Why You Shouldn't Go Out in Pairs at Night
Why You Shouldn't Go Out in Pairs at Night
Part of Pesach · 18:31
Covers the superstition against even numbers (zugos) when leaving the house, the Rambam's rejection of demons, and the practice of drinking four cups at the Seder.
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we're holding 注专讘讬 驻住讞讬诐. Okay. 转谞讜 专讘谞谉. 转谞讜 专讘谞谉, we're holding here on top here. 转谞讜 专讘谞谉, the fifth line, fifth line. 转谞讜 专讘谞谉. This is still the sugya of 讝讜讙讜转, that you're not allowed to drink or do things two. 讛砖讜转讛 讻驻讜诇讬诐, if you drink double, if you drink two, 讚诪讜 讘专讗砖讜. Your blood is in your head, that means you're you're you're hurting yourself. 讗诪专 专讘 讬讛讜讚讛, 专讘 讬讛讜讚讛 said, 讗讬诪转讬, this is only 讘讝诪谉 砖诇讗 专讗讛 驻谞讬 讛砖讜拽, that's if he didn't go out into the street in between. 讗讘诇 专讗讛 驻谞讬 讛砖讜拽, 讝讜讙讜转, 讝讜讙讜转. 讚讗住 讛讬讬住讟 讟专讬谞拽注谉 讗讬谉 爪讜讜讬讬 讝讗讻谉, 爪讜讜讬讬 讗讬谞讟注专注住讗谞讟, 爪讜讜讬讬 讝讗讻谉. 讝讜讙讜转 is 诪讝讬拽讬谉. So here, if you drink if you 讝讜讙讜转 to death? Huh? 讝讜讙讜转 to death? Well, we'll see later, is it not to death. They could No, they could kill you. The 诪讝讬拽讬谉 could kill you, have a chance to kill you if you drink if you have 讝讜讙讜转. But that's only if he didn't go out to the street. 讗讘诇 专讗讛 驻谞讬 讛砖讜拽, if you
see the street, in other words if you walked out into 专砖讜转 讛专讘讬诐, then you're allowed to. 讗诪专 专讘 讗砖讬, 专讘 讗砖讬 said, He built a hefsek. Yes, yes. 注讚 讻讚讬 讻讱, 注讚 讻讚讬 讻讱. This is only if you have kavanah to drink two, not not if you do it by you know you That we said before. If you decided you drink one, then you decided another, but if you lechatchilah plan 讗诪专 专讘 讗砖讬, 专讘 讗砖讬 said, 讞讝讬谞讗 诇讬讛 诇专讘 讞谞讬谞讗 讘专 讘讬讘讬 Does that apply to every single time someone drinks tea, they say I want to have two cups of water, this is what I do, I want to lose weight, and this time I'm drinking two cups of water every According according to this Gemara it's not good. The Gemara said later if you're not makpid, they're not makpid, then you Right. So he said, Rav Ashi said, 讞讝讬谞讗 诇讬讛 诇专讘 讞谞讬谞讗 讘专 讘讬讘讬, I saw 专讘 讞谞讬谞讗 讘专 讘讬讘讬 讚讗讻诇 讻住讗, that when he ate a kos, he ate one, 讛讜讛 谞驻讬拽, he would go out, 讜讞讝讬 讗驻讬 砖讜拽讗, he would look in the see in the street, in other words be outside, and therefore he was able to drink another one. 讜诇讗 讗诪专谉, this problem is only 讗诇讗 诇讬讜爪讗 诇讚专讱. When is there a sakanah? If you plan to take a trip. In other words, the 诪讝讬拽讬谉 are able to hurt you if you're in a 诪拽讜诐 住讻谞讛. If you're in a place which is not safe, so if you're planning to go out. 讗讘诇 讘讘讬转讬讛 诇讗, but if you plan to stay home, then there's no problem. 讗诪专 专讘 讝讬专讗, 专讘 讝讬专讗 said, 讜诇讬砖谉 讻诇讬讜爪讗 诇讚专讱 讚诪讬.
Going to sleep is like going on on a trip, because going to sleep is also dangerous. You're going to sleep, you're giving up your neshamah, so then they could hop on and get you. 讗诪专 专讘 驻驻讗, 专讘 驻驻讗 said, 讜诇诪讬讝诇 诇讘讬转 讛讻住讗 讻诇讬讜爪讗 诇讚专讱 讚诪讬. Huh? during the day, not during the night? Why not also, why not? Smoker? Smoker, so don't drink two before. Rabbi, were the 诪讝讬拽讬谉 were they 诪诪砖 hurt you physically? Yeah, in those days, yeah. Those days. Nowadays, we don't have. Doesn't exist anyways today, like you ever Anyone ever saw a I met a 诪讝讬拽? Well, there are stories in the time of the Baal Shem Tov and the Noda BiYehuda with 诪讝讬拽讬诐, for sure. But they say the Baal Shem Tov kicked them away into behind the 讛专讬 讞讜砖讱. Is it the same thing as 砖讚讬诐? Yeah. Yeah, there are different words for it, yeah. Nowadays Yeah, but whatever whatever 讚讬谞讬诐 if if the 讚讬谉 would be that it has to be, we don't care that nowadays no 诪讝讬拽讬谉. If if the 讚讬谉 is it's not a 讚讬谉, this is just telling you that it's dangerous, and then it says it, that the Gemara later says if you're not 诪拽驻讬讚, they're not 诪拽驻讬讚, so 诪诪讬诇讗 we're not 诪拽驻讬讚. That that wouldn't help. Now the fact anyway doesn't count. If the 讚讬谉 is that you're not allowed to, because there are certain things you're not allowed to and, what does it say? Even if that was about, not 诪拽驻讬讚. Oh, that's the point! Since it doesn't say 讗住讜专, Right, it's not a It says because of 诪讝讬拽讬谉, so therefore and then it says also later, those that are not 诪拽驻讬讚, the 诪讝讬拽讬谉 are not 诪拽驻讬讚 on you. So 诇讻转讞讬诇讛 people are not 诪拽驻讬讚, and it's not And also it's more for an 讗讚诐 讞砖讜讘.
Rambam holds there were never 诪讝讬拽讬谉. Rambam holds there's no such thing as 砖讚讬诐 讘讻诇诇. Yeah. Anyway, so 专讘 驻驻讗 says 讜诇诪讬讝诇 诇讘讬转 讛讻住讗, to go out into the towards the toilet, 讻诇讬讜爪讗 诇讚专讱 讚诪讬, is like going out on the trip. In other words, it's also dangerous, because the way they used to have the toilets Had to go out. had to go Yeah, they had to go out. Was like an outhouse, you had to go to the back and it's this, and so that's dangerous. Because of what we were just talking about. 驻专注讙讟 讚讬 讙诪专讗 讜讘讘讬转讬讛 诇讗, you're telling me this, if you stay at home there's no problem? 讜讛讗 专讘讗 诪谞讬 讻砖讜专讬, but 专讘讗, when he would drink, how did he keep 讞砖讘讜谉 if this was 讝讜讙讜转 or not? Cuz you're not allowed to have an even number. So they had beams on the ceiling or whatever, or beams like this, and every time he would drink a cup, he would look at one beam. So he remembers last time he looked at this one, now he looks at that and he would know how much there is. That's how he would keep 讞砖讘讜谉 if it's even or not. like Kiddush, you shouldn't take two That's something else, that's just for 讚专讱 讗专抓. That's pashut. To take one, it's not nice, take three, you're like making yourself too much, and that's that's nothing that's not from this. And also 专讘讗, 专讘讗 counted the beams. 讗讘讬讬 讻讬 砖转讬 讞讚 讻住讗, 讗讘讬讬 when he drank one cup, 诪谞拽讟讗 诇讬讛 讗讬诪讬讛 转专讬 讻住讬 讘转专讬 讬讚讬讛, so his mother, which is really his stepmother, would right away hold in both hands a cup, two cups, to make sure, to remember that he drank one and now he in order to make he can't drink a second one, he has to drink two more if he wants. And these are all cases where he planned to stay home and didn't go, so you see that there was also a problem. To drink two more, you have to drink the second cup. Right, but if you want to drink more, so in other words, you carelessly can forget and drink another one, so she held two lechatchilah. So in other words, if you're going to drink, you've got to drink them both. And 谞讞诪谉 讘专 讬爪讞拽 讻讬 讛讜讛 砖转讬 转专讬 讻住讬, if he drank two cups, 诪谞拽讟 诇讬讛 砖诪砖讬讛 讞讚 讻住讗, his shamash would hold a cup of wine ready to give him. 讞讚 讻住讗, if he drank one, 诪谞拽讟 诇讬讛 转专讬 讻住讬 讘转专讬 讬讚讬讛, his shamash would hold two cups to make sure. But the kashya here is, we said before if you planned to stay home, there is no problem. Here these people stayed home and they did, they were careful with zugot. Maybe they meant to leave after and go somewhere. No, right. The Gemara knew that. The story is that he always did it, even if they didn't mean to go. And the 讙诪专讗, 讗讚诐 讞砖讜讘 砖讗谞讬. Adam chashuv is different, because there they tried a important person, there they tried to get him faster. Talmid chacham the shedim try, yeah, even Even at home, 讘讬转讜 注砖讗讜 讻诪讚讘专. There even though, right, even if you are at home. So the shedim try to get people who are chashuv, that's for them a bigger catch. Huh? Are they like the angels, the malachim? No, they're not the angels, they're they're shedim. The shedim, they have certain bodies, but you can't see them, but they're more physical. The Gemara says in a different place that in the yeshiva you have talmidim and you wonder why if their their coats get rubbed out, as if you're rubbing, and it wasn't, because the shedim are there, you didn't even see them, but they would rub your clothes, I mean there was Huh? Leave footprints, all kinds, the shedim, yeah. The Sefer HaZichronot has a story with the with the 专讘 讗讚诐 讘注诇 砖诐, not the 讗讚诐 讘注诇 砖诐, but 专讘 专讘 讬讜讗诇 讘注诇 砖诐. Ma'aseh with shedim, how he kicked them out from the house, a 讙讗谞爪注 诪注砖讛, but then what did he describe what they look like, ooh. Listen. Yeah. Was that often or in earlier days? What? In earlier days? No. The Ramchal says gives a whole explains about shedim. Yes, it's always The only one is the Rambam. He's the only one. Everyone else I told you once, they they people argued with him and this and he said, it's not a kashya from a Gemara against him. From hundreds of gemarot, hundreds, countless sugyot. And he still holds of this? Yeah. They once brought him to a house where there's shedim there, in in his city. There is a known house of shedim, and they wanted to show him physically. So, they took him, they said, \"We'll show you.\" So, he said, \"Good.\" So, the Rambam, so they he they took him to this haunted house at the end of the city. When the Rambam came there, there were no shedim there. They got 谞转讘讟诇 for the kedushah of the Rambam. They also say that if you don't believe in them, they don't exist. No, not that they don't exist, they won't hurt you. Okay, but he said they don't exist. Just this week, Tovi's nephew gave a shiur, there's a special 讞讘讜专讛 in Lakewood in the yeshiva. Yeah, especially. this topic he was speaking about, and how could it be that the Rambam says there isn't and the Baal Shem That Baal Shem, the Gemara is all full. Yeah, so he said it's it is he brought in the 诪注诪讚 they were in, so the 诪注诪讚 that they were in Well, that's probably that's probably it, but yeah.
讗诪专 注讜诇讗, 注讜诇讗 says, 注砖专讛 讻讜住讜转 讗讬谉 讘讛诐 诪砖讜诐 讝讜讙讜转. If you drink 10 cups of wine, even though it's an even number, there's no problem. Because 注讜诇讗 诇讟注诪讬讛, 注讜诇讗 holds like he says, 讚讗诪专 注讜诇讗, 注讜诇讗 says, 讜讗诪专讬 诇讛 讘诪转谞讬转讗 转谞讗, some say it says in a 讘专讬讬转讗, 注砖专讛 讻讜住讜转 转讬拽谞讜 讞讻诪讬诐 讘讘讬转 讗讘诇. When you go to an 讗讘诇's house, he would drink 10 cups of wine. So, 2, 4, 6 and 8 we have to worry about? So far, we'll see. So they made 10 only if you drink 10 cups of wine. 讜讗讬, that's what they said to drink. 讜讗讬 住诇拽讗 讚注转讱 注砖专讛 讻讜住讜转 讬砖 讘讛诐 诪砖讜诐 讝讜讙讜转, if 10 cups also has this problem of 讝讜讙讜转, 讛讬讻讬 拽讬讬诪讬 专讘谞谉 讜转讬拽谞讜 诪讬诇转讗 讚讗转讬讗 诇讬讚讬 住讻谞讛? How would the 专讘谞谉 make a takanah that you have to drink 10 cups when it makes in a sakanah? 讗诇讗 专讗讬讛, that by 10 it doesn't count. 讗讘诇 转诪谞讬讗, 讬砖 讘讛诐 诪砖讜诐 讝讜讙讜转. From eight and up, eight, six, four, there are. 讜专讘 讞住讚讗 讜专讘讛 讘专 专讘 讛讜谞讗 讚讗诪专讬 转专讜讜讬讬讛讜, they say no. They say 砖诇讜诐, 诪爪讟专祝 诇讟讜讘讛 讜诇讗 诪爪讟专祝 诇专注讛. The word shalom is is in the in the 讘专讻转 讻讛谞讬诐, in the third berachah. It says like this: 讬砖讗 讛砖诐 驻谞讬讜 讗诇讬讱, 讬砖讗 讛砖诐 驻谞讬讜 讗诇讬讱 讜讬砖诐 诇讱 砖诇讜诐, so shalom is the seventh. Now, since it's such a good word, shalom, so shalom is 诪爪讟专祝 诇专注讛 not 诪爪讟专祝, 诪爪讟专祝 诇讟讜讘讛 讜诇讗 诪爪讟专祝 诇专注讛. That means like this: if you drank seven, yeah, so it's it counts as if you drank that, umimela it's not 讝讜讙讜转. If you drink seven and then you drink an eighth, it's also no problem. Why? Because the seventh doesn't count. The seven is such a good, that it only helps you, but it doesn't ruin it. So if that doesn't count in a case where he's going to make it worse for you, so mimela it comes out from here, an eighth you're allowed. So the one before said that eight you're not allowed. 10 you're allowed, but eight not allowed. 10 is bad, eight is not. But he holds eight is also not, because the seventh one is not going to be counted as a seven, so you really have drank seven. Where's the, where, what shalom is in the 讘专讻讜转 or in the 讘专讻转 讛讘讬转 or something? What shalom is there? Shalom is the 讘专讻讛 讻讜诇讜. 讬砖讗 讛砖诐 驻谞讬讜 讗诇讬讱 讜讬砖诐 诇讱 砖诇讜诐. That's the seventh word. 讬讘专讻讱 讛砖诐. So the seventh word is such a good word, that because of the seventh, so the seventh cup is always good. It helps you in a case where you drank eight, that really it's not called eight because that one doesn't count. And if you drank, and if you drank six, and you drink this, it does count, and then mimela it's not called six. So the bottom line, according to this, eight is is no problem. 10 we said is no problem, he holds eight is also no problem, because the seventh one will make it to be seven. Isn't a seventh a shleimut? It has its own shleimut, so the eight can't come... 讛砖转讗 讚讗转讬转 诇讛讻讬. No, but here it says both, here it does both ways. If it's shleimut, so it should, here we're saying it doesn't count, sometimes it doesn't count. 讛砖转讗 讚讗转讬转 诇讛讻讬, so then what are you worried for the 10, the 10 is really nine, because the shalom is not in the seven? Okay, according to him, it's stuck like that. The previous one who said 10 held that eight is a problem. He says 10, you think, not a problem, but even without that, eight is never a problem. 讗讘诇 砖讬转讗 讬砖 讘讛 诪砖讜诐 讝讜讙讜转. What do you mean letivuta? Ah? What does letivuta? Letivuta is that if you drank eight, is no problem, because the seventh is is not considered, is not 诪爪讟专祝 诇专讜注. 诪爪讟专祝 诇讟讬讘讜转讗 means if you drank six, and then you drink a seventh one, then you're okay. It isn't 诪爪讟专祝. It's 诪爪讟专祝 to help you to take away from zugot, but it can't be something that becomes part of zugot. But six there is. Ta shma: 讚专讘讛 讜专讘 讬讜住祝 讚讗诪专讬 转专讜讜讬讛讜: 讜讬讞谞讱 谞诪讬 诇讟讬讘讜转讗 诪爪讟专祝 讜诇专讜注 诇讗 诪爪讟专祝. He says 讜讬讞谞讱 is the same way, not only shalom. And therefore, even six. 讗讘诇 讗专讘注讛 讬砖 讘讛 诪砖讜诐 讝讜讙讜转. But four there is. 讗讘讬讬 讜专讘讗 讚讗诪专讬 转专讜讜讬讛讜: 讜讬砖诪专讱 谞诪讬 诇讟讬讘讜转讗 诪爪讟专祝 讜诇专讜注 诇讗 诪爪讟专祝. Even 讜讬砖诪专讱, so the third. So, even by four there isn't. So it's only two. So it's only two. According to him, it's only two. So, you just said that so for them, Rabbah and Rav Yosef, four was important, they were concerned about it, and then they weren't concerned. He wasn't the same. It's a machloket. They didn't agree with each other. Machloket, yeah. He says only 10 is not a problem, the rest is. He says not only 10, eight also not. He says six also not. He says four also not. 讜讬讘专讻讱 is a four? Ah? 讜讬讘专讻讱 is also a word. And every other word you could say. Every word from the... So, obviously they picked these words. These are the end of the berachot. Shalom is the end, 讜讬讞谞讱 is the end, 讜讬砖诪专讱 is the end, and it's only the end. The middle, the beginning doesn't count, it's the end. 讜讗讝讚讗 专讘讗 诇讟注诪讬讛. Rava fits to something else he said. 讚专讘讗 讗驻拽讬谞讛讜 诇专讘谞谉 讘讗专讘注 讝讜讙讜转. 讘讗专讘注 讻讜住讜转. 讘讗专讘注 讻讜住讜转.
Rava, when he would he would give his talmidim to drink four kosot. Another time, when they used to leave, before they left, he used to give them four cups. Why? Because he didn't care. Because he held that four doesn't count. 讗祝 注诇 讙讘 讚讗讬讝讬拽 专讘讗 讘专 诇讜讬转. Rava bar Livyat got a problem. Rava bar Livyat drank four cups, and then he got a headache. He was damaged. So 诇讻讗讜专讛 Rava should have said, \"Oh, so four is no good.\" No. 诇讗 讞砖 诇讛 诇讛讗 诪讬诇转讗. Rava didn't care. 讚讗诪专, he said, you know why he got? 讛讛讜讗 诪砖讜诐 讚讗讬注谞砖 讘驻讬专拽讬讛 讛讜讛. He got that as a punishment for something else, because he used to ask me too much questions by the shiur. He said he got too much questions, yeah, he was a big nudnik. He tried to slug him up in yeshiva. Yeah, yes, so m'meila the Eibishter punish him, but it has nothing to do with the zugos. He said, he didn't care because... Did Rava make a limit of four for l'chaim? Yeah. Yeah. 讗诪专 专讘 讬讜住祝. Rav Yosef said, 讗诪专 诇讬 讬讜住祝 砖讬讚讗. Yosef Shida told me. Yosef the shed, he was a good shed. Sometimes you have good shedim. Which one? Yeah. I never came across a good one before. Yeah. The the friendly ghost, what's his name? Casper. There was a shed who was a tzadik, no? Ah? The gilgul, the gilgul was also some reincarnation for him, wasn't he? According, yeah, according to some, they say. What, Yosef's the... Yosef Shida, that's why he's called Yosef. A gaon was also called Yosef. Anyway, some say he was a person. Some say this is a guy who's not a, a menachesh or something, but most learn, it's a shed. And he said to me like this: 讗砖诪讚讗讬 诪诇讻讗, 诪诇讻讗 讚砖讬讚讬, 讗砖诪讚讗讬 the king of the 砖讚讬诐, 诪诪讜谞讛 讛讜讗 讗讻讜诇讛讜 讝讜讙讬. He is in charge of zugos, of this part. 讜诪诇讻讗 诇讗 讗讬拽专讬 诪讝讬拽. And a king will not damage. A king is not going to be lower himself to damage. M'meila he
said, \"Don't be afraid, because the one that's in charge is the king.\" Ika d'amri, some say adrabba, didn't Shlomo HaMelech have promises? Yeah, yeah. Yeah, he threw him away. Why would you say that the king would not, he would not damage the king? No, the king will not damage him. Oh, king cannot... Not cannot affect. A king will not do it. A king will not damage. That's why Shlomo didn't bother to get rid of the shedim? Shlomo HaMelech? No, he had a problem with Ashmedai. Ashmedai threw him away. When should he get rid of them? No, we're talking here about zugos, only about zugos. King of the shedim is Yeah, the king the king hey, he's not going to go into the zugos. And you can also say the opposite, adrabba, 诪诇讻讗, the king, 专砖讜转讗 讘讬讚讬讛. He could do anything, 讚诪讗讬 讚讘注讬 注讘讬讚. Whatever he wants he could do. So, 诪诇讱 驻讜专抓 讙讚专, 驻讜专抓 讙讚专 诇注砖讜转 诇讜 讚专讱 讜讗讬谉 诪讜讞讬谉 讘讬讚讜. The king could even break through a wall. If a king wants to go someplace, all he does, he says break through the wall, and no one can stop him. And that's what always like a king he said he wants to go someplace, he didn't go around the road. They would knock down houses. You know in in Russia when they made the first truth the first train tracks so what's his name, Nikolai sat down with the with the architect, whatever, and he asked him, \"Where should we make it?\" So he said, \"From here to here.\" And that's it, and they made a straight line. Whatever they had to break through, they broke through, that's all. Because he made a took a pencil and made like this. Because a king could do it. In 95, created Liberty City and this What's the other government name of it? No, eight. No, this it became a came a a slum. This expression is the story of the Ben Ish Chai, you know? With the Peter. One of the the king asked the Ben Ish Chai, \"How could it be free choice if Hashem knows everything that's going to happen?\" Famous question. Famous question. So, he answered him, \"You know what? I could prove to you it has nothing to do. You still have free choice.\" Over time. How did he prove it? The Gemara So, he said, \"I'll tell you. I'll prove to you.\" He says like this, \"You know in a few weeks from now, you have to travel, are planning to travel to a certain city, and that city has two gates to enter, and you have a choice to go which one you want. I'm telling you, I know now which gate you're going to go, and you'll see, you'll tell me later if you have free choice.\" So, he wrote down on a piece of paper, something, he sealed it up, and he put it away. And then came the next few weeks, they expected the city expected the king to come through the big gate, because it was small gate, so he came with his whole entourage. He came over to the gate, and he stops. They didn't know why he wants to stop, he starts thinking, \"I am sure he says that he assumed I'm going to go through the big gate, where else would the king go? I'm going to show him that he doesn't know what he's saying.\" Makes everybody go around to the other side and come to the small gate. He comes to the small gate, he stops. \"I'm sure he was very smart that he assumed that I'm going to do this chochmah and go special to the small gate, I'm going to go back.\" He turned everybody around and went back to the front gate. Comes there, he says, \"He's smart, he's just as smart too, probably he thought that I'm going to do the davka, so he knows it. I'm going to go\" he went back and forth, he made everyone meshuga, he couldn't decide. And he's thinking to himself, \"Oy boy, do I have free choice?\" He couldn't decide, until he said, \"I have a chochmah.\" Goes over to the people and he says, \"I want you to make a new gate. Break through the wall someplace in the middle and make a new gate.\" King said, so they broke through and he went in. And wanted to see what did now he says, call the Ben Ish Chai and he brought the piece of paper, what did he do? All he did, he quoted this Gemara. 诪诇讱 驻讜专抓 讙讚专 讜讗讬谉 诪讜讞讬谉, the king could break through a wall. And he told him like this, \"Did you have free choice?\" He said, \"Yeah, sure, I did.\" You see, \"I knew.\"