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Likkutei Sichos 15 — Why Bar Mitzvah Age Is Derived From the Story of Shechem
A chassidic class deriving the age of bar mitzvah from the word 'ish' in the Shechem narrative, the four levels implied by different Hebrew words for 'person,' and two sources for the age requirement.
Rabbi Schapiro on the Parshah: Vayishlach
After Hashem renames Avram to Avraham, the Torah never uses the old name again, but Yaakov keeps being called Yaakov even after becoming Yisrael. The difference points to two ways of serving Hashem: quietly outmaneuvering the physical world, or living a life where the physical itself is already holy.
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Unlike Avraham, whose earlier name is never used again once it changes, Yaakov continues to be called by that name even after becoming Yisrael, because the Torah itself keeps using it. The two names correspond to two levels of avodah: Yaakov, from the lowly eikev and the cunning needed to outwit the yetzer hara, versus Yisrael, from rosh, a Yid who has already overcome and stands above the struggle. These map onto eved and ben, and in turn onto the weekday and Shabbos, which is why Motzei Shabbos, stepping back into the mode of Yaakov, calls for the reassurance of al tira avdi Yaakov.
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Before asking Esav for anything, Yaakov instructs his messengers to tell him first that he lived with Lavan and nevertheless kept every one of the taryag mitzvos without learning from Lavan's ways. Rather than hiding his frumkeit when approaching a non-Jew, as many would instinctively do, Yaakov led with his pride in being an observant Yid, a gaon Yaakov. That approach, not concealment, is what ultimately moved Esav to embrace him and concede that the brachos truly belonged to Yaakov.
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Before making any request, Yaakov has his messengers open with a simple fact: living for years alongside Lavan the rasha, he still kept every one of the taryag mitzvos. Rather than downplaying his Yiddishkeit before approaching a non-Jew, as instinct might suggest, Yaakov led with pride in it, a gaon Yaakov, trusting that visible, unshakeable commitment earns more respect than concealment ever could. The proof came when Esav met him with a kiss and, our sages tell us, conceded that the brachos rightfully belonged to Yaakov.
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When Yaakov's sons bring back idols along with the rest of the plunder from Shechem, his instruction to get rid of them opens into a deeper question: if avodah zarah is a total denial of Hashem, why does Hashem allow it to exist in the first place? The answer, echoed in Moshe Rabbeinu's hesitation to write na'aseh adam, is that Hashem wants the correcting to be done through a Yid's own avodah, and that applies to every aveirah, not just idol worship, since even plain gaavah is its own form of avodah zarah. The deepest reading of 'the idols among you' points inward, to the residue of that pull that every Yid has to root out himself, which is the whole purpose of creating a dirah betachtonim.
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After davening to be saved from Esav, Yaakov spends that same night preparing a gift and readying himself naturally for the encounter, and the Torah repeats the phrase 'that night' three times to describe it. The repetition teaches that acting through derech hateva is not a separate, lesser track from tefillah, but a direct continuation of it: Hashem wants effort done naturally specifically because that, too, is His ratzon. Doing hishtadlus and davening aren't two different modes but one uninterrupted hemshech.
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Avraham's earlier name, Avram, disappears entirely once Hashem changes it, yet Yaakov keeps being called Yaakov even after becoming Yisrael, because the Torah itself continues to use both. The two names track two levels of avodas Hashem: Yaakov, tied to eikev, the lowly heel, and to the effort of outsmarting the yetzer hara; and Yisrael, tied to rosh, the head, a Yid who has already risen above the struggle. That distinction plays out as eved versus ben, and as weekday versus Shabbos, the reason Motzei Shabbos carries the words al tira avdi Yaakov, reassuring a Yid returning to the working week.
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Rashi offers two readings of Yaakov's word garti to Esav: that he remained a mere ger by Lavan, never rising to importance there, and that garti shares the letters of taryag, hinting that he kept all 613 mitzvos despite Lavan's influence. The connection between them is the point: precisely because Yaakov never let himself feel at home or comfortable in Lavan's house, he was able to keep every mitzvah without absorbing his ways. The same principle applies to a Yid in galus, staying aware that this is not our true place is exactly what keeps us from being pulled in by it.