this and this place, 讘讜讗讻诐 诇砖诇讜诐, your coming should be in peace. So we see here that they would have to stop working and give kavod to the people who brought bikkurim. And the Gemara feels here that the same would apply to standing up in front of a talmid chacham. Just like they have to stand up and stop working for the people who brought bikkurim, so too they would have to stand up and start work stop working for the talmidei chachamim. The Gemara says:
讗诪专 专讘讬 讬讜讞谞谉, Rabbi Yochanan said, it is not so. 诪驻谞讬讛诐 注讜诪讚讬诐, for them, for the people who brought bikkurim, they would stand up; 诪驻谞讬 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐 讗讬谉 注讜诪讚讬诐, but in front of talmidei chachamim they don't have to stand up. And as we learned out before, because the 拽讬诪讛, the standing up, has to be in such a way that has no 讞住专讜谉 讻讬住. But if it has a 讞住专讜谉 讻讬住, a loss of money, then you don't have to lose that money for standing up in front of talmidei chachamim. 讗诪专 专讘讬 讬讜住讬 讘专 讗讘讬谉, Rabbi Yosi bar Avin said: 讘讜讗 讜专讗讛, come and see, 讻诪讛 讞讘讬讘讛 诪爪讜讛 讘砖注转讛. How chaviv, how beloved it is when you do a mitzvah in its proper time. As we see, 砖讛专讬 诪驻谞讬讛诐 注讜诪讚讬诐, because in front of them, in front of those that brought bikkurim, they would stand up; 诪驻谞讬 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐 讗讬谉 注讜诪讚讬诐, in front of talmidei chachamim they wouldn't stand up. And he feels the reason is because when they're coming with the bikkurim, they're doing a mitzvah in its time, that's actually when they are doing the mitzvah, and that is so beloved, so special, that in front of those people they would have to stand up. And the Gemara said it's no re'aya: 讜讚讬诇诪讗 砖讗谞讬 讛转诐, maybe there it's different. It's not because a mitzvah while it's done in its time is very beloved, maybe there's a different reason. Because 讚讗诐 讻谉 谞诪爪讗转 诪讻砖讬诇谉 诇注转讬讚 诇讘讜讗, because if you're not going to stand up, you might do 诪讻砖讬诇 them for the future. In other words, when they will come and they will see they're not getting any kavod for coming with the bikurim, they will think that people don't really care about them, so maybe next time they won't bring the bikurim. And therefore, in a case like that, you have to stand up. But let's say it would be other mitzvot that also done 讘砖注转讛, maybe you also don't have to stand up. And only in this case, in order to avoid the 诪讻砖讜诇 for the future of these people who brought the bikurim. Then the Gemara continues: 讗诪专 诪专, we've learned before in the 讘专讬讬转讗, 讬讻讜诇 讬注诪讜讚 诪驻谞讬讜 诪讘讬转 讛讻住讗 讜诪讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓 that I would think maybe you have to stand up for a talmid chacham when you are in the 讘讬转 讛讻住讗 or in the 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓, in the bathroom or in the bathhouse, that you would have to stand up, and we bring a pasuk that you don't. Only a 拽讬诪讛 砖讬砖 讘讛 讛讬讚讜专, only a standing up which brings kavod. That's when you have to stand up, but if it doesn't bring any kavod, you don't have to, because while you are in the 讘讬转 讛讻住讗 or in the 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓, it's not really a kavod to stand up. And the Gemara asks: 讜诇讗? Is it not true? Is it so that you do not have to stand up when you are in the 讘讬转 讛讻住讗 or in the 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓? 讜讛讗 专讘 讞讬讬讗 讛讜讛 讬转讬讘 讘讬 诪住讞讜转讗, but we know that 专讘 讞讬讬讗, he was sitting in the 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓, 讜讞诇讬祝 讜讗讝讬诇 专讘 砖诪注讜谉 讘专 讗讘讗, and 专讘 砖诪注讜谉 讘专 讗讘讗 passed by, 讜诇讗 拽诐 诪拽诪讬讛, and he didn't stand up for him, 讜讗讬拽驻讚, and he was upset, he was angry. 讜讗转讗, and he came, 讗诪专 诇讬讛 诇讗讘讜讛, and he said to his father: 砖谞讬 讞讜诪砖讬谉 砖谞讬转讬 诇讜 讘住驻专 转讛诇讬诐, two-fifths I taught him in 住驻专 转讛诇讬诐, 讜诇讗 注诪讚 诪驻谞讬, and he didn't stand up in front of me. So we see here that even though he was in the 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓, he still expected him to stand up because he was his rebbi, because he taught him two-fifths of Tehillim. Or as Tosafos learns that when it says here 砖谞讬 讞讜诪砖讬谉, it doesn't just mean two-fifths, it means two chumashim, because as we know, Tehillim is divided into five parts, similar to the 讞诪讬砖讛 讞讜诪砖讬 转讜专讛, to the five chumashim of the Torah. And Tosafos says exactly where the division is. So when he said, "I taught him 砖谞讬 讞讜诪砖讬谉," two chumashim of Tehillim, he doesn't mean actually two-fifths of Tehillim, but two chumashim of Tehillim. And nevertheless he didn't stand up for him, and he was upset because of that. So we see that really you do have to stand up even if you are in the 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓. V'tu, and also another re'iyah: Bar Kappara, va'amrei lah Rav Shmuel bar Rav Yosei, Bar Kappara, or others say it was Rav Shmuel bar Rav Yosei, 讛讜讛 讬转讬讘 讘讬 诪住讞讜转讗, was sitting in the 诪专讞抓, a'al va'azil Rav Shimon bar Abba, and Rav Shimon bar Abba happened to come up and pass by, 讜诇讗 拽诐 诪拽诪讬讛, and he didn't stand up for him, 讜讗讬拽驻讚, and he was upset, he was angry. 讜讗转讗 讗诪专 诇讬讛 诇讗讘讜讛, and he came to his father and he said to him: 砖谞讬 砖诇讬砖讬 砖诇讬砖 砖谞讬转讬 诇讜 讘转讜专转 讻讛谞讬诐, two-thirds, in other words two parts of a third of Torat Kohanim I taught him. Torat Kohanim refers to the 讞讜诪砖 Vayikra, because it deals with all the dinim of kohanim of korbanot, so it's called Torat Kohanim. And when he says, "I taught him two-thirds of a third of Torat Kohanim", in other words, the midrashim, the aggadot that we find on the 讞讜诪砖 讜讬拽专讗, 讜诇讗 注诪讚 诪驻谞讬, and he didn't stand up in front of me. 讜讗诪专 诇讬讛, and his father said to him, 砖诪讗 讘讛谉 讬讜砖讘 讜诪讛专讛专, maybe he was sitting and thinking about those midrashim, those limudim that you taught him. So therefore he didn't notice you, and therefore he didn't stand up. So we see here, 讟注诪讗 讚讘讛谉 讬讜砖讘 讜诪讛专讛专, the whole reason why he wasn't standing up was because he was thinking about those words of Torah. 讛讗 诇讗讜 讛讻讬, but if not for that, 诇讗, it wouldn't have been an excuse, and he would have to stand up. So we see here too that you do have to stand up even if you are in the 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓. And the
Gemara says, 诇讗 拽砖讬讗, this is no 拽砖讬讗. 讛讗 讘讘转讬 讙讜讜讗讬, this case is talking about the inner rooms, 讜讛讗 讘讘转讬 讘专讗讬, this is talking about the outer rooms, because the way they used to have the 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓 in those days, they used to have two rooms: the outer room where people would stand dressed, and the inner room, that's where the people would stand undressed. That's what he says: when we say that you don't have to stand up in 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓, that is if you are in the inner room. And since the people are undressed, there is no kavod in standing up for a talmid chacham. But if you are in the outer room, where people are dressed, there a person is obligated to stand up. And therefore in these two stories where we find that Bar Kappara was upset why he didn't stand up, that was because they were in the outer room, and there there is a chiyuv to stand up. And the Gemara says, 讛讻讗 谞诪讬 诪住转讘专讗, this also sounds logical. In other words, for a different reason we also must say that the case that the Gemara brought was when they were standing in the outer room, because 讗诪专 专讘讛 讘专 讘专 讞谞讛 讗诪专 专讘讬 讬讜讞谞谉, because 专讘讛 讘专 讘专 讞谞讛 said in the name of 专讘讬 讬讜讞谞谉: 讘讻诇 诪拽讜诐 诪讜转专 诇讛专讛专, all over you are allowed to think words of 转讜专讛, 讞讜抓 诪讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓 讜诪讘讬转 讛讻住讗, except in the 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓, in the bathhouse, and in the 讘讬转 讛讻住讗, in the bathroom. And here, since he said to him that maybe the reason he didn't stand up was because he was thinking words of Torah, so if he was in the inner room, how could he have thought words of Torah? How can he give him such an excuse when you're not allowed to think words of Torah in the 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓? So that itself proves that he was in the outer room, where you're allowed to think words of Torah, and that's why he said that probably he was thinking words of Torah and he didn't notice you, that's why he stood up. So we see from here that we anyway must say that he was in the outer room, and therefore, that could be the answer why he expected him to stand up, because in the outer room, you must stand up. Then the Gemara says, "No, it's no 专讗讬讛 from here from the fact that he said that maybe he was thinking words of Torah. There's no 专讗讬讛 that he was in the outer room, because 讚讬诇诪讗 诇讗讜谞住讜 砖讗谞讬. Maybe could have been in the inner room. 讗讬讬, we said that you're not allowed to think words of Torah in the 诪专讞抓, if you are an ones, if you are forced, 砖讗谞讬 that it's different. If a person was learning Torah right before he went to the 诪专讞抓, and his mind is constantly involved in the words of Torah, so then, when he is in the 诪专讞抓 and he thinks words of Torah, he can't help himself. It's an ones. When it's an ones, it's different. And maybe that's what he meant here. Maybe he was really in the inner room, where you are not allowed to think words of Torah, but nevertheless, he still said that he maybe was thinking the words of Torah, because it could be he was so involved in it that he couldn't help himself, and he was thinking words of Torah. So we have no 专讗讬讛 that he was really in the outer room. But nevertheless, we still could say that he was in the outer room, in order to answer the 住转讬专讛, that before we said that in the 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓 you don't have to stand up, and here we have a story where he expected him to stand up. So we still could answer that the din that you don't have to stand up is in the inner room, and the story where he expected him to stand up was in the outer room." Then the Gemara continues. We learn in the Baraisa before, 讬讻讜诇 讬注爪讬诐 注讬谞讬讜 讻诪讬 砖诇讗 专讗讜讛讜, that we might think a person is able to close his eyes as if he doesn't see the talmid chacham to stand up for him. So the 驻住讜拽 says, 讜讬专讗转 诪讗诇拽讬讱, you should be afraid of Hashem. And the Gemara says before that wherever there is a din which is 诪住讜专 诇诇讘, something that's put into the heart of the person, no one could know, the Torah uses the term 讜讬专讗转 诪讗诇拽讬讱. You should be afraid of Hashem, because Hashem knows what's in your heart. So here, too, no one could know whether the reason you didn't stand up is because you didn't notice him or you specially closed your eyes, but Hashem says, "I know." So therefore, be afraid of Me and don't close your eyes. But the Gemara asks a 砖讗诇讛, 讗讟讜 讘专砖讬注讬 注住拽讬谞谉? Are we talking about resha'im? What kind of hava amina is it that a person might think he's allowed to close his eyes? If the din is that you have to stand up, then how can we even think that you're allowed to close your eyes? Are we talking about a rasha, a person who wants to do something against the Torah? So then why do we need a special pasuk to tell us that you're not allowed to close your eyes and make yourself as if you didn't see him? 讗诇讗, the Gemara answers, the pshat is different. 讬讻讜诇, I would think, 讬注爪讬诐 注讬谞讬讜 诪拽诪讬 讚诇讬诪讟讬 讝诪谉 讞讬讜讘讗, that he's allowed to close his eyes before the time of the chiyuv, of the obligation comes. In other words, as we will say later, the obligation to stand up comes when he is within your 讚壮 讗诪讜转, within four 讗诪讜转 of you. So we might think that before he gets to the place where you have to stand up, you could close your eyes, and then you're allowed to close your eyes because he didn't get close enough to you that you should have to stand up, and you'll do it 讚讻讬 诪讟讬 讝诪谉 讞讬讜讘讗, so when the time of the chiyuv comes, 讛诇讗 诇讗 讞讝讬 诇讬讛 讚拽讗讬诐 拽诪讬讛. So now you don't see him, you should stand up. You closed your eyes before, so now when he gets closer, your eyes are still closed, and now you really don't see him. So I would think you're allowed to do that, 转诇诪讜讚 诇讜诪专, so the pasuk tells us, 转拽讜诐 讜讬专讗转. You have to stand up and be afraid of Hashem, which means that do not do it, because Hashem knows that the reason you did it was because you wanted to avoid standing up. Then the Gemara continues, 转谞讬, we
learn in a 讘专讬讬转讗, 讗讬讝讜 讛讬讗 拽讬诪讛 砖讬砖 讘讛 讛讬讚讜专? What's called standing up that has hidur, that has kavod? We say that you have to stand up in order to give him hidur, to give him kavod. How close does he have to be that you should have to stand up in order to give him hidur? 讛讜讬 讗讜诪专, so we say, 讝讛 讚壮 讗诪讜转, that is four 讗诪讜转, that when he comes within your four 讗诪讜转, that's when you have to stand up. 讗诪专 讗讘讬讬, so Abaye said, 诇讗 讗诪专讜, this was not said, 讗诇讗 讘专讘讜 砖讗讬谞讜 诪讜讘讛拽, only if it is his Rabbi, but not his 专讘讬 诪讜讘讛拽. 专讘讬 诪讜讘讛拽 means his main Rabbi where he learned most of his Torah from. So there the din is that you only have to stand up when he comes within your four amos. 讗讘诇 讘专讘讜 讛诪讜讘讛拽, but when we're talking about a 专讘讬 诪讜讘讛拽, which means his main Rebbi, that most of his Torah he learned from him, so then it is 诪诇讗 注讬谞讬讜, that is his full eyes, which means from when you could see him from far, you must already stand up. And the Gemara says, 讗讘讬讬 诪讻讬 讛讜讛 讞讝讬 诇讬讛 诇讗讜讚谞讗 讚讞诪专讗 讚专讘 讬讜住祝, when 讗讘讬讬 would see the beginning, the edge, the ears of the donkey of 专讘
讬讜住祝, 讚讗转讬, that he was coming, 讛讜讛 拽讗讬诐, he would stand up already. Because 专讘 讬讜住祝 was his 专讘讬 诪讜讘讛拽, and as we said before, by a 专讘讬 诪讜讘讛拽 you must stand up as soon as you see him from far. Then the Gemara continues, 讗讘讬讬 讛讜讛 专讻讬讘 讞诪专讗, 讗讘讬讬 was riding a donkey, 讜拽讗 诪住讙讬 讗讙讜讚讗 讚谞讛专 住讙讬讗, and he was coming to the border, the edge of 谞讛专 住讙讬讗, 讬转讘讬 专讘 诪砖专砖讬讗 讜专讘谞谉 诪讗讬讚讱 讙讬住讗, and 专讘 诪砖专砖讬讗 and the 专讘谞谉 sat on the other side of the river, 讜诇讗 拽诪讜 诪拽诪讬讛, they didn't stand up in front of him. It was close enough that they were able to see him, and we said before for a 专讘讬 诪讜讘讛拽 you have to stand up as soon as you could see, and nevertheless, they did not stand up for him. 讗诪专 诇讛讜, so he said to them, 讜诇讗讜 专讘 诪讜讘讛拽 讗谞讗? Am I not your 专讘讬 诪讜讘讛拽? So why didn't you stand up for me when you saw me across the river? 讗诪专讜 诇讬讛, they said to him, 诇讗讜 讗讚注转讬谉, we didn't realize it. We didn't notice you, that's why we didn't stand up. But if they would have noticed, they would have stood up, as the din is that by a 专讘讬 诪讜讘讛拽 you must stand up as soon as you see him from far. Then the Gemara continues, we learned in the Beraita before, 专讘讬
砖诪注讜谉 讘谉 讗诇注讝专 讗讜诪专, 专讘讬 砖诪注讜谉 讘谉 讗诇注讝专 says, 诪谞讬谉 诇讝拽谉 砖诇讗 讬讟专讬讞, how do we know that the 讝拽谉 himself should not be 诪讟专讬讞, if a talmid chacham is able to take a different road, that he would not be 诪讟专讬讞 the people to stand up, that that is what he's supposed to do? 转诇诪讜讚 诇讜诪专, we learn out from the 驻住讜拽, 讝拽谉 讜讬专讗转. The pasuk says, 讜讛讚专转 驻谞讬 讝拽谉 讜讬专讗转 诪讗诇拽讬讱. So the word 讝拽谉 says right next to the word 讜讬专讗转, to teach us that the 讝拽谉 himself has to have yirat shamayim, that the 讝拽谉 himself has to do everything possible not to be 诪讟专讬讞 the people to stand up. The Gemara says, 讗诪专 讗讘讬讬, Abaye said, 谞拽讬讟讬谞谉, we accept, we know, 讚讗讬 诪拽讬祝, that if the 讝拽谉, the talmid chacham will surround, will go around, he will take a different way even though it's longer, but he will take it in order not to be 诪讟专讬讞 the people to stand up, 讞讬讛, he will live, he will have 讗专讬讻讜转 讬诪讬诐, he will live long. And the Gemara says, 讗讘讬讬 诪拽讬祝, Abaye used to do that. Abaye used to go around, take a different road even though it was longer, he had to go around, but he used to do it anyway. 专讘 讝讬专讗 诪拽讬祝, and Rav Zeira used to do the same, he also used to go around. Then the Gemara says, 专讘讬谞讗 讛讜讛 讬转讬讘 拽诪讬讛 讚专讘 讬专诪讬讛 诪讚讬驻转讬, Ravina was sitting in front of Rav Yirmiyah from Diftai. 讞诇祝 讛讛讜讗 讙讘专讗 诪拽诪讬讛 讜诇讗 诪讬讻住讬讗 专讬砖讬讛, this person passed by and he didn't cover his head. And it seems that in those days, not everyone covered their heads, but nevertheless, when they used to come in front of talmidei chachamim, out of respect for the talmidei chachamim, they used to cover their heads. And here, there was this person that passed by in front of Ravina and in front of Rav Yirmiyah mi-Diftai, and he didn't cover his head. 讗诪专, so Ravina said, 讻诪讛 讞爪讬祝 讛讗讬 讙讘专讗! Look what kind of chutzpah this person has, that he is here and he doesn't cover his head. 讗诪专 诇讬讛, so he said to him, 讚讬诇诪讗 诪诪转讗 诪讞住讬讗 谞讬讛讜. Maybe they are from Mata Mechasya, maybe he comes from that city 诪转讗 诪讞住讬讗, 讚讙讗讬住讬 讘讛讜 专讘谞谉, that the chachamim are constantly with them, and therefore these people, their hearts were very open to the chachamim, as if they are one of the chachamim, and they didn't feel that much that they have to put on their hats, cover their heads when they were in front of the chachamim. But it doesn't mean that they don't have respect for the chachamim, but this was their custom. Therefore, you can't say that this person has the chutzpah. Then the Gemara continues, we learned in the 讘专讬讬转讗 before, 讗讬住讬 讘谉 讬讛讜讚讛 讗讜诪专, Isi ben Yehudah said, 诪驻谞讬 砖讬讘讛 转拽讜诐, you should stand up for an old person, 讜讗驻讬诇讜 讻诇 砖讬讘讛 讘诪砖诪注, it means any kind of old person. Because there was another opinion in the 讘专讬讬转讗 that you only have to stand up for an old person who is a talmid chacham. But an a 讝拽谉 讗砖诪讗讬, an old person who is not a talmid chacham, you don't have to stand up. But Isi ben Yehudah said no, that you have to stand up for any old person. So 讗诪专 专讘讬 讬讜讞谞谉, Rabbi Yochanan said, 讛诇讻讛 讻讗讬住讬 讘谉 讬讛讜讚讛, the halacha is like Isi ben Yehuda, that you have to stand up for every 砖讬讘讛, for every older person. The Gemara says, 专讘讬 讬讜讞谞谉 讛讜讛 拽讗讬诐 诪拽诪讬 住讘讬 讚讗专诪讗讬, Rabbi Yochanan used to stand up even for an old goy. 讗诪专, and he said, 讻诪讛 讛专驻转拽讬 注讚讜 注诇讬讬讛讜 讚讛谞讬! How many experiences, how many happenings happened to these people? In other words, since this person is old, so definitely he saw many miracles in his time, and many tzarot happened to him, and many problems, so because of that itself you have to stand up in front of this person. Then the Gemara says, 专讘讗 诪拽诐 诇讗 拽讗讬, Rabba would not stand up for these people, but 讛讬讚讜专 注讘讬讚, some hidur, some kavod he would give, which means that he would just make a little movement to show some respect to this old person. 讗讘讬讬 讬讛讬讘 讬讚讬讛 诇住讘讬, Abaye would give a hand to an older person. If an older person would walk by, so he would stick out his hand so that person should hold on to him and lean on to him, he should be able to walk, make it easier for that person to walk. 专讘讗 诪砖讚专 砖诇讜讞讬, Rabba would send agents. Rabba, if he would see an older person go, he himself would not stick out his hand to help him, but he would send people to help that person. And 专讘 谞讞诪谉 诪砖讚专 讙讜讝讗讬, Rav Nachman would send agents, he would send servants. As Rashi says, Rav Nachman was a chatan, the son-in-law of the 谞砖讬讗, a 讗讘 讘讬转 讚讬谉. So therefore he always had servants in front of him, because since they used to 驻住拽谉 讚讬谞讬诐, so they had to make sure that people listened to them, so they always had servants that were ready to force the person to listen to the psak din of the 谞砖讬讗, the 讗讘 讘讬转 讚讬谉. So whenever an older person would walk by, he would send these servants to help. The reason he didn't go himself, 讗诪专, he said, 讗讬 诇讗讜 转讜专讛, if not for the 转讜专讛, 讻诪讛 谞讞诪谉 讘专 讗讘讗 讗讬讻讗 讘砖讜拽讗? How many 谞讞诪谉 讘专 讗讘讗's would you have in the street? You'd have plenty. In other words, my specialty is because I learned Torah. And therefore he said that the reason he doesn't go himself is not because he cares about his own kavod, it's about the Torah that he learned, the kavod that he has for the Torah. So he has no right to be mochel on that kavod. So therefore all he did, he would send the servants to help those older people, but he himself wouldn't go. This is the pshat the way Rashi learns. Rashi himself says there's another pshat, but he himself says it's not the right pshat. The other pshat that Rashi says is that Abaye, when it says in the Gemara he used to stick out his hand to an older person, it doesn't mean that, as he said before, to stick out his hand to help that person, on the contrary, that he would stick out his hand and lean on that person. But Rava would send 砖诇讜讞讬诐 to tell the other people that he is coming, so they should give him kavod. And Rav Nachman would send agents to tell them that he is coming, to get kavod. But Rashi says that is not the right peshat, because whenever it says in the Gemara that someone stuck out his hand, it doesn't mean he stuck out his hand to lean on somebody else, but that means he stuck out his hand that the other person should lean on him. Therefore we have to learn in the Gemara here, too, that Abaye stuck out his hand so the older person should lean on him, and Rava would send 砖诇讜讞讬诐 to help those people to lean on them, and Rav Nachman would send the 住专讬住讬诐, Rav Nachman would send the servants to help those people, and himself he wouldn't go. Then the Gemara continues: 讗诪专 专讘 讬讜住祝 讗诪专 专讘 讬谞讗讬, 专讘 讬讜住祝 said in the name of Rav Yanai: 讗讬谉 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐 专砖讗讬 诇注诪讜讚 诪驻谞讬 专讘讜 讗诇讗 砖讞专讬转 讜注专讘讬转. A talmid chacham is not allowed to stand up in front of his Rebbe only in the morning and the evening, 讻讚讬 砖诇讗 讬讛讗 讻讘讜讚讜 诪专讜讘讛 诪讻讘讜讚 砖诪讬诐, in order that the kavod of his Rebbe should not be greater than the kavod of 砖诪讬诐. Since Hashem we only receive we only give him kavod in the morning and the evening when we daven, so too for the Rebbe he only give kavod twice, in the morning and the evening. But here Tosafot asks a kashya: if you only have to stand up in front of your Rebbe 砖讞专讬转 讜注专讘讬转, why do we find in the Gemara 讚祝 诇状讘 注诪讜讚 讘壮 that Rava was upset why they didn't give give him kavod? Maybe they stood up for him in the morning and the evening, and therefore they didn't have to stand up now? So Tosafot says that that this din that you only have to stand up in the morning and the evening only refers to those who actually live in the house of the Rebbe, because they stand up in the morning and the evening. But all the other talmidim have to stand up even a hundred times a day. Why? Because maybe someone else will see that they don't stand up, and they'll be chashud, they'll suspect that they're not giving kavod to the Rebbe. So they constantly have to stand up. And Tosafot says even more: even those that live in the house of the Rebbe, but if there are strangers that come in, they also have to stand up every time, because those strangers will not know that they already stood up in the morning, and therefore they'll suspect that they don't give kavod to the Rebbe, and therefore they have to stand up every time that the Rebbi comes in. Then the Gemara asks a kashya: 诪讬转讬讘讬, I'll ask you a kashya: 专讘讬 砖诪注讜谉 讘谉 讗诇注讝专 讗讜诪专, 专讘讬 砖诪注讜谉 讘谉 讗诇注讝专 says, we said before, 诪谞讬讬谉 诇讝拽谉 砖诇讗 讬讟专讬讞? How do we know that a zaken should not be 诪讟专讬讞 the people in standing up? 转诇诪讜讚 诇讜诪专: 讝拽谉 讜讬专讗转. We quoted the pasuk where it says 讝拽谉 讜讬专讗转 诪讗诇拽讬讱, that even the zaken has to have yirah and not be 诪讟专讬讞 the people to stand up. 讜讗讬 讗诪专转 砖讞专讬转 讜注专讘讬转 讘诇讘讚, if you're gonna say that you only have to stand up in the morning and evening, 讗诪讗讬 诇讗 讬讟专讬讞? Why shouldn't he be 诪讟专讬讞 them? 讞讬讜讘讗 讛讜讗! Isn't it a chiyuv? Since you only have to stand up in the morning and the evening, and this is the normal way, so the Gemara feels here it's a chiyuv, that in the morning and evening you must stand up. So why should he avoid coming the regular way, they shouldn't stand up? Adrabah! He should come the regular way in order for them to stand up, isn't it a chiyuv for them to stand up? 讗诇讗 诇讗讜, isn't this a re'ayah that 讻讜诇讬 讬讜诪讗, that you have to stand up a whole day? That since we say you shouldn't be 诪讟专讬讞, that shows that every time you see him you have to stand up, and that is really an extra tircha, and that's why we say that he should avoid being 诪讟专讬讞 them. So the Gemara says, 诇讗, 诇注讜诇诐 砖讞专讬转 讜注专讘讬转 讘诇讘讚. Be'emet you only have to stand up in the morning and the evening. Va'afilu hachi, and still, 讻诪讛 讚讗驻砖专 诇讬讛 诇讗 谞讬讟专讞, as much as possible he shouldn't be 诪讟专讬讞 them. In other words, it's not a chiyuv that you must stand up in the morning and evening. It's only that if your Rebbi comes and you see him, then you must stand up in the morning or the evening. But if he is able to do that you shouldn't have to stand up, then he should see that he should not be 诪讟专讬讞 even when it comes to standing up just twice a day, just the morning and evening. Then the Gemara continues: 讗诪专 专讘讬 讗诇注讝专, Rabbi Elazar said: 讻诇 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐 砖讗讬谉 注讜诪讚 诪驻谞讬 专讘讜, any talmid chacham that doesn't stand up in front of his Rebbi, 谞拽专讗 rasha, is called a 专砖注, 讜讗讬谞讜 诪讗专讬讱 讬诪讬诐, and he will not live long, 讜转诇诪讜讚讜 诪砖转讻讞, and he will forget his learning. How do we know that? 砖谞讗诪专, because the pasuk says: How do we know that? 砖谞讗诪专 砖谞讗诪专 because the pasuk says, the pasuk in Kohelet 讞, it says 讜讟讜讘 诇讗 讬讛讬讛 诇专砖注, good will not be to the 专砖注, 讜诇讗 讬讗专讬讱 讬诪讬诐 讻爪诇, he will not live long just like a shadow, 讗砖专 讗讬谞谞讜 讬专讗 诪诇驻谞讬 讗诇拽讬诐, because he is not afraid of Hashem. And as Rashi says, this pasuk tells us these three things: first of all, we call him a rasha; second of all, it says 讜讟讜讘 诇讗 讬讛讬讛, he will not have tov, he will not have good, and this refers to Torah, because 讗讬谉 讟讜讘 讗诇讗 转讜专讛, wherever it says good it means Torah, so the pasuk says he will not have tov, it means he will not have Torah, that means he will forget his learning; and it says 讜诇讗 讬讗专讬讱 讬诪讬诐 讻爪诇 that he will not live long. So from here we see the three things: that he is called a rasha, he will not live long, and he will forget his Torah. But how do we know that this refers to a person who doesn't stand up in front of his rebbi? So the Gemara says 诪讜专讗 讝讜 讗讬谞讬 讬讜讚注 诪讛讜. The pasuk said that the reason for this is because 讗砖专 讗讬谞谞讜 讬专讗 诪诇驻谞讬 讗诇拽讬诐, because he's not afraid of Hashem, we don't know what it means. What did he do that he showed that he's not afraid of Hashem? But 讻砖讛讜讗 讗讜诪专 when the pasuk says 讜讬专讗转 诪讗诇拽讬讱, in that pasuk where it says 诪驻谞讬 砖讬讘讛 转拽讜诐 讜讛讚专转 驻谞讬 讝拽谉, there the pasuk finishes off with the words 讜讬专讗转 诪讗诇拽讬讱, you should be afraid of Hashem. So we see that concerning which thing does the Torah say you should be afraid of Hashem? Concerning standing up for a talmid chacham, for your rebbi. So from there we know when this pasuk says that this person was not afraid of 讛砖诐, 讛专讬 诪讜专讗 讝讜 拽讬诪讛. So we know that this fear that he didn't have means that he didn't stand up. So from here we know that a person that doesn't stand up in front of his rebbi has all these three things: he's called a rasha, and he is not 诪讗专讬讱 讬诪讬诐, and he will forget his learning. But then the Gemara asks 讜讗讬诪讗 maybe we could say 诪讜专讗转 专讬讘讬转, that when the Torah says he wasn't afraid of Hashem, it means that he didn't keep the din of 专讬讘讬转. 专讬讘讬转 means that you're not allowed to take interest. And when the Torah says that you shouldn't take interest, the Torah also says 讜讬专讗转 诪讗诇拽讬讱, you should be afraid of Hashem. So maybe when it says he didn't have yirat Hashem, it means that he didn't keep the mitzvah of 专讬讘讬转? Or 讜诪讜专讗转 诪砖拽诇讜转, or he wasn't afraid concerning the mitzvah of 诪砖拽诇? There's a din that you must have proper weights. So if he didn't have proper weights, he doesn't have fear of Hashem. So maybe that's what the pasuk means that he didn't have fear of Hashem? The Gemara answers: 讚讘讬 讗诇注讝专 驻谞讬 驻谞讬 讙诪专. 讚讘讬 讗诇注讝专, who said that this refers to the person who didn't stand up in front of his rebbi, learns out a gezeirah shavah of the word 驻谞讬. Because here it says 诪驻谞讬 砖讬讘讛 转拽讜诐 and it uses the word 驻谞讬, and in this pasuk it also says 讗砖专 讗讬谞谞讜 讬专讗 诪诇驻谞讬 讗诇拽讬诐, so we know that the the pasuk where it says 讗砖专 讗讬谞谞讜 讬专讗 诪诇驻谞讬 讗诇拽讬诐 refers to the same kind of thing as the 驻住讜拽 诪驻谞讬 砖讬讘讛 转拽讜诐. So from there he knows that what didn't he do? He didn't stand up in front of a talmid chacham. But Tosafos asks here a very obvious question: one of the things the Gemara asked was that maybe this refers to 诪讜专讗转 诪砖拽诇讜转, that when it says that he didn't have yirat Hashem, it means that he didn't keep the mitzvah of 诪砖拽诇讜转. So Tosafos asks, by the din of 诪砖拽诇 of having the proper weights, we do not find that the Torah should say 讜讬专讗转 诪讗诇拽讬讱. The whole kushya of the Gemara is that how do you know 讗砖专 讗讬谞谞讜 讬专讗 诪诇驻谞讬 讗诇拽讬诐 means the 讜讬专讗转 诪讗诇拽讬讱 that says by 诪驻谞讬 砖讬讘讛 转拽讜诐 讜讛讚专转 驻谞讬 讝拽谉, maybe it means the other 讜讬专讗转 诪讗诇拽讬讱 that says by ribbis or by 诪砖拽诇讜转? But we do not find by 诪砖拽诇讜转 that the pasuk should say 讜讬专讗转 诪讗诇拽讬讱. So Tosafos brings that the the Ri answers that we do find mora, the inyan of 讜讬专讗转 诪讗诇拽讬讱 by 诪砖拽诇讜转. Why? Because it says in the Midrash that when the pasuk says 讝讻讜专 讗转 讗砖专 注砖讛 诇讱 注诪诇拽, 讜讗转讛 注讬祝 讜讬讙注 讜诇讗 讬专讗 讗诇拽讬诐, remember what Amalek did to you, it was a time when you were tired and you didn't have 讬专讗转 讗诇拽讬诐. So what kind of not having 讬专讗转 讗诇拽讬诐 does it mean? So the Midrash says it means that a person who did not keep the mitzvah of 诪砖拽诇讜转. Why? Because right before the parashah of Amalek, the Torah speaks about having proper weights. So we learn out from there that Amalek comes for not keeping proper weights, and the Torah uses, by the case of Amalek the Torah says 讜诇讗 讬专讗 讗诇拽讬诐. So from here we know that there is a concept of 讜讬专讗转 诪讗诇拽讬讱 concerning 诪砖拽诇讜转, and that's what the Gemara meant when the Gemara asks maybe when it says 讗砖专 讗讬谞谞讜 讬专讗 诪诇驻谞讬 讗诇拽讬诐 it means the mora that the Torah says concerning 诪砖拽诇讜转. But Tosafos themselves say there's another girsa in the Gemara, that it didn't have to say 讜讗讬诪讗 诪讜专讗 诪砖拽诇讜转, the mora that says by mishkal by proper weights, but 诪讻砖讜诇讜转, and this refers to the 驻住讜拽 讜诇驻谞讬 注讜专 诇讗 转转谉 诪讻砖讜诇, that you shouldn't put a stumbling block in front of a blind person, and there, takeh the Torah says 讜讬专讗转 so, and that's what the Gemara means, but then Tosafot asks if that's what the Gemara means, then what is the Gemara's teirutz? That how do we know it takeh means standing up in front of the Rebbe, because he learns out 驻谞讬 驻谞讬? If the Gemara's kashya was concerning 诪讻砖讜诇讜转, there it also says 驻谞讬. It says 讜诇驻谞讬 注讜专 诇讗 转转谉 诪讻砖讜诇, so we might as well learn out the pasuk where it says 诪诇驻谞讬 讗诇拽讬诐 from the 驻住讜拽 诇驻谞讬 注讜专 诇讗 转转谉 诪讻砖讜诇 讜讬专讗转, and takeh say it means that this person did not keep the mitzvah of 讜诇驻谞讬 注讜专 诇讗 转转谉 诪讻砖讜诇. Tosafot answers that there is a special connection between standing up for a talmid chacham and having fear of Hashem. That's why we'd rather say that when the pasuk says he didn't have fear of Hashem, it means he didn't stand up for a talmid chacham. Why? Where do we find that there's a special connection between standing up for a talmid chacham and having fear of Hashem? Because the Gemara says in 讘讘讗 拽诪讗, 讗转 讛' 讗诇拽讬讱 转讬专讗 诇专讘讜转 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐, that when the Torah says you should fear Hashem, it comes to include talmidei chachamim, that you have to have yirah from talmid chacham too. That's the extra word 讗转 讛' 讗诇拽讬讱 转讬专讗 that comes to include 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐. So we see that there is a special connection in having kavod for talmidei chachamim to having fear of Hashem, and therefore when it says that 讗讬谞谞讜 讬专讗 诪诇驻谞讬 讗诇拽讬诐, that the person did not have yirah, he did not have fear of Hashem, we'd rather say it means that he didn't stand up in front of his Rebbe, or in front of a talmid chacham. Then the Gemara continues, 讗讬讘注讬讗 诇讛讜, they asked a question, there was an 讗讬讘注讬讗 asked in the 讬砖讬讘讛, 讘谞讜 讜讛讜讗 专讘讜, if his son, and his son is the rebbi of the father, 诪讗讬 讛讜 诇注诪讜讚 诪驻谞讬 讗讘讬讜, what is the din? Does he have to stand up for his father since he is the rebbi of his father? The Gemara says, 转讗 砖诪注, come here, I'll answer your question, 讚讗诪专 诇讬讛 砖诪讜讗诇 诇专讘 讬讛讜讚讛, 砖诪讜讗诇 said to 专讘 讬讛讜讚讛, 砖讬谞谞讗, smart person, 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐, 拽讜诐 诪拽诪讬 讗讘讜讱, stand up in front of your father, even though Rav Yehuda was the rebbi of his father, his father was Rav Yechezkel, and Rav Yehuda was the rebbi of his father, as we takke see in the Gemara earlier where Rav Yechezkel said something and his son Rav Yehuda said to him do not say it that way, it's wrong, you have to learn it differently. So we see that Rav Yehuda, the son, was the rebbi of his father Rav Yechezkel, and nevertheless Shmuel said to him stand up in front of your father. So from here we see that even if the son is the rebbi of his father, he must stand up in front of his father. The Gemara says it's no 专讗讬讛, 砖讗谞讬 专讘 讬讞讝拽讗诇, 专讘 讬讞讝拽讗诇 could be different, 讚讘注诇 诪注砖讬诐 讛讜讛, he was a person who did a lot of good deeds, and maybe that is why his son had to stand up for him even though he was his his 专讘讬, 讚讗驻讬诇讜 诪专 砖诪讜讗诇 谞诪讬 拽讗讬诐 诪拽诪讬讛, as we see that even Shmuel himself would stand up in front of Rav Yechezkel. So we see that Rav Yechezkel was a separate case, a special case, he was a 讘注诇 诪注砖讬诐, and therefore for him he had to stand up. So the Gemara says, 讗诇讗 诪讗讬 拽讗诪专 诇讬讛, if so, what did he tell him? Why did Shmuel say to Rav Yehuda stand up in front of your father Rav Yechezkel? If he was a 讘注诇 诪注砖讬诐, other people also had to stand up for him. Since he told him to stand up, probably he meant to teach a din, that even if the son is the rebbi of the father, nevertheless he has to stand up, otherwise he wouldn't said it have said it to him. The Gemara says, no, 讛讻讬 拽讗诪专 诇讬讛, this is what he meant to say to him, 讝讬诪谞讬谉 讚讗转讬 诪讗讞讜专讗讬, sometimes he will come in in
back of me, so I want you to know, he says, 拽讜诐 讗转 诪拽诪讬讛, stand up in front of him, 讜诇讗 转讞讜砖 诇讬拽专讗 讚讚讬讚讬, do not care about my kavod. That's what Shmuel said, sometimes I might not see and your father will walk in, and you'll be afraid to stand up in front of your father because of my kavod, so I'm telling you, stand up in front of your father and I don't mind my kavod. But otherwise there is no re'ayah that if the son is the rebbi of his father, that he has to stand up in front of his father. Then the Gemara continues, 讗讬讘注讬讗 诇讛讜, there was another question asked, 讘谞讜 讜讛讜讗 专讘讜, if his son is his 专讘讬, 诪讛讜 砖讬注诪讜讚 讗讘讬讜 诪驻谞讬讜, what is the din, does his father have to stand up in front of the son since there's a din that you have to stand up for your rebbi, since his rebbi is his son, so the she'eilah is, does the father have to stand up for his son who is his rebbi? The question before was does the son have to stand up for the father, being that he is his rebbi, is there still a din of kibbud av? Now the question is the other way: Does the father have to stand up in front of the son, being that the son is his rebbi? The Gemara says, 转讗 砖诪注, come here, I'll answer your question, 讚讗诪专 专讘讬 讬讛讜砖注 讘谉 诇讜讬, Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi said, 讗谞讬 讗讬谞讬 讻讚讬 诇注诪讜讚 诪驻谞讬 讘谞讬, I don't have to stand up in front of my son. And at this point the Gemara thought that what he meant was, why doesn't he have to stand up in front of his son? Because he is his son's rebbi. It wasn't the case that his son was his rebbi, on the contrary, he was his son's rebbi, and that's what he meant, that I don't have to stand up in front of my son because because I am his rebbi and he is not my rebbi. 讗诇讗 诪砖讜诐 讻讘讜讚 讘讬转 谞砖讬讗, the only reason I would stand up for him is the kavod of the nasi, because he got married into the family of the nasi, and therefore he says, I will stand up for my son. So it comes out, 讟注诪讗 讚讗谞讗 专讘讬讛, the reason he says that he didn't have to stand up be'emet in front of his son was because I am his rebbi, the father was the rebbi of the son. That's why he said I didn't have to stand up in front of him, the only reason I'm doing it is because of the kavod of the nasi. 讛讗 讗讬讛讜 专讘讬讛, but had the son been his 专讘讬, 拽讗讬诪谞讗 诪拽诪讬讛, I would stand up in front of him. So it comes out from here that if the son is the rebbi, the father has to stand up, because he said clearly, I don't have to stand up, and 讘驻砖讟讜转 it meant because he is not my rebbi. Had he been his rebbi, the father would have to stand up for the son. So we see from here that if the son is the rebbi of the father, the father has to stand up for the son. And the Gemara says, no, 讛讻讗 拽讗诪专, this is what he meant: 讗谞讬 讗讬谞讬 讻讚讗讬 诇注诪讜讚 诪驻谞讬 讘谞讬 讜讗驻讬诇讜 讛讜讗 专讘讬, I don't have to stand up in front of my son even if he was my rebbi. That's what he meant: I don't have to stand up in front of my son no matter what, because in all cases a father doesn't have to stand up for his son even if the son is the rebbi. 讚讛讗 讗谞讗 讗讘讜讛, because I am the father. 讗诇讗 诪砖讜诐 讻讘讜讚 讘讬转 谞砖讬讗, the reason I stand up is because of the kavod of the 谞砖讬讗. So here we have no re'iyah that if the son is the rebbi of the father, the father has to stand up for his son. Then the Gemara continues: 讗讬讘注讬讗 诇讛讜, there was a question asked: 专讻讜讘 讻诪讛诇讱 讚诪讬 讗讜 诇讗, if he's riding, is that as if he is walking or not? If you see your rebbi riding on a horse, do you have to stand up or not? On one way hand you could say that since he is sitting on the horse, so he is not standing, so he is sitting you do not have to stand up for him. On the other hand, since he is riding the horse, the horse is going and he is riding on the horse, it's as if he is walking, and you do have to stand up for him. That was the Gemara she'eilah: is riding like walking and you have to stand up, or is it not and you do not have to stand up? 讗诪专 讗讘讬讬, so Abaye said: 转讗 砖诪注, come here, I will answer your question. And Abaye is going to quote from the 谞讙注讬诐 驻专拽 讬状讙 诪砖谞讛 讝壮, or as Rashi says, from the beraita in Torat Kohanim. And this all refers to the din of a 诪爪讜专注. The Torat Kohanim says, as Rashi brings, that by a 诪爪讜专注, a person who has leprosy and he became tamei, he fits all the conditions to make him tamei, so the din is the pasuk says 诪讞讜抓 诇诪讞谞讛 诪讜砖讘讜, that he's supposed to sit outside of the camp, outside of the 诪讞谞讛. And we learn out from here that 诪讜砖讘讜 is tamei, that if he sits in a place and you go in under the same roof where the 诪爪讜专注 is sitting, you become tamei. In other thing in other words, anything that comes under one roof with a 诪爪讜专注, he is tamei. But we also learn out that it is only if the 诪爪讜专注 is sitting, because the pasuk says 诪讞讜抓 诇诪讞谞讛 诪讜砖讘讜, we learn out 诪讜砖讘讜 讟诪讗, that if he is sitting then everything else is tamei, but if he is standing then things that come in under the same roof with the 诪爪讜专注 are not tamei. And the same applies not only to a person a 诪爪讜专注, but to an 讗讘谉 诪谞讜讙注转. If you have a stone which has a 爪专注转, a 谞讙注 on it and it is tamei, the same din would apply, that if that stone is sitting and there are things under the same roof of that stone, so then the din is that all those things become tamei. And this is what he quoted: 讟诪讗 讬讜砖讘 转讞转 讛讗讬诇谉, if you have a tamei, the 诪爪讜专注 who is tamei is sitting under the tree, 讜讟讛讜专 注讜诪讚, and there's a person who is tahor is standing under the same tree, tamei, he becomes tamei. Since the 诪爪讜专注 is sitting, so then the person who is standing under the same roof under the same tree as the 诪爪讜专注, he becomes tamei. But if 讟诪讗 注讜诪讚 转讞转 讛讗讬诇谉, if the tamei is standing under the tree, 讜讟讛讜专 讬讜砖讘, and the tahordike person is sitting, tahor, he is tahor, because the din is only if the 诪爪讜专注 is sitting. But if the tahor person is sitting, then he doesn't become tamei even though the 诪爪讜专注 is there, but as long as the 诪爪讜专注 is standing and not sitting, then the tahordike person does not become tamei. 讜讗诐 讬砖讘 讛讟诪讗, but if the 讟诪讗 sat down, 讛讟讛讜专 讟诪讗, so the tahordike person automatically becomes tamei, because now the 诪爪讜专注 is sitting and he is under the same roof with the 诪爪讜专注. 讜讻谉 讘讗讘谉 讛诪谞讜讙注转, the same applies if there is a person holding a stone with a 谞讙注, the same din would apply. That if the person who's holding the stone is sitting under the tree, so then the tahordike person becomes tamei. If the one that's holding the 讗讘谉 讛诪谞讜讙注转, the stone, is standing under the tree, so then the other person doesn't become tamei. 讜讗诪专 Rav Nachman bar Kohen, Rav Nachman bar Kohen said: 讝讗转 讗讜诪专转, this teaches us, 专讻讜讘 讻诪讛诇讱 讚诪讬, that if someone rides, it's as if he's walking, 砖诪注 诪讬谞讛, from here we learn out. Because here we see that if the person who is carrying the stone is standing, then the other person is tahor. If the person who is carrying the stone is sitting, then the other person is tamei. Now, the question is, if we look at the stone, then what difference does it make whether the person is standing or the person is sitting, the stone is constantly sitting. Even if the person who holds the stone is standing, but the stone is sitting in the pocket or in the hands of the person. So therefore, the din should be that whatever the position of the person who's holding the stone is, should make no difference and the other person should become tamei. Since we say it depends on the person who's holding the stone, whether he is sitting or he is standing, that shows that we do not look at the position of the stone, we look at the position of the person who's holding the stone. So the same would apply to a person who is riding a horse, that we do not look at the position of the person who's on the horse, and we would say that he is sitting, but we look at the position of the thing he is sitting on. And therefore, if the horse is walking, is going, so we look at it and say it is as if the person is going. So from here he learns out that 专讻讜讘 讻诪讛诇讱, that riding is like walking. And therefore, if you see a Rebbe riding a horse, even though he is sitting on the horse, you must stand up for him. Then the Gemara continues, 讗讬讘注讬讗 诇讛讜, there was an 讗讬讘注讬讗, another question asked, 诪讛讜 诇注诪讜讚 诪驻谞讬 住驻专 转讜专讛? What is the din, do you have to stand up for a 住驻专 转讜专讛? So 专讘 讞诇拽讬讛 讜专讘 住讬诪讜谉 讜专讘讬 讗诇注讝专 讗诪专讬, these three, 专讘 讞诇拽讬讛 and 专讘 住讬诪讜谉 and 专讘讬 讗诇注讝专 said, 拽诇 讜讞讜诪专, there is a 拽诇 讜讞讜诪专, 诪驻谞讬 诇讜诪讚讬讛 注讜诪讚讬诐, if you have to stand up for those that learn the Torah, for a 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐, 诪驻谞讬讛 诇讗 讻诇 砖讻谉? So for the Torah itself certainly you have to stand up. Then the
Gemara says, 专讘讬 讗讬诇讗 讜专讘讬 讬注拽讘 讘专 讝讘讚讬, 专讘讬 讗讬诇讗 and 专讘讬 讬注拽讘 讘专 讝讘讚讬 讛讜讜 讬转讘讬, they were sitting, 讞诇讬祝 讜讗讝讬诇 专讘讬 砖诪注讜谉 讘专 讗讘讗, so 专讘讬 砖诪注讜谉 讘专 讗讘讗 passed by, 讜拽诪讜 诪拽诪讬讛, and they stood up for him. 讗诪专 诇讛讜, he said to them, 讞讚讗, first of all, 讚讗转讜谉 讞讻讬诪讬 讜讗谞讗 讞讘专, you are 讞讻诪讬诐 and I am only a 讞讘专, 讜注讜讚, and another thing, 讻诇讜诐 转讜专讛 注讜诪讚转 诪驻谞讬 诇讜诪讚讬讛? Does the Torah have to stand up for those that learn Torah? Because they were at that moment involved in learning Torah, so therefore he referred to them as Torah itself. So he said, you don't have to stand up for me, because you are Torah itself, you were learning Torah, so you're like the Torah itself. I am only a person who studies Torah, so does the Torah itself have to stand up for those people who study Torah? And the Gemara says, 住讘专 诇讛 讻专讘讬 讗诇注讝专, the reason he said it because he held like 专讘讬 讗诇注讝专, 讚讗诪专 专讘讬 讗诇注讝专, 专讘讬 讗诇注讝专 said, 讗讬谉 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐 专砖讗讬 诇注诪讜讚 诪驻谞讬 专讘讜 讘砖注讛 砖注讜住拽 讘转讜专讛, that a 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐 is not allowed to stand up for his 专讘讬 while he is studying Torah. And that's what he meant. Since you were in the middle of studying Torah, you do not have to stand up in front of me. But the
Gemara says, 诇讬讬讟 注诇讛 讗讘讬讬, 讗讘讬讬 cursed on this. In other words, Abaye did not hold of this din, and anybody who would act that way, who would not stand up in front of his 专讘讬 because he is studying Torah, Abaye said he should be cursed, because Abaye held that even while you're learning Torah, you have to stand up for your 专讘讬. Then the Gemara continues, there's a pasuk that says concerning 诪砖讛 专讘讬谞讜, 讜讛讘讬讟讜 讗讞专讬 诪砖讛 注讚 讘讗讜 讛讗讛诇讛, that the Yidden looked after Moshe till he went into his tent. And the reason the Gemara brings this pasuk here, because this is in continuation to the din that you have to stand up in front of your 专讘讬, and how long you have to stand as the Gemara will explain soon, so the Gemara quotes this pasuk in order to explain this din. But the Gemara says that there's a machloket here, 专讘 讗诪讬 讜专讘 讬爪讞拽 谞驻讞讗, there's a machloket between 专讘 讗诪讬 and 专讘 讬爪讞拽 谞驻讞讗, what the peshat in this pasuk is, why the Yidden looked after Moshe till he entered his tent. 讞讚 讗诪专 诇讙谞讗讬 讜讞讚 讗诪专 诇砖讘讞. One said 诇讙谞讗讬, for an embarrassment, it was for a bad reason. And one of them says it was 诇砖讘讞, it was for praise, it was for a good reason. 诪讗谉 讚讗诪专 诇讙谞讗讬, the one that said it was for a bad reason, 讻讚讗讬转讗, as it says. The Gemara doesn't want to mention it, because it's not good, so therefore the Gemara just says as it says in a different place and doesn't mention it. But Rashi does say what it means, so Rashi quotes 诪讚专砖 转谞讞讜诪讗, where it says that they looked after Moshe, and they said to themselves, look, look how fat he is, look how fat his feet are, look how fat his neck is, all this was taken from ours. That's the 讙谞讗讬 that they had in mind when they followed Moshe, they looked at him till he entered his tent. But 诪讗谉 讚讗诪专 诇砖讘讞, the one that said it was 诇砖讘讞, they looked after him in praise, what does that mean? The Gemara says, 讗诪专 讞讝拽讬讛, 讞讝拽讬讛 said, 讗诪专 诇讬 专讘 讞谞讬谞讗 讘专讬讛 讚专讘讬 讗讘讛讜 讗诪专 专讘讬 讗讘讛讜 讗诪专 专讘讬 讗讘讚讬诪讬 讚诪谉 讞讬驻讛, that Rav Chanina the son of Rabbi Abahu, in the name of Rabbi Abahu and in the name of Rabbi Avdimi dem Chifa said to me, he said a din concerning how you have to act in the, in connection to standing up for a talmid chacham. Because be'emet there are three categories. There is the highest category, a 谞砖讬讗, then you have lower than him, a person who is the 讗讘 讘讬转 讚讬谉, the head of the 讘讬转 讚讬谉, and then you have a regular 讞讻诐. So he said like this: 讞讻诐 注讜讘专, if a 讞讻诐 is passing, 注讜诪讚 诪诇驻谞讬讜 讚' 讗诪讜转, you have to stand up in front of him within four 讗诪讜转, 讜讻讬讜谉 砖注讘专 讚' 讗诪讜转 讬讜砖讘, and as soon as he passes away from the 讚' 讗诪讜转, from the four 讗诪讜转 of you, you're allowed to sit down. You only have to stand up when he comes into your 讚' 讗诪讜转, and you're already allowed to sit down as soon as he passes your 讚' 讗诪讜转. But 讗讘 讘讬转 讚讬谉 注讜讘专, if the 讗讘 讘讬转 讚讬谉 passes, 注讜诪讚 诪诇驻谞讬讜 诪诇讗 注讬谞讬讜, you have to stand up as far as your eye could see. But 讻讬讜谉 砖注讘专 讚' 讗诪讜转 讬讜砖讘, as soon as he passes away from your 讚' 讗诪讜转, you're allowed to sit down. So standing up 诇讻转讞讬诇讛 you must do as soon as you see him, but to sit down you're allowed to as soon as he goes away from your 讚' 讗诪讜转. But 谞砖讬讗 注讜讘专, if the 谞砖讬讗 is passing by, 注讜诪讚 诪诇驻谞讬讜 诪诇讗 注讬谞讬讜, you must stand up as far as you could see, 讜讗讬谞讜 讬讜砖讘 注讚 砖讬砖讘 讘诪拽讜诪讜, and you're not allowed to sit down till he sits down in his place. 砖谞讗诪专, how do we know that? So he quotes this pasuk: 讜讛讘讬讟讜 讗讞专讬 诪砖讛 注讚 讘讜讗讜 讛讗讛诇讛, they looked after Moshe till Moshe came to his tent. In other words, they waited for Moshe to enter his tent, and then they left. And this was the shevach, the praise, that they had in mind when they looked after Moshe, because he was the 谞砖讬讗, so they weren't allowed to sit down till they couldn't see Moshe anymore, and that's what the pasuk means, that they looked after him till he entered his tent. Concerning what we learned in the Gemara before, Rabbi Yochanan said 诪驻谞讬讛诐 注讜诪讚讬诐, that in front of the ones that brought bikkurim you have to stand up, but 诪驻谞讬 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐 讗讬谉 注讜诪讚讬诐, but in front of the 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐 you don't have to stand up. And then in addition in connection to that, the Gemara says 讗诪专 专讘讬 讬讜住讬 讘专 讗讘讬谉, 专讘讬 讬讜住讬 讘专 讗讘讬谉 said, 讘讜讗 讜专讗讛 讻诪讛 讞讘讬讘讛 诪爪讜讛 讘砖注转讛, how beloved a mitzvah in its proper time is, 砖讛专讬 诪驻谞讬讛诐 注讜诪讚讬诐, 诪驻谞讬 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐 讗讬谉 注讜诪讚讬诐, because we stand up in front of them, but not in front of 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐. And the
Gemara asks that how do we know, maybe it is because we shouldn't be 诪讻砖讬诇 them 诇注转讬讚 诇讘讜讗, because if we're not going to give them kavod, maybe they won't bring the bikkurim again. So we see that the Rambam in Perush Hamishnayot, in 驻专拽 讙壮 of bikkurim, 诪砖谞讛 讘壮, he writes like this. He writes that the ikar is, in other words the halacha is, that the people who work don't have to stand up in front of a 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐. But they do have to stand up in front of those people who bring bikkurim, and he gives the reason why: 诇驻讬 砖讛谞讻谞住讬诐 讛诐 拽讛诇, because they come in a whole community, 讜讻讘讜讚 爪讬讘讜专 砖讗谞讬, and the kavod of a tzibbur, of the whole community, is different, that is stronger. Now lichorah, where does the Rambam take that from? In our Gemara it's not mentioned at all. The Gemara gives a different reason. The Gemara says that why do you stand up for them? Because 讞讘讬讘讛 诪爪讜讛 讘砖注转讛, or the Gemara says later on, because 砖诇讗 诇讛讻砖讬诇诐 诇注转讬讚 诇讘讜讗, not to cause them later on not to bring bikkurim. But where does the Gemara here mention the whole idea of it being 讘爪讬讘讜专 and therefore you have to stand up in front of them? But be'emet the Maharsha here in Chidushei Aggadot writes that this is really what the Gemara means. When the Gemara means chavivah mitzvah bish'atah, that the reason you have to stand up because it's beloved to do a mitzvah in its proper time, what it means is that when you do it in its proper time, there was a big crowd. And that is why in front of a 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐 you don't have to stand up if you're working, but in front of these people you would have to stand up, because this was done in public if it was done in its proper time. It was done in public, and because of the 讻讘讜讚 讛爪讬讘讜专 you have to stand up. So when the Gemara says that chavivah mitzvah bish'atah, in its proper time, it means because in its proper time there was a big crowd. And when the Gemara says at the end that the reason is because 讗转讛 诪讻砖讬诇诐 诇注转讬讚 诇讘讜讗, because you might be 诪讻砖讬诇 them in the future, it also means that, because since they come in public and they will see that nevertheless they're not given kavod, that's the reason why they might eventually in the future stop bringing the 讘讬讻讜专讬诐. So it comes out that the Maharsha learns that the 驻砖讟 of the Rambam is really what the Gemara means. But the truth is that the Bartenura, the 专讘 over there in Mishnayot, he obviously doesn't learn that way. He obviously learned that the 驻砖讟 is 驻砖讜讟, 讞讘讬讘讛 诪爪讜讛 讘砖注转讛, because when you do a mitzvah in its proper time, you have to stand up in front of that person. And because of that he says that you have to stand up in front of the people who carry the bed of a 诪转, because they are doing a mitzvah. You have to stand up in front of the people who are carrying a child for a brit, because they are doing a mitzvah. So we see that the Bartenura learns that it doesn't depend on the concept of a 拽讛诇, of being in 爪讬讘讜专, but it depends 驻砖讜讟 because it is a 诪爪讜讛 讘砖注转讛.
Another interesting thing here is, when the Gemara said 诇讙讘讬 讘讬转 讛讻住讗 and 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓, that you don't have to stand up when you're in the 讘讬转 讛讻住讗 and 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓, the Gemara made a difference between 讘转讬 讙讜讜讗讬 and 讘转讬 讘专讗讬. It depends in which room you are, whether you're in the inner room or in the outer room. In the outer room, it is a 拽讬诪讛 砖讬砖 讘讛 讛讬讚讜专, when you stand up there it is a 讻讘讜讚, but if you're in the inner room where people stand undressed, then there is no 讻讘讜讚. The truth is that in the Gemara in Shabbos 讚祝 讬壮 we find that in those days in the 讘讬转 and 讘讬转 讛诪专讞抓 they used to have three rooms: the inner room, the middle room, and the outside room. And the Gemara says that in the outside room they only stood dressed. In the very inner room they were all undressed. In the middle room, then some of them were dressed, some of them were undressed. And the Gemara makes a 讞讬诇讜拽 in the 讚讬谞讬诐. The 讚讬谉 is like this, that in the first room where people only stand dressed, you're allowed to learn Torah there, you're allowed to 讚讗讜讜谉 there, you're allowed to say shalom there, you're allowed to put on 转驻讬诇讬谉, etc. In a place where the people stand undressed and dressed, which is the middle room, you're allowed to say shalom there, but you're not allowed to learn and you're not allowed to 讚讗讜讜谉. In the place where people stand completely undressed, so there you're not allowed to even say shalom, certainly you're not allowed to 讚讗讜讜谉, and you're not allowed to learn. But the question is 诇讙讘讬 this 讚讬谉 of 拽讬诪讛 that we say here, that you have to stand up in front of a 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐 in the outside room, but you don't stand up when you're in the inner room, what about the middle room? So the Hagahot HaRadal he says that mistabra, the sevara would be that since we said the Gemara says in Shabbos that in the middle room you are allowed to say shalom, so probably it would be a 拽讬诪讛 砖讬砖 讘讛 讛讬讚讜专. Probably if you would stand up it would be considered a 讛讬讚讜专 and you should have to stand up. But then he says that maybe since it's a room that has no 诪讝讜讝讛, then you don't have to stand up because we have a 讚讬谉 讗讬谉 诪讻讘讚讬谉 讗诇讗 讘驻转讞 砖讬砖 讘讜 诪讝讜讝讛, that when two people walk into a room and you want to be 诪讻讘讚 the other person to walk in first, you only are 诪讻讘讚 him in a room which has a 诪讝讜讝讛. So it seems as if the whole 讚讬谉 of 讻讬讘讜讚 is only in a room with a 诪讝讜讝讛. And since the middle room has no 诪讝讜讝讛, so therefore maybe you wouldn't have to stand up. On the other hand he says maybe the outside room also has no 诪讝讜讝讛 because the outside room isn't really not a 讘讬转 讚讬专讛, even though people are always dressed there, but because people do not live there, it's 驻讟讜专 from 诪讝讜讝讛. And nevertheless, we say you do have to stand up. So obviously it comes out that this whole 讚讬谉 that 讗讬谉 诪讻讘讚讬谉 讗诇讗 讘驻转讞 砖讬砖 讘讜 诪讝讜讝讛, that you only give 讻讘讜讚 in a room which has a 诪讝讜讝讛, only applies when two people walk into the room, but 诇讙讘讬 standing
up, there it doesn't depend on 诪讝讜讝讛, and therefore he says that probably in the middle room you would have to stand up, since the 讚讬谉 is that you're allowed to say shalom, that shows that it is a place of hidur, and therefore you would have to stand up. Another interesting thing in the sugya here is the Gemara had a she'eilah: if the son is the rebbi of the father, does he have to stand up in front of his father? And the Gemara didn't answer this question. So 诇讙讘讬 诇讛诇讻讛 there's a machloket, an argument in the poskim. The Rambam says that 讗讬谉 讛讗讘 注讜诪讚 诪驻谞讬 讛讘谉 讗讘诇 讛讘谉 注讜诪讚 诪驻谞讬 讗讘讬讜, that the father would not have to stand up for the son even though his son is his rebbi, but the son would have to stand up in front of his father. But the Rosh holds that 讜讬注诪讚讜 讝讛 诪驻谞讬 讝讛, that they both should stand up for each other. And not only that, the Rosh says that 讗诪专讜 注诇讬讜 注诇 诪讛专状诐 诪专讜讟谞讘讜专讙, they said on the 诪讛专状诐 from 专讜讟谞讘讜专讙, 砖诪讬讜诐 砖注诇讛 诇讙讚讜诇讛, that from the day that he went up to 讙讚讜诇讛, he was appointed as the head, 诇讗 讛诇讱 诇驻谞讬 讗讘讬讜, he didn't go to see his father, 讜诇讗 专爪讛 砖讗讘讬讜 讬讘讗 讗诇讬讜, and he didn't want his father to go to him, because he didn't want to have to give his father kavod, and he didn't want his father to give him kavod, and therefore he made sure that he shouldn't see his father and therefore there will be no problem. But the
Yam Shel Shlomo asks a kashya: since the din is that a father who is mochel on his kavod, or a rebbi who is mochel on his kavod, the din is that the kevodo is machul, so why wasn't the Maharam of Rothenburg mochel on his kavod and he should stand up in front of his father? And he answers that since the Gemara said before that even though the kavod is machul, but still 讛讬讚讜专 讘注讬讗 诇诪讬注讘讚, you still have to do something, so he didn't want his father to have to do any kind of hidur in front of him. But nevertheless the Yam Shel Shlomo says that if somebody cannot be like the Maharam, in other words he cannot make sure that his father will not see him, he needs his father or his father needs him, etc., so what should he do? So he says what he should do is, he should stand up in front of his father. And 诇讙讘讬 the father standing up for him, he says that he should be mochel on his kavod, so his father won't have to stand up in front of him, but a hidur his father would have to do.