Parshas Vayeitzei
A second telling of Yaakov ringing his head, not his body, with stones before sleeping on the road to Charan, and why that gesture is really about keeping business in the hands and Torah in the head.
Part of Bereishit
Raises the same question of why Yaakov protected specifically his head rather than his whole body, and answers it through yegia kapecha: toil confined to the hands while the head stays immersed in Torah and mitzvos. Retells the Rashab's line to a chossid too consumed by his galoshes business, and reads the stones Yaakov used as domem, a symbol of the bittul that guards the head from being overtaken by gashmiyus.
Audio Transcript
A vort from the Rebbe on this week's parsha. And the vort I'm going to say is a very famous vort, one of the most famous verter of 驻砖讜讟 驻砖讟讬诐 and ideas of the Rebbe, but it's always good to repeat it because it's a very important lesson. In the beginning of the parsha it speaks about Yaakov Avinu going to Charan, and it says the sun set, so he lay down. And it says 讜讬拽讞 诪讗讘谞讬 讛诪拽讜诐 讜讬砖诐 诪专讗砖转讬讜. He took from the stones of the place and he put it on his head, by his head. And Rashi says, 注砖讗谉 讻诪讬谉 诪专讝讘 住讘讬讘 诇专讗砖讜. He made it like, what it means is like a little fence around his head. Why did he have to surround his head? 砖讛讬讛 讬专讗 诪驻谞讬 讞讬讜转 专注讜转, he was afraid of the wild bad animals. So the Rebbe asks a question: why did Yaakov do it on his only on his head? 爪讜 诪诪讛 谞驻砖讱: if he would rely on the promise of Hashem, or he had bitachon in Hashem that Hashem would protect him, he didn't need any protection at all. He didn't even have to do it around his head. If he didn't want to rely on miracles, so then he should have got something to protect his whole body, he should have made a circle, a fence around his whole body.
And the Rebbe explains it 注诇 驻讬 讞住讬讚讜转. There's a pasuk in Tehillim that says, 讬讙讬注 讻驻讬讱 讻讬 转讗讻诇 讗砖专讬讱 讜讟讜讘 诇讱. The toil of your hands if you eat from that, if you work with toil of your hands, you are lucky and it's good for you. And it says in Chassidus, why does it say 讬讙讬注 讻驻讬讱, with the toil of your hands? When you work, you work with every part of your body, you work with your brain, why does it say with the toil of your hands? To tell you that when it comes to get involved in parnasa, making a living, involved in the gashmiyut, you only have to do it with the toil of your hands, not with your head. Obviously you have to use your head to know what you're doing, but it shouldn't be involved in it with your head. You shouldn't be completely involved in these gashmiyusdige things. You have to be careful that your head should not be completely immersed into the parnasa more than a person needs. Because your head has to be always ready for learning Torah and doing mitzvot and avodat Hashem. You have to, your head has to be involved in that. And when a person behaves that way, that 讬讙讬注 讻驻讬讱, that it's your hands only that's really involved, but your head is in holier things, then 讗砖专讬讱 讜讟讜讘 诇讱, then it's you're lucky and it's good to you.
And a famous story that once there was a chasid of the Rebbe Rashab that he was a chasid, learned Chassidus, etc., etc. He davent properly, he did in avodat Hashem, but then he went into business, he opened a business of kaloshn. Kaloshn means galoshes, boots. And he got so involved in it that in yechidus, he came once to the Rebbe Rashab and asked him all kinds of questions about his business. And the Rabbi Rashab says to him, \"You know, I heard of feet in 拽讗诇讗砖谉, I never heard of a head in 拽讗诇讗砖谉.\" It was an expression that your whole head is involved in it. And that changed him back that he went back to his proper avodat Hashem. But that's the whole idea: your head should not be 讗专讬讬谞讙注讟讗谉, completely immersed in these 讙砖诪讬讜转'讚讬讙注 things. And that's what Yaakov Avinu did. He surrounded his head to protect his head. Yaakov knew that he's going to Charan, he's going to have to work for his parnasa with all the hardships that are there. So he made a a fence around his head, meaning to say he protected his head. He worked on that his head should be protected from all these problems and hardships that come, and to make sure that it'll only be 讬讙讬注 讻驻讬讱, and the head should be open and place involved in learning Torah and mitzvot.
And also it says, what did he use to protect his head? It says he put it 讗讘谞讬 讛诪拽讜诐, the stones of the place. We know that stones are 讚讜诪诐. These are unmovable objects, objects that have seemingly have no 讞讬讜转. And what it means in avodat Hashem: bitul. Bitul is something, give yourself over to Hashem and that's it. So 讗讘谞讬诐, it says in chasidut, represent bitul. And the way to protect his head that it should be in the proper way, if it's based on bitul and self-nullification to Hashem. And that's what the pasuk says: he took from the 讗讘谞讬 讛诪拽讜诐, took the concept of 讗讘谞讬诐, of bitul, and that he put around his head, davka around his head. So he protect his head that his head should not be involved in the things that, the gashmiyut more than you're supposed to for your pashut physical work that you have to do, but your head should be basically involved and immersed in inyanim of kedusha, in Torah, mitzvot, and avodat Hashem.