What Does 'Bari' Really Mean in a Claim?
What Does 'Bari' Really Mean in a Claim?
Part of Pesach · 23:08
A short sugya on loan repayment and a woman's rights, terumah and chametz handling on Pesach, and the halachic weight of a confident ('bari') claim versus a hesitant one.
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讗讬砖讛. Because the guy who He only gets it back if he pays the loan, but she gets the money. No, he means it. Well, same again, that'd be nice. Yeah, you're right. Yeah. How's he going to give it back if he gave it away to the 讗讬砖讛? In this case the 讗讬砖讛 would have to give it back. The 讗讬砖讛 will give it back and she will It's not really b'poel that you could do it, you know? No, because she could, yeah. So say the guy Now I see there is one before it says, 诪讛 专爪讞 讬讛专讙 讜讗诇 讬注讘讜专? Yeah. 讗祝 谞注专讛 诪讗讜专住讛 讬讛专讙 讜讗诇 讬注讘讜专. Um-hum. 谞注专讛 诪讗讜专住讛? If you do something to a 谞注专讛 诪讗讜专住讛, the person who does it is 讞讬讬讘 诪讬转讛. 讗讘诇 讻转讜讘 诪讗讜专住讛, 讬讬讛专讙 讜讗诇 讬注讘讜专. You mean the case of 谞注专讛 诪讗讜专住讛? If someone If If someone forces a person to do arayos, Okay. 讜讬讛专讙 讜讗诇 讬注讘讜专. and if not, they'll kill you, you have to let yourself get killed and do arayos. And what about the girl, he says here? No, he's not talking about the girl. He's talking about the ikar of arayos. We learn out from the din of a a 谞注专讛 诪讗讜专住讛. We learn out from that din the din of 谞注专讛 诪讗讜专住讛, not that she because by her, it's a big she'eilah. It's so many rishonim that say that a woman does not have to go mesirat nefesh for arayos because she's not doing a ma'aseh. But that's a different reason because she's not doing an act. So they're talking about the men? Men normally, yeah. Okay, then the Gemara says, 讗讞诪讬抓 讘讟讜诇砖 讞讜讻谞讗 诪讛 讚拽讜讚砖讜. This is a He only brings one word from the Gemara, but the Gemara talks here about if someone You're supposed to take terumah. Terumah, you take off, let's say, you have a whole bunch of tevuah, you take off terumah from the same pile that you're going to want. Let's say you want to eat this, so you take off terumah. You can't take off 转专讜诪讛 诪谉 讛讟诪讗 注诇 讛讟讛讜专. If you have tumah dick is tumah dick stuff, and which is you can't use it really, and you want to use that to take off from there and make that into terumah so you don't have to give from your own stuff. You're not allowed to do it. But if you
did it bediavad, it's terumah. But it's only because this tevuah itself was at one point ra'ui, fit to make terumah before it became tamei. What about chametz? If you have tevuah which is chametz and you want to take off 转专讜诪讛 from the chametz on the rest, and chametz on Pesach is assur, so it says like this, in a regular case of chametz, it's also becomes 转专讜诪讛, even though you're not allowed to do it lechatchila, it becomes 转专讜诪讛 because at one point it was 专讗讜讬. But in the case where it was not 专讗讜讬, let's say it never was fit to become 转专讜诪讛, so then it doesn't work. So he's Ah. On Pesach. On Pesach. On Pesach, on Yom Tov Pesach, you're not allowed to take 转专讜诪讛. Pesach holik. Chol HaMoed. So he says like this, if it became chametz dick 讗讞诪讬抓 讘讟讜诇砖 讞讜讻谞讗 诪讛 讚拽讜讚砖讜, if it became if it became chametz dick while it was still on the tree, it wasn't fit for 转专讜诪讛 yet. So now, take off that 转专讜诪讛 doesn't work. But if you made it it became chametz dick after taking of the tree, so before it became chametz dick it was fit for 转专讜诪讛, then the 转专讜诪讛 is 拽讜讚砖. So to get to the whole thing and just trying to bring it. That's what he said. 讗诪专 诇讬讛 so he asked him, \"Is that the 讚讬谉?\" 讗讬谉, yes. And he said, \"讘讙讝讬专转 注讬专讬谉 驻转讙诪讗 讜诪讗诪专 拽讚讬砖讬谉 砖讗诇转讗.\" It's a pasuk in Daniel, which means in the 讙讝讬专讛 of the 注讬专讬谉, 注讬专讬谉 means the 诪诇讗讻讬诐 or the 讞讻诪讬诐, this was said and the holy ones, they were said, in other words, if the 讞讻诪讬诐 said this, azoy iz dos. That's it. 讜讻谉 诪讜专讬谉 讘讘讬转 诪讚专砖讗 讚讻讘讬住讬讛 And that's how they pasken in the Beis HaMidrash like us. So, the Gemara right, 转谞讜 专讘谞谉 You mean in heaven? In Shamayim? No, in the 讘讬转 讛诪讚专砖 down here. The Rabbanan
taught like this, it says by matzah on Pesach, you have to eat 诇讞诐 注讜谞讬, bread of a poor man, which means bread of poverty, 驻专讟 What does this come to exclude? 讘讞诇讜转 讜诇讗砖讬砖讛. The word 诇讞诐 comes to say it has to be baked. What happens if you take the same dough make flour or water, and instead of baking, you cook it? Then it's not 诇讞诐. But 讞诇讜转 doesn't mean baked. 讞诇讜转 means put in boiling water. Yeah, it's called, I mean No, it's not baked, I'm saying. You put it in hot water. Yeah. It has to be baked. 诇讞诐 is baked. 讞诇讜转 is not baked. So then when the Torah says the word 诇讞诐, it cannot be 讞诇讜转. It cannot be put into hot water and then it's no, Yeah, it's become like a like a kneidl. Or like like, it's like a bagel. A doughnut. Yeah. Now I know where it's called kneidl, kneading. Kneidl, made. First they made It is a catch. They put it in boiling water. Ah, I'm talking about doughnuts. Doughnuts. Yeah, doughnuts. Yeah, bagel bagels also some, yeah. Put it in water. Some, yeah, they have bagels in water. Yeah, yeah. It's already, automatically mezonot if they're not baked? If they're not baked, it's mezonot. 讜诇讗砖讬砖讛 and the word 注讜谞讬 comes to tell you that it has to be poor man's bread. It can't be bread that's 讞砖讜讘, which means you make it with 诪讬 驻讬专讜转, if you make it with apple juice, you make it with juice, not with water. And that's called They call 诇讞诐 注讜谞讬 to the matzah. Right, that's what he says. No, we're talking about matzah. Pesach when you have to eat matzah, you can't eat matzah that was not baked, but it was like hot water, and you cannot eat matzah that was made in a 讞砖讜讘'er way. It wasn't made like a poor man's piece of flour or water, but it has other ingredients to it. You can't You're not 讬讜爪讗 the mitzvah. That's 驻砖讜讟. 讗砖讬砖讛? What's 讗砖讬砖讛? It means 注砖讬专? No, no, it's with an 讗. It means a, it means a 讞砖讜讘讛 bread. 讗砖讬砖讛 means also, yeah, we'll see. The Gemara will speak about it. No, sometimes it's 讞砖讜讘 because it's big. 讬讻讜诇, I would think in that case, 诇讗 讬爪讗 讗讚诐 讬讚讬 讞讜讘转讜 讗诇讗 讘驻转 讛讚专讗讛, 诪诪讬诇讗, maybe you're only 讬讜爪讗 with bread that's made with the flour that's not sifted so good, very cheap flour. If you're telling me it has to be 诇讞诐 注讜谞讬, poor man's bread, maybe the poorer the better. So that you really not yotzei unless it's made with flour that's not really sifted, that's not fine flour. 转诇诪讜讚 诇讜诪专, no, it says 诪爪讜转, 诪爪讜转. It's twice the word 诪爪讜转. Ribui, comes to add. And it means 讜讗驻讬诇讜 讻诪爪讛 砖诇 砖诇诪讛. It could even be like the matzah of Shlomo. Shlomo Hamelech gave out food, he had the most finest flour. No problem, as long as it's flour or water. 讗诐 讻谉, 诪讛 转诇诪讜讚 诇讜诪专 诇讞诐 注讜谞讬? 讗讛? That's extra word. No, extra word means that it's some extra chidush, extra limud, a ribui. Not by Shlomo Hamelech. A limud is even if it's fine flour, even if it's a even if it's a kind of matzah that only a rich man could afford. Like nowadays, spelt flour cost a lot of money. Huh? Always cost more. All the shmura matzah is hand, right? All because it makes you poorer, that's all. There's no price. Anyway. So you could see, so why does it say 诇讞诐 注讜谞讬? Yeah. Not 诇讞诐 注讜谞讬, it's 诇讞诐 注讜谞讬. A person is an 注谞讬. So it comes to exclude. So 诇讞诐 注讜谞讬 comes to exclude 讞诇讜讟 or 讗砖讬砖讛. 讞诇讜讟 is a cooked one, whatever, and 讗砖讬砖讛 is the 讞砖讜讘讛 one. Then he says, 诪讗讬 诪砖诪注 讚讛讗讬 讗砖讬砖讛 诇讬砖谞讗 讚讞砖讬讘讜转讗? Where do we know that the word 讗砖讬砖讛 is that's a word that shows a 讞砖讜讘讛 bread? So it says, yet, see it says, 讜讬讞诇拽 诇讻诇 讛注诐, and he divided to the whole nation, to all the people, 讻诇 讛诪讜谉 讬砖专讗诇, what did he give them? 讗砖驻专 讗讞讚 讜讗砖讬砖讛 讗讞转, one 讗砖驻专, one 讗砖讬砖讛. What is 讗砖驻专, what is 讗砖讬砖讛? 讗诪专 专讘 讞谞谉 讘专 讗讘讗, it was David Hamelech. He gave out, what's 讗砖驻专? 讗诪专, as he said, 讗砖驻专 讗讞转 means 讗砖驻专 means 讗讞转 诪砖砖讛 讘驻专. He gave each one such a big piece of meat it was one-sixth of a bull, sixth. Imagine, big piece. That's the word 讗砖驻专: 讗讞转, 砖砖讛, 驻专. 讜讗砖讬砖讛 is 讗讞转 诪砖砖讛 讘讗讬驻讛, one-sixth of an 讗讬驻讛. So memeila that shows, that's what called, because that's chashuv. This is by David. Between six and a half and eight pounds. Yeah. Wow. Of flour. 讜驻诇讬讙讗 讚砖诪讜讗诇, this is arguing taytsh of 讗砖讬砖讛 is arguing against Shmuel, 讚讗诪专 砖诪讜讗诇, Shmuel said 讗砖讬砖讛 is 讙专讘讗 讚讞诪专讗. 讗砖讬砖讛 means a a barrel of wine. Because it says, 讜讗讛讘讬 讗砖讬砖讬 注谞讘讬诐. Those that love the 讗砖讬砖讛 of of 注谞讘讬诐. 讗砖讬砖讬 注谞讘讬诐 means wine. So it's a different pshat. But he's taytshing 讗砖讬砖讛 means a chashuv piece of bread. And on matzah, you can't have it chashuv. But here, what does it mean chashuv? Doesn't mean you can't have a big matzah, you can have a big matzah. It means chashuv that it has a taste, a chashuv taste, that it's not just plain flour and water, has some juice in it, has some geshmak in it. Is this when he took the 诪砖讻谉 away and brought it up to Yerushalayim? What is this what is the celebration here? No. What did David give? Why did he? What point was it? It's by Shmuel 讘壮. The beginning of Shmuel 讘壮. I think it was after a war. It was that war, after a war, yeah. Forgot, but I think it was after a war. He was always after a war, by the way. Oh. 讗诪专, and Rava said, 诪讗讬 讞讝专转? We know that one of the six the five kinds of maror that you could use is chazeret. What's 讞讝专转? It says chasa, which is lettuce. 诪讗讬 讞住讗? Why is it called chasa? Because 讞住讗 comes from the word chas. 讞住 专讞诪谞讗 注诇讬谞讜. The Eibershter chas with rachmanut, the Eibershter had rachmanut on us. 讜讗诪专 专讘讬 砖诪讜讗诇 讘专 谞讞诪谞讬, 专讘讬 砖诪讜讗诇 讘专 谞讞诪谞讬 said 讗诪专 专讘讬 讬讜谞转谉, in the name of 专讘讬 讬讜谞转谉, 诇诪讛 谞诪砖诇讜 诪爪专讬诐 讻诪专讜专? Why are the Mitzrayim compared to maror? 诇讜诪专 诇讱, to tell you, 诪讛 诪专讜专 讝讛 砖转讞诇转讜 专讱 讜住讜驻讜 拽砖讛, just like the maror in the beginning it's soft and later it gets hard, same thing, 讗祝 诪爪专讬诐 砖转讞诇转谉 专讻讛, first it started soft and then it became hard. By the How did the Mitzrayim start making the Yidden work hard? First they came with them with soft words. That's why it's called 讘驻专讱, 驻讛 专讱. They spoke with the mouth, free, you know, come and help us and we'll be good this. And then the Yidden did their quota and they tried their best. Now they started making them 诪砖讜注讘讚. The same thing by the chazeret. The chazeret also in the beginning when it grows it's soft and then later it hardens up. The maror is usually, this is it's spiciness. It starts out very spicy. Turn around. No, the maror. Right. But here it means which maror it means, here it means the chazeret, it means the lettuce. Because the lettuce, how is it maror, how is it bitter? It's not bitter. It becomes bitter if you let it stand. No, not the chrein, talking about the chazeret, the lettuce. The lettuce becomes bitter No, it says it's bitter lechatchilah, when it grows in the ground it's starts off bitter and then it becomes the way it is. Lettuce starts off sweet. Then it could get to It could get bitter later also, but that's not The main thing is it's bitter in the beginning. We don't taste the bitterness. But here it's stays in the it's soft. Here it's saying soft, not not And in the end, it gets hard? Yeah. Lettuce gets hard? The the stalk in the middle, no? You pull them differently. The the stalk in the middle. Maybe he's talking about the bitterness of the of the If you let lettuce stay too long, it becomes bitter. Keep it in the refrigerator too long, it gets bitter, though. No, Rashi says clearly, the 讛拽诇讞 砖诇讛诐 诪转拽砖讛, no? The 拽诇讞 is the the heart, or what's it called? Stem. Stem. The stalk, mm. mm, gets hard like a rock. Like wood, if you let it stand for a long time. But it's not the le- the leaves. The leaves don't get. Zogt di Gemara: 讗诪专 专讘 谞讞诪谉, 专讘 谞讞诪谉 said, 讘转讞诇讛, in the beginning, 讻砖讛讬讜 诪讘讬讗讬诐 谞住讻讬诐 诪讬讛讜讚讛, when the 讘讬转 讛诪拽讚砖 stood and they were able they brought in the 谞住讻讬诐, the wine offerings, from 讬讛讜讚讛, 讗讝 讛讬讛 讬讬谞诐 砖诇 讬讛讜讚讛 诪讞诪讬抓. So, the wine of 讬讛讜讚讛 it never got sour. The 讝讻讜转 of the 谞住讻讬诐 that came from 讬讛讜讚讛, that the wine always stayed fresh. It never got sour. 注讚 砖谞讜转谞讬诐 诇转讜讻讜 砖注讜专讬诐, the only way if you wanted to get vinegar Nowadays, you have other way. In those days, how was vinegar? From wine, but it never got sour. So, they had to put in barley. If they put in barley, it would get sour. 讜讛讬讜 拽讜专讗讬诐 讗讜转讜 讞讜诪抓 住转诐. That was called vinegar 住转诐. 讜注讻砖讬讜, now that we do not have 谞住讻讬诐, 讗讬谉 讬讬谞诐 砖诇 讗讚讜诪讬诐 诪讞诪讬抓. 诪讞诪讬抓. The wine from 讗讚讜诐 doesn't become sour 注讚 砖谞讜转谞讬诐 诇转讜讻讜 砖注讜专讬诐, put in 砖注讜专讬诐. 讜讛讬讜 拽讜专讬谉 讗讜转讜, they call it 讞讜诪抓 讗讚讜诪讬, cuz in the Mishnah it speaks about uh it says 讞讜诪抓 讗讚讜诪讬. So, we see like this, both can't be. Edom and Yidden and Yehuda both should be good, that can't be. If this one has the ma'alah, that one doesn't. If this other one has this one doesn't. And now That's why it's hard to understand. How could Germany is the number one country in Europe now and Eretz Yisrael went up higher than it was you know for a long time. How could it be that they're both at the same time? Eretz Yisrael and Germany. I don't know if this goes on Germany. Germany is Eretz Yisrael Germany has a lot of Jews, that's why. It is. It shouldn't be, right? But like 诇拽讬讬诐 诪讛 砖谞讗诪专 This This is It's 诪拽讬讬诐 what it says, 讗诪诇讗讛 讛讞专讘讛. 讗诪诇讗讛 means I'll fill up. 讛讞专讘讛 the destroyed. 讗诐 诪诇讬讗讛 讝讜, 讞专讘讛 讝讜. If this one is full, this one is destroyed. 讗诐 诪诇讬讗讛 讝讜, 讞专讘讛 讝讜. This one is like this. Are they cooperating, Eretz Yisrael? And 专讘 谞讞诪谉 讘专 讬爪讞拽 讗诪专, he brings from another pasuk. It says by Esav and 讬注拽讘, 讜诇讗讜诐 诪诇讗讜诐 讬讗诪抓. One one uh government and the other one, Rashi brings it, that you won't have both. When Yaakov is up, Esav is down. When Esav is up, Yaakov is down. It can't be both together. Zogt di Gemara weiter: 转谞讬讗, we're learning a 讘专讬讬转讗, 专讘讬 砖诪注讜谉 讘谉 讗诇注讝专 says, 讻诇 住注讜讚讛 砖讗讬谞讛 砖诇 诪爪讜讛, any seudah which is not a 住注讜讚转 诪爪讜讛, 讗讬谉 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐 专砖讗讬 诇讬讛谞讜转 诪诪谞讛. A talmid chacham should not have any hana'ah from it. 驻专注讙讟 讚讬 讙诪专讗: 讻讙讜谉 诪讗讬? What's a seudah of a mitzvah? So, he answered, 讗诪专 专讘讬 讬讜讞谞谉: 讻讙讜谉 讘转 讻讛谉 诇讬砖专讗诇. If a daughter of a kohen gets married to a Yisrael, that's not a 住注讜讚讛 砖诇 诪爪讜讛. 讜讘转 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐 诇注诐 讛讗专抓, if a daughter of a talmid chacham marries an am ha'aretz, No good. it's no good. 讚讗诪专 专讘讬 讬讜讞谞谉, Rav Yochanan says, 讘转 讬砖专讗诇 讘转 No, 讘转 讻讛谉 诇讬砖专讗诇 or 讘转 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐 诇注诐 讛讗专抓 讗讬谉 讝讬讜讜讙诐 注讜诇讛 讬驻讛. Their marriage is not going to last. In other words, you a daughter of a kohen should not marry a plain Yisrael. And And the Gemara what's going to happen. And a talmid chacham should not give his daughter to an am ha'aretz. The Gemara is going to say that part of it. 诪讗讬 讛讬讗? What's going to be if the zivug is not going to be good, what's going to be? 讗诪专 专讘 讞住讚讗, Rav Chisda said, 讗讜 讗诇诪谞讛, or she will become an almanah, husband will die, 讗讜 讙专讜砖讛, she'll get divorced, 讗讜 讝专注 讗讬谉 诇讛, she won't have any children. 讘诪转谞讬转讗 转谞讗, in the beraita it says something else. 讗讜 讬拽讘专谞讛, 讗讜 讬拽讘专住讛. Or he'll bury her, which means she'll die first, or he will she he she will bury him, 讗讜 诪讘讬讗转讜 诇讬讚讬 注谞讬讜转. Isn't that true anyway? Doesn't somebody always have to be dying? Ah, no. It means in a young age. Or it'll bring him to poverty. Fregt di Gemara: 讗讬谞讬? So, you're telling me if a 讘转 讻讛谉 marries a Yisrael, it's no good? It's not so. 讜讛讗诪专 专讘讬 讬讜讞谞谉, didn't Rabbi Yochanan say 讛专讜爪讛 砖讬转注砖专, if someone wants to become rich, 讬讚讘拽 讘讝专注讜 砖诇 讗讛专谉. Marry one of the descendants of Aharon. Marry one of the kohanim. Because 讻诇 砖讻谉, 砖讬讛讗 诇讜 讻讛讜谞讛 讜诪注砖专讜转. Now that you have two ma'alot, you have Torah, if you're and you have kehunah, so it gives you certainly a reason Hashem should give you ashirut. And here we said it's no good. The Gemara says, 诇讗 拽砖讬讗, 讛讗 讘转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐, 讛讗 讘注诐 讛讗专抓. If a talmid chacham marries a daughter of a kohen, that's fine. If an am ha'aretz marries a daughter of a kohen, then we got a problem. That's why never a bachur would become a chatan to a daughter of a kohen, the Rebbe would say right him, make sure to become baki to learn Masechet Kallah. Because the Gemara says in one of the places in Kiddushin that if a person says 讛诪拽讚砖 注诇 诪谞转 砖讗谞讬 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐, so it says 讗驻讬诇讜 if he knows just Masechet Kallah, he's called a 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐. So, we see from there that the Gemara uses the 诇砖讜谉 诪住讻转 讻诇讛. So, the Rebbe would write, \"Make sure to learn Masechet Kallah.\" Yeah, my brother, my brother got married 讘转 讻讛谉, so the Rebbe wrote to him 砖讬诇诪讚 Masechet Kallah. He probably was a 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐 anyway, but it says the 诇砖讜谉 in the Gemara says 讗驻讬诇讜 learned Masechet Kallah, so it's a 注谞讬谉 to learn Masechet Kallah. So, he said, \"Learn Masechet Kallah,\" yeah. Huh? Take 诪砖谞讬讜转. Mishnayot and Gemara. It's not from the real 诪住讻转讜转, it's called 住驻专讬诐 讞讬爪讜谞讬讬诐. In the back of Masechet Sanhedrin sometimes, Masechet Avodah Zarah. So, it's called you have Masechet Kallah, you have Masechet Derech Eretz. Derech Eretz Zuta, Derech Eretz Rabba. There's one Mishnah in Masechet Kallah that is very hard to understand. And the Gemara, it's like one line of a Mishnah and one line of Gemara, it's a classical thing that the 讬砖讬讘讜转, the 讻诇讛 讘讞讜专讬诐 they gekacht in them always to try to figure out a peshat. I'll show you something in Masechet Kallah. I'll show you it's a very 诪讗讚谞注, 诪讗讚谞注 诪砖谞讛. It says there: 讗讛讘转 讛砖诪讗 讜砖谞讗转 讛注讘讚讛, 讗转 讛注讘讜讚讛. 专讘讬 讬讛讜讚讛 讗讜诪专: 诪讛 讘讻讱? And then Masechet Kallah, I think it's in the in the back It's in the back of Masechet Avodah Zarah. How do you afford this? I'll I'll I'll read with you. It's it's it's It's not a regular Gemara, it's called Masechet Sefarim Chitzonim. It's probably usually it's in the back of Masechet Avodah Zarah, a lot is in the back of Masechet Sanhedrin, I don't know which one. But that's the classical one. Who says this? The the Rambam says that you learn this? The Gemara says that that if someone makes a a 拽讬讚讜砖讬谉 注诇 诪谞转 砖讗谞讬 转诇诪讬讚 讞讻诐, so it says even if he knows just Masechet Kallah, he's called already a talmid chacham. So, the Gemara gives an example what's called a talmid chacham, if you know Masechet Kallah. So, that's what the Rebbe would say, Masechet Kallah. It doesn't have It doesn't have in the back? Here, yeah. It says like this: here is Masechet Kallah. Masechet Semachot, Masechet Sofrim, it's all different masechtot together. But this is a Mishnah in Masechet Kallah. Let's see. It was. This was when David was giving when he brought when he brought the when he brought the aron to from Beit Oved Edom and when he brought it to Yerushalayim. It's a beraita in Gemara. Here, listen to this 讘专讬讬转讗: 讗讛讘转 讛砖诪讗 讜砖谞讗转 讛诪讘讜专讱. 专讘 讞讝拽讬讛 讗讜诪专 讘诇砖讜谉 讗讞专转: 讗讛讘转 讛砖诪讗 讜砖谞讗转 讛诪讘讜专讱. 诇砖讜谉 讗讞专转? It's the same thing! That's the 讘专讬讬转讗. Zogt di Gemara: 讛讜讛 专讙讬诇 诇讜诪专 砖诪讗 讻讱 讛讬讛. 讛诪讘讜专讱 诪讛 讘讻讱? 诪讗讬 讘讬谞讬讬讛讜? 讗讬讻讗 讘讬谞讬讬讛讜 讚讘专讬 讟讜讘讛. Does it make any sense? And I read again, I'll translate: 讗讛讘转 讛砖诪讗, love the maybe, 讜砖谞讗转 讛诪讘讜专讱, hate the one that blesses you. 专讘 讞讝拽讬讛 讗讜诪专 讘诇砖讜谉 讗讞专转: 专讘 讞讝拽讬讛 says it in a different 诇砖讜谉, and he says the exact same words: 讗讛讘转 讛砖诪讗 讜砖谞讗转 讛诪讘讜专讱. Mamash the same words! How is it a 诇砖讜谉 讗讞专转? And that's the 讘专讬讬转讗. Zogt di Gemara: 讛讜讛 专讙讬诇 诇讜诪专 砖诪讗 讻讱 讛讬讛. You should be always trained to say maybe this was. 讛诪讘讜专讱 诪讛 讘讻讱? 讛诪讘讜专讱 means or what 讛诪讘讜专讱, what is it about it? 诪讗讬 讘讬谞讬讬讛讜? What's the difference? 讗讬讻讗 讘讬谞讬讬讛讜 讚讘专讬 讟讜讘讛. Figure out a pshat! Those words we understand! No, it seems like that fits the Love 砖诪讗, never be say this is for sure, always That's that yeah, those few words, but you should love the 砖诪讗, hate the 诪讘讜专讱? Hate the blesser? I'm just saying what it says! And if 讞讝拽讬讛 says it 讘诇砖讜谉 讗讞专转, he says a different lashon, and he says the exact same lashon: 讗讛讘转 讛砖诪讗 讜砖谞讗转 讛诪讘讜专讱! And then the Gemara says, be used to saying 砖诪讗 讻讱 讛讬讛, maybe this was. 讛诪讘讜专讱 诪讛 讘讻讱? 诪讗讬 讘讬谞讬讬讛讜? 讗讬讻讗 讘讬谞讬讬讛讜 讚讘专讬 讟讜讘讛. Remember once I asked Rav Shalom Morozov pshat in this. Because Rav Shalom Morozov is a baki. So, the first thing he did without anything further, said, \"Let's see how it says in Masechet Derech Eretz.\" He remembered it. So, right away he switched to Masechet Masechet Derech Eretz Zuta. And he found it same almost the same lashon here. A little different. Here it says like this: 讛讜讬 讗讜讛讘 讗转 讛砖诪讗 讜砖谞讗 讗转 讛讻诪讛. Hate the what? 讛拽诪讛. Okay. 讜讞讝拽讬讛 讛讬讛 讗讜诪专 讘诇砖讜谉 讗讞专转: 讗讛讜讘 讗转 讛砖诪讗 讜砖谞讗 讗转 讛拽诪讛 讘讻讱. Different 诇砖讜谉. So, we see there might be up to different girsaot. Anyway, the opposite of 砖诪讗 is 讘专讬, no? Yeah, usually. You hate the 砖诪讗, love the 砖诪讗 and hate the 讘专讬. But it
says 诪讘讜专讱, so how does 诪讘讜专讱 have to do with 讘专讬? Saying maybe it's like a And what does Rav Chizkiyah say? Same thing 讘诇砖讜谉 讗讞专转. What does 讘诇砖讜谉 讗讞专转 mean? It's a classical thing. It's one of those things that we've got to understand What does 砖诪讗, what does 砖诪讗 mean? 砖诪讗 means maybe. That part we understand. Love to always say now people are always confident they say, when you ask them a she'elah, \"No, don't be so sure.\" Fine. Absolutely, absolutely. Absolutely, yeah, always say. They say that people, there was a person known, the guy who was known to be a emes zoger. When it rained outside, he knocked on the door and he came in, and they asked him, \"Is it raining outside?\" He said, \"When I was outside, it rained.\" Maybe this second it stopped. I mean, so you never you never really say this, \"Absolutely.\" You shouldn't do that. I know when the Rebbe was magiah the 砖讬讞讜转, I could just give you one example what we what he trained us, what he wrote, he always crossed out the words that we wrote extreme. When you wrote some pshat and he said there's a kushya, so we wrote 拽讜砖讬讗 诪讗讜讚. Crossed out the 诪讗讜讚. Kushya. Anytime like this, 讚讘专 讙讚讜诇 讘讬讜转专, he crossed out the 讘讬讜转专. I mean, the extra the words, the extreme words, he didn't like, he never liked. He says 驻讗专砖讟讬讬谉 诇讙诪专讬, crossed out 诇讙诪专讬. He was always careful, and we stopped doing it because after the first sicha, we realized his style. Now,
here's his words. Those words. You were you were saying over his words. No. No, when you write it down, the Rebbe has a farbrengen, and we made a big wrote down for Likutei Sichos. So, you wrote down, so we wrote 诇砖讜谞讜转 not of the way he said it, but the way you write it. It's different the way you speak, and different the way you write. So, the same thing. So, you wrote the words that we wrote, that this is a very strong kushya. It could be even he said it, who knows. But to print it like this, very strong, it's a kushya. Strong kushya, maybe, but sometimes. So, this 讗讛讜讘 讗转 讛砖诪讗, but the rest of it, I'm I'm telling you, it's Maseches Kallah Rabbati, 驻专拽 砖诇讬砖讬, in this baraita here, towards the end. Again, someone come up with a pshat, homework. It's not so easy to become 讘拽讬 in even just like Kallah. 转谞讗讬 讜讘诇讘讚 注讬谉, 诪诪砖, 讘拽讬 in everything. The astronomy, 拽讬讚讜砖 讛讞讜讚砖 to him was Who was the chazan? The Rebbe. A Russian?