Where Does the Custom of Wearing a Yarmulke Come From?
Where Does the Custom of Wearing a Yarmulke Come From?
Part of Halacha, Hashkafa and Parenting · 16:59
A language-focused class tracing Hebrew and Aramaic word origins, the Targum, Friday-night besamim customs, and the halachic status and history of the yarmulke.
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Find the words. Put the word table to But some words have a meaning that shows what it is. So he's going to explain some of the words. 讚砖讗. That's in Hebrew. Some are Aramaic, some Hebrew. 讚砖讗. 讚砖讗 is, uh? 讚砖讗 讚砖讗 is a threshold. It's not a 讚砖讗. So what is it? Something that you pass, you come from one room to the other, you pass pass the threshold. We know why it's called 讚砖讗, 讚专讱 砖诐. That's the way to get there. So the word 讚砖讗 is like a made up of two words, 讚专讱 砖诐. 讚专讙讗. 讚专讙讗 means a ladder, it means steps. But 讚专讱 砖诐 is in Hebrew, but 讚砖讗... Yeah, so some of the words in Aramaic come from Hebrew. If you want to say the pshat, the shoresh is because it's made up of words in Hebrew. 讚专讙讗, 讚专讙讗 is also Aramaic. Aramaic, all Aramaic probably comes from It's very similar, yeah. But it comes from Hebrew, I'm saying. If the shoresh is a bit different. I don't know if it comes, it's the closest to Hebrew. I don't know if it comes, there's a lot of words that it's a lot of words could slow exchange, 诇诪砖诇 讝讛讘. How is 讝讛讘 in Aramaic? 讚讛讘. No, 讚讛讘, 讚. So the same word with this exchange from the 讚 and the 讝, a lot of words like that. But some words are are their own words. But here he's trying to explain how some of these words come from from Hebrew 讚讜讜拽讗. 讚专讙讗, which means steps, 讚专讱 讙讙. Because of these steps, you go to the roof. So 讚专讱 讙讙 is 讚专讙, 讚专讙讗. Okay, then he
goes more words: 诪转讞讜诇转讗. 诪转讞讜诇转讗 is like a type of dip that they used to used to dip in. So it comes from the words 诪转讞讜诇转讗, 诪转讬 转讻诇讛 讝讜? When will this be finished? Cuz dips last very long, you just dipping, it's not like you eat pieces, so that lasts long. So when you eat it, you know, then you're wondering how long will it last? So 诪转讬 转讻诇讛 讝讜. 讘讬转讗. House, 讘讬转讗. 讘讜讗 讜讗讬转讬 讘讛, come and sit in it. 讘讬转讗, come It's an Aramaic name. 讘讬讻住讗. 讘讬讻住讗 is a very narrow, small house. 讘讬 注讻住讗. 注讻住讗 means crowded. Here is crowded, here is small. 讻讜驻住讗. Rashi has different pshatim, but one of the 驻砖讟讬诐, 讻讜驻住讗 means when you have like a big stump or something and you used to sit on it. Like a Gemara in Sukkah, Rashi, a Gemara Pesachim where it says, you have it, a 拽讜驻讗 讚砖讗讜专, sourdough they used like a big pile of sourdough, if you sit it on it, if it's 讞诪抓 or whatever, so that's 讻讜驻住讗. Why is it called 讻讜驻住讗? 讻讜祝 讜住讬讘, bend and sit. In Aramaic, 讻讜祝 is bend, and 住讬讘 is sit. 讻讜驻住讗, bend and sit on it. 诇讬讘谞讬, 诇讬讘谞讬 is 诇讘谞讬诐, 诇讘谞讬诐 are Bricks. bricks. You know why it's called brick, 诇讘谞讬诐? 诇讘谞讬 讘谞讬诐, cuz this will last for a long time for your grandchildren. 诇讘谞讬 讘谞讬诐, 诇讬讘谞讬, 诇讘谞讬 讘谞讬诐. 讞讜爪讗. If you have a fence made of thorns or made of of reeds, of 诇讜诇讘讬诐. What's the word 讞讜爪讗? Comes from the word chatzitzah. That it has it's not strong, it doesn't do anything, it doesn't hold anybody back from going, but it's only a separation. So that's why it's called 讞讜爪讗, cuz it's only a chatzitzah, it's nothing else. Uh? 诪讛 讚注转讜? Rashi don't... So
here he just says clearly, Targum is 讻讗专讘注 诇砖讜谉 拽讚砖 讜拽诪讛 诪讬诇讬, therefore he's telling you some of the words in Targum, that's what he says. So he says, 讞爪讘讜讗. 讞爪讘讜讗 is like a a big 讻诇讬 that you draw water, to draw water. So 讞爪讘讜讗 is 讞爪讘 诪讬诐 诪谉 讛谞讛专. 讞爪讘讜讗, with this you are drawing. 讻讜讝讗. 讻讜讝讗 is when you have a small 讻诇讬 讞专住, a small earthenware 讻诇讬 that you take water in. So 讻讜讝讗 comes from the word 讻讝讛. Cuz that means this is all it is. 讝讛 means this. All it is like something that's small, that's all it is. So you use the word 讻讝讛, it's 讻讜讝讗. 砖讜讟讬转讗. 砖讜讟讬转讗 is a branch of hadas. Why is it called 砖讜讟讬转讗? Cuz it's 砖讟讜转讗. People used to use this, you find in the Gemara that they used to use this to throw when they used to dance by a 讻诇讛. Basically, we would call m'hat zich meshuga gemakht. So this is something that m'macht zich meshuga with, but for a mitzvah. Baati Legani, we bring this Baati Legani, the maamar, he brings, Rabbi Yehuda bar Ilai, yeah, he praises that, Baruch Rabbi Yehuda bar Ilai, so that danced with three. Later there when he died, there was a pillar of fire in the shape of a hadas, so there were three 诇砖讜谞讜转 that one of the tanaim said. One 诇砖讜谉 he said, 讗讛谞讬 诇讬讛 砖讟讜转讬讛 诇住讘讗, the shtut that he did helped him to show his 诪讚专讙讛. Another one is 讗讛谞讬 诇讬讛 砖讜讟讬转讬讛, the 砖讬讟讛, he had a 砖讬讟讛. Another one is 砖讜讟讬转讬讛, the the branch. You use this on Friday. Uh?
Friday night, hadasim. Yeah, people It's a minhag to use on Friday, 注专讘 砖讘转. Friday, always like taste, so it always is... Yeah, because they smell, it's from Friday night. Smelled from Friday night. Friday night's very I mean to smell besamim. We smell 诪讜爪讗讬 砖讘转, they smell Friday night. Yeah. Besamim, not hadasim. Not only that. No, together they smelled, they had hadasim. The Gemara, when we learned the Gemara, is allowed for you to use mint? Can you use mint? Huh? Can you use mint? Is that muktzeh to us? No, why is that muktzeh to us? The muktzeh, you're not cutting it. The Gemara that we learned, when they gave the story with the, huh? Some people had a lulav, but together with with besamim. Somebody what? But how about Friday night? Saturday night they also smelled besamim. What? Besamim. Yeah, that they do, but we only do it 诪讜爪讗讬 砖讘转, they do it Friday night. There's a story with, I think Rav Shimon bar Yochai we learned, that after he came out of the 诪注专讛, he saw a person running 注专讘 砖讘转 carrying two hadasim. So he asked him, \"Why this?\" 讗讞讚 讻谞讙讚 讝讻讜专 讜讗讞讚 讻谞讙讚 砖诪讜专. And they smelled two hadasim. And there's people, still people do it. Hey, they do it today? Yeah, a lot of people do it today. So that's So that's where it comes from 砖讟讜转讗? No, 砖讟讜转讗 because of the chatunah. Chatunah, yeah. Friday is not a shtut, but this chatunah they used to dance like a like a meshuga we would call it, for this for the mitzvah, he calls it. Yeah. 诪砖讬讻诇讗 is a big pan where people wash from. So 诪砖讬讻诇讗 is 诪砖讬 讻讜诇讛. 诪砖讬 is washing. Everyone washes, 诪砖讬讻诇讗. 诪砖讬讻诇转讗 is a small one. 诪砖讬 讻诇转讗, a 讻诇讛 washes. It's like a small one that's like a special, you know, private one. So that's only done for a 讻诇讛. Yeah. Then we go like 注住讬住讗. 注住讬住讗 is a shtisl. When you have when no, no. When you make a prescription, when you grind, so they used to have the 讻诇讬 and then the the stick inside, when you see that in drugstores in front? Mortar and pestle. This this one is called a shtisl. What's it called? Mortar and pestle. This is a mortar, Rashi says mortar. Rashi here says, 注住讬住讗 is the mortar. A dish. A dish, right? Huh? The dish. So why is it called 注住讬住讗? It's like the word 讞住讬专转讗. 注住讬住讗 is like the 讗 and the 讞 exchange. It's missing. There's a hole there, there's like an area inside which is air. A bowl. 讘讜讻谞讗, the 讘讜讻谞讗 is the 讻诇讬 inside. What did you say it was? The pestle. The pestle. Why is it called 讘讜讻谞讗? 讘讜讗 讜讗讻谞讜. Come and I'll hit, because that's what it's used, to bang, to to grind. And you grind it. In Arabic, it is a piston. Engines have pistons. No, it's not a piston, a pestle. Pestle means the the this the hammer like, or whatever that you The pharmacists, not now, I mean, but they used to. No, but I'm telling you about the word 讘讜讻谞讗. It's a piston. Okay, but that's Maybe it comes from this. Maybe it has to do with this. Yeah, I don't know. And this go up and down. Could be, because that's what he's doing, it goes up and down, and then this. Probably comes from the same source. It's an engine, in the engine. It's a modern a modern word. They took it from something that was Yeah. 诇讘讜砖讗. 诇讘讜砖讗, a 诇讘讜砖, a garment, but it means the outer garment. Like a coat. Why is it called 诇讘讜砖讗? 诇讗 讘讜砖讛. This makes you shouldn't be embarrassed, because under you could wear torn pants, you could wear torn things, you wear on top nobody knows nothing. No, you you can 讙讬讬谉 讗讬谉 讗讜谞讟注专讛讜讬讝谉 and and and you wear a coat and and and no one knows the difference. And that's why they call it 诇讘讜砖讗. So the pants itself? Huh? You're wearing pants so you No, no, wearing pants is not. 讙诇讬诪讗, that's already it's not pants. A 讙诇讬诪讗 is when they wear they used to wear like a A cloak. A cloak, that's the word, a cloak. Why is it called 砖注讜砖讛 讗讜转讜 讻讙讜诇诐? When you put it on you can't, like a real cloak you can't see the hands, you can't see, it's like just covers you like makes you like one big stick, like a golem. Like a golem means a 砖讟讬拽 驻诇讬讬砖, it makes like a golem. Yeah. 讙讜诇住讗, it's a nice garment. 讙讜诇住讗 is 讙诇讬 讜讗转讬, reveal it when you sit. Like when you sit down, what do you do when you sit down with your suit? You make sure you pick it up so it shouldn't get crumpled. With 讟诇讬转, you sit down, try to pick that thing. So that those garments were you make sure that they didn't get creased, so when you would sit down you would open it up, open. So that's like 讙讜诇住讗 is 讙诇讬 讜讗转讬. Purya, purya is a bed. Why is a bed called purya? From the words 驻专讜 讜专讘讜, 砖驻讜专讬谉 讜专讘讬谉 注诇讬讛. And that's where you multiply. 讘讗专 讝讬谞拽讗, 讘讗专 讝讬谞拽讗 was a be'er, a well, which dried up. So why is it called 讝讬谞拽讗? 讝讬谞拽讗 is 讝讛 谞拽讬. This is clean, it's empty, there's nothing there. 住讜讚专讗, 住讜讚专讗 is a sudar like like a head covering that the chachamim used to wear. Nowadays they call yarmulke, then not everyone covered their head, just the chachamim. So why is it called 住讜讚专讗? Because it's made up of the word 住讜讚 讛壮 诇讬专讗讬讜. 住讜讚专讗, sss... We were talking about chachamim, the sod, the secrets of Hashem are to those that fear him. What year did it change that that everyone started going with yarmulkes? Not long after the Gemara. In the Gemara's time already it says people wore. Rav Nachman, his mother put him on No, but like a regular everyday, every Jew Well, the 讟状讝 writes that it's now, and the Alter Rebbe paskens like the 讟状讝, that now if you don't wear, you're over on an 讗讬住讜专 讚讗讜专讬讬转讗. How's that? How's that? What does that mean? What? Because since it became a Yiddishe thing versus a goy, so if you don't wear a yarmulke, you're over on 讜讘讞讜拽讜转讬讛诐 诇讗 转诇讻讜, that's the reason the 讟状讝 gives. Why should he give a heter to sit like that? Okay, that's what he says. The 讟状讝, the 讟状讝 says that. Other mefarshim, other poskim don't say that, that's what the 讟状讝 says. The Alter Rebbe, in it's not even in Shulchan, it's not. Now they put it back, it was in the in the part that they skipped because of the censor, the censor wouldn't allow it, cuz he wrote cuz it's against the 讙讜讬诐, 讜讘讞讜拽讜转讬讛诐 诇讗 转诇讻讜, but that's what the Alter Rebbe paskens. So that was like 1400? What is it? When it no, the 讟状讝 is about, let's say, four or 500 years ago. But this is before, 讟状讝 paskens because it was already a minhag then. So since it became a minhag of Yidden and goyim don't, so if you're doing, then you're following the goyim, you're over on a 诇讗讜. So before that yet? Much before that, much before. I don't know exactly, I don't know if they know a date when it became that. What what's what made the change then? Cuz it's it brings yirat shamayim. I'm saying slowly, some 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐 wore it and then some people start copying the 转诇诪讬讚讬 讞讻诪讬诐, and then it became, so it's a Did the goyim did Did something about the goyim made the Jews do wear a yarmulke or something? There wasn't ever such a thing? No, that's in the 讙诇讜转, like we have a I don't know. I don't know. Actually,
why is it called yarmulke? 讬专讗 诪诇讻讗. Well, some say it's 讬专讗 诪诇讻讗. Some say it's just that's a word that has a meaning that's head covering, it's not Why is it mid'oraita, though? Because there's a din in Torah that if there is a special thing that goyim do and Yidden do differently, if you follow the goyim, it's an issur d'oraita, no matter what it is. 诇诪砖诇, it's not so much so much so, it says if Yidden would have shoelaces, red shoelaces, and the goyim all wore black shoelaces, you must mid'oraita wear the red shoelaces. And 注讚 讻讚讬 讻讱, if the goyim make a 讙讝讬专讛 that you should change your shoelaces to wear like the goyim, if they mean it because they want you to follow them, you have to go on mesirat nefesh, you have to rather get killed than change the shoelace. 注专拽转讗 讚诪住讗谞讗, get killed. If the goy If the goyim make a 讙讝讬专讛, but it depends why. If they make a 讙讝讬专讛 because they want to sell all the a lot of black shoelaces, that's not, that's not. But if they do it because 诇讛注讘讬专 注诇 讛讚转, because they know that you davka do it like that and they want you davka to not do your religion, you have to go on mesirat nefesh, because mid'oraita, huh? Why is it only kill them? If you could kill them, obviously do it. Like it says, kill them. If you Yeah, that's that would be good. Right? But if you can't, if you don't If you don't do this, if you don't have an Uzi, or they have the police and we don't, and they have the army, so what do we do then? Now we have a problem. So, it's likened to 注讘讜讚讛 讝专讛? It's not 注讘讜讚讛 讝专讛, it's 诇讛注讘讬专 注诇 讛讚转. Rambam says, one of the three 砖讞讬讬讘 讗讚诐 诇诪住讜专 讗转 谞驻砖讜 This is not. When is it only three? When it's stam not 诇讛注讘讬专 注诇 讛讚转, but if it's going against the religion, then there is no three, then all the whole Torah. Okay. 讗驻讚谞讜. 讗驻讚谞讜 is like our palace. Why do they call it 讗驻讚谞讜? 讗驻讬转讞讗 讚讬谉. 讚谞讜, 驻讬转讞讗 讚讚讬谉. That 讗驻讚谞讜 is a palace, on this door, to this door everyone comes. The palace of the 诪诇讱 or something, that's where everyone come to serve the 诪诇讱 or to get judged. The the city hall, that's called 讗驻讚谞讜. Zogt di Gemara vayter: 转谞讜 专讘谞谉: 砖诇讜砖讛 砖诇讜砖讛, there are three things, 讻诇 讝诪谉 砖诪讝拽讬谞讬诐, the older they get, 诪讜住讬驻讬谉 讙讘讜专讛, they become stronger. 讜讗诇讜 讛谉: 讚讙, fish, 谞讞砖, a snake, 讜讞讝讬专. What sort of fish gets strong? I guess the older they are, they're better, stronger, you know. If you mention them, they get stronger? Huh? If you mention their name? No, no, they as the older they get. No, the older they get, the stronger they get. Usually when you get older, you get weaker. Old chazir, an alter chazir is you have to stay away from him, from an alter chazir. An old dog. An old dog also, yeah. And an old nachash. Yeah, Rav Shimon ben Elazar says, the Mishnah said that there are you're not allowed to carry on 砖讘转, 专砖讜转 讛讬讞讬讚 to 专砖讜转 讛专讘讬诐, how much is it that you're over if you carry? So there's a shiur. Everything has different shiurim, different things. So dam,
blood, 讻讚讬 诇讻讞讜诇 注讬谉 讗讞转, in order to smear on one eye. Cuz the shiurim of the different things depend on what the use of it is. Certain things that in order to use it you needed a little piece, that's the shiur of issur Anything that's chashuv. Certain things that they only used it if it was a big piece, you're not chayav till you carry out a big piece. Blood, if it's enough a little bit, enough to smear one eye, that's enough. Why? Because that gave it 讞砖讬讘讜转, 砖讻谉 讻讜讞诇讬谉 诇讘专拽讬转. There's a certain sickness in the eye, 讘专拽讬转, he calls it lichtike shtar, so then to cure that, they would have to smear it with some blood. So mimela, that's already chashuv. So if you carry that amount, no, it's not what you do it for that. If you carry that Carry that simple amount, you Yeah, if you carry that, you're already chayav. You don't have to have a kezayit, a revi'it, like other things, that's Enough for your little A drop, yeah. 讜诪讗讬, and which kind of blood? 讚诪讗 讚转专谞讙讜诇讗 讚讘专讗, the blood of a wild roost... 专讘谉 砖诪注讜谉 讘谉 讙诪诇讬讗诇 讗讜诪专, Rabban Shimon ben Gamliel says a different reason, 讚诐 讻讚讬 诇讻讞讜诇 讘讜 注讬谉 讗讞转. Same thing, the shiur of blood is 讻讚讬 to enough to 讻讞讜诇 your eye, 砖讻谉 讻讜讞诇讬谉 诇讬专讜讚. 讬专讜讚 is a different type of sickness, and that's what they used to use the blood for. 讜诪讗讬 谞讬讛讜, which blood? For that they used 讚诪讗 讚讻专砖转讬谞讗, the blood of an 注讟诇祝. What's an 注讟诇祝? A bat, yeah. A bat. And a 住讬诪谞讗 to remember which one which, so he says, 讙讜讬诇讗 讙讜讬讬 讜讘专讗 诇讘专讗. The the 转专谞讙讜诇讗, the chicken is always inside. So that blood is good for the sickness of the eye that sticks in. So these two sicknesses that he mentioned, one if the eye sticks in, one if the eye sticks out. So the blood from the one that stays in, that's good for the eye that's the sickness that stays in. And the one that we said is for the one that sticks out, that's from the 讻专砖转讬谞讗, that's from the bat, which is outside. I've seen an eye that sticks it out. There's a sickness that gives an eye that something pops out and that makes you not feel so well. And there's a different sickness. I don't know what He I'll tell you the Yiddish words for it. One is called 诇讬讻讟讬拽注 砖讟讗专. 诇讬讻讟讬拽注 砖讟讗专 is the name of a sickness then, and that's the one that sticks in. And the other one is maybe cataract? 谞讗讻讘讗专砖讗驻讟. I mean this is in German, 谞讗讻讘讗专砖讗驻讟, that the peirush says, 谞讗讻讘讗专砖讗驻讟. The Rashi says here, 讟讬驻讬谉 讚拽讬谉 砖诇 诇讘谉 讛谞讜诇讚讬诐 讘注讬谉, there's certain little white like drops that look in the eye. Could be. Could be cataract. It's could be cataract, yeah. Could be cataract. A little drop on the eye, yeah, that comes out like a little if cataract. That could be cataract. And the other one, Rashi says is 诪讬讬诇讗. 诪讬讬诇讗? I don't know, 诪讬讬诇讗. In Yiddish it says 诇讬讻讟讬拽注 砖讟讗专, I don't know. 诇讬讻讟讬拽注 砖讟讗专 is when it's when it's in in in Yeah.
What was Pharaoh stricken with when he took Sarah for a while? 爪专注转. It doesn't say 爪专注转, it says a different word. 谞讙注讬诐, 爪专注转. Yeah, that's