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HALACHA, HASHKAFA AND PARENTING

Why We Stand (and Don't) for Scholars, Elders, and Rabbis

Why We Stand (and Don't) for Scholars, Elders, and Rabbis

Part of Halacha, Hashkafa and Parenting · 17:44

Examines the halachos of standing for parents, elders, and Torah scholars -- including why we don't stand for every talmid chacham, Rabbi Yochanan's view on honoring non-Jews, and the Rebbe's own practice.

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Standing for Parents, Scholars, and Artisans

We're talking about standing up before parents, ื›ื™ื‘ื•ื“ ืื‘ ื•ืื, and also before ืชืœืžื™ื“ื™ ื—ื›ืžื™ื. So the Gemara says, ื‘ืขืœื™ ืื•ืžื ื™ื•ืช ืื™ืŸ ืจืฉืื™ืŸ ืœืขืžื•ื“ ืžืคื ื™ ืชืœืžื™ื“ื™ ื—ื›ืžื™ื ื‘ืฉืขื” ืฉืขื•ืกืงื™ืŸ ื‘ืžืœืื›ื”. It says when you see a ืชืœืžื™ื“ ื—ื›ื you have to stand up, but if they're in the middle of doing a job, work, you can't take away time from your work, so you shouldn't stand up, because then you're cheating your boss if you're taking up time from working. ืคืจืขื’ื˜ ื“ื™ ื’ืžืจื ื•ืœื? We're saying you shouldn't do it, ื•ื”ืชื ืŸ, it says in a ืžืฉื ื”, ื›ืœ ื‘ืขืœื™ ืื•ืžื ื™ื•ืช ืขื•ืžื“ื™ื ื‘ืคื ื™ื”ื. This goes talks about ื‘ื™ื›ื•ืจื™ื. Goes the Mishnah goes into the whole ืืจื™ื›ื•ืช how they when they brought ื‘ื™ื›ื•ืจื™ื, how it went. So they used to from different cities gather together, people who have ื‘ื™ื›ื•ืจื™ื, and they would travel. On the way they would pass by other cities, and the people in the other cities would join them, and they made a whole parade. By the time they got to Yerushalayim, so the lashon is as they would walk through the fields, all the workers in the areas where they walk through would stop, stand up for them, ื•ืฉื•ืืœื™ืŸ ื‘ืฉืœื•ืžื, would say hello to them, ื•ืื•ืžืจื™ื ืœื”ื, and they would say to them, ืื—ื™ื ื• ืื ืฉื™ ืžืงื•ื ืคืœื•ื ื™, our brothers from this and this place, ื‘ื•ืื›ื ืœืฉืœื•ื. So they would give them kavod because they were doing a mitzvah. So

Why Not Stand for Talmidei Chachamim?

why shouldn't they stand up for the ืชืœืžื™ื“ื™ ื—ื›ืžื™ื? So lichora they should for the ืชืœืžื™ื“ื™ ื—ื›ืžื™ื also. ืืžืจ ืจื‘ื™ ื™ื•ื—ื ืŸ, the Gemara says no, ืžืคื ื™ื”ื ืขื•ืžื“ื™ื, ืžืคื ื™ ืชืœืžื™ื“ื™ ื—ื›ืžื™ื ืื™ืŸ ืขื•ืžื“ื™ื. Takeh for them yes, for ืชืœืžื™ื“ื™ ื—ื›ืžื™ื not. For them because they are doing a mitzvah, ื‘ืฉืขืช they're doing a mitzvah you stand up, and for ืชืœืžื™ื“ื™ ื—ื›ืžื™ื takeh you shouldn't. ืืžืจ Rav Yosef, Rav Yosef said, ื‘ื•ื ื•ืจืื” ื›ืžื” ื—ื‘ื™ื‘ื” ืžืฆื•ื” ื‘ืฉืขืชื”. Look here you see how important, how beloved is if you do a mitzvah and you do it in the right way, right time. ืฉื”ืจื™ ืžืคื ื™ื”ื ืขื•ืžื“ื™ื, for these people who were coming to do a ืžืฆื•ื” they would stand up, ืžืคื ื™ ืชืœืžื™ื“ื™ ื—ื›ืžื™ื ืื™ืŸ ืขื•ืžื“ื™ื, for ืชืœืžื™ื“ื™ ื—ื›ืžื™ื not. So it shows that they're more this is like more important than ืชืœืžื™ื“ื™ ื—ื›ืžื™ื. So the Gemara says it's no ืจืื™ื”, ื“ื™ืœืžื ืฉืื ื™ ื”ืชื ื›ื“ื™ ืฉืœื ืชื”ื ืžื›ืฉื™ืœืŸ ืœืขืชื™ื“ ืœื‘ื•ื. It's not for that reason, is because we're afraid if they don't get the proper respect when they come, they'll see that they're not really appreciated, so maybe next time they won't come. It's a different reason. Not because b'etzem. B'etzem you shouldn't stand up for them either. A an ืื•ืžืŸ cannot waste time from his work to do the kavod forever. But this is the yeah to could be, the Gemara says sevara, but to make sure that they come again, so you give them kavod, that's why he said it. ื–ืื’ื˜ ื“ื™ ื’ืžืจื ื•ื•ื™ื™ื˜ืขืจ ืชื ื• ืจื‘ื ืŸ, it says in a ื‘ืจื™ื™ืชื, ืื™ื–ื• ื”ื™ื ืงื™ืžื” ืฉื™ืฉ ื‘ื”

Honoring the Elderly According to Scripture

ื”ื™ื“ื•ืจ? Because the pasuk says like this, ืžืคื ื™ ืฉื™ื‘ื” ืชืงื•ื ื•ื”ื“ืจืช ืคื ื™ ื–ืงืŸ. So the ื’ืžืจื ื“ืจืฉ'ื ืก ืชืงื•ื ื•ื”ื“ืจืช go together as if it would say ืžืคื ื™ ืฉื™ื‘ื” ืชืงื•ื ื•ื”ื“ืจืช. You should stand up for a ืฉื™ื‘ื”, for an old man, and give him ื”ื™ื“ื•ืจ, make it nice. That means it's a ืงื™ืžื” ืฉื™ืฉ ื‘ื” ื”ื™ื“ื•ืจ, you should stand up in a way that's ื”ื™ื“ื•ืจ. ื”ื•ื™ ืื•ืžืจ ื–ื” ืืจื‘ืข ืืžื•ืช. It's only ืืจื‘ืข ืืžื•ืช. If the guy is standing going across the street and you see him and you'll stand up, it won't give him any kavod, it won't give him any ื”ื™ื“ื•ืจ, because no one knows why you're standing up. But if he walks by you with ืืจื‘ืข ืืžื•ืช close, then it shows. ืืžืจ ืื‘ื™ื™, Abaye said, ืœื ืืžืจืŸ, when did we say this? Only ื‘ืจื‘ื• ืฉืื™ื ื• ืžื•ื‘ื”ืง. If it's a Rebbe, but it's not his real Rebbe. ืื‘ืœ ื‘ืจื‘ื• ืžื•ื‘ื”ืง ืžืœื ืขื™ื ื™ื•. A ืจื‘ื• ืžื•ื‘ื”ืง, it's from far when you see him with your eyes, how far you can see, you have to stand up. And ืื‘ื™ื™ ืžื›ื™ ื”ื•ื” ื—ื–ื™ ืœื™ื” ืœืื•ื“ื ื™ ื“ื—ืžืจื ื“ืจื‘ ื™ื•ืกืฃ, ืื‘ื™ื™ would see not Rav Yosef, he would see the ears of the donkey of Rav Yosef coming, ื“ืืชื™, that he was coming, ื”ื•ื” ืงืื™ื, he would stand up. ืื‘ื™ื™ ื”ื•ื” ืจื›ื™ื‘ ื—ืžืจื ื•ืงืžืกื’ื™ ืื’ื•ื“ื ื“ื ื”ืจ ืกื’ื™ื. Abaye was riding a donkey and he was going on one side of the river, ื•ื™ืชื‘ื™ ืžืฉืจืฉื™ื ื•ืจื‘ื ืŸ ื‘ืื™ื“ืš ื’ื™ืกื, and Reb Mesharshia and ืจื‘ื ืŸ were sitting on the other side, which was far, it wasn't ืืจื‘ืข ืืžื•ืช. ืœื ืงืžื• ืžืงืžื™ื”, and they didn't get up. So he assumed that they saw him, but it wasn't ืืจื‘ืข ืืžื•ืช, but they didn't stand up. ืืžืจ ืœื”ื•, so he said to them, ื•ืœืื• ืจื‘ ืžื•ื‘ื”ืง ืื ื? Am I not your ืจื‘ ืžื•ื‘ื”ืง? So to me you have to stand up even if I'm further than ืืจื‘ืข ืืžื•ืช. ืืžืจื• ืœื™ื”, they said, ืœืื• ืื“ืขืชื™ืŸ. We didn't realize pashut, we were busy, we were involved, we didn't see that you're coming, not because we didn't want to stand up. ื–ืื’ื˜ ื“ื™ ื’ืžืจื ื•ื•ื™ื™ื˜ืขืจ ืจื‘ื™ ื™ื•ื—ื ืŸ ื”ื•ื” ืงืื™ื ืžืงืžื™ ืกื‘ื™ ื“ืืจืžืื™. He

Rabbi Yochananโ€™s View on Honoring Nonโ€‘Jews

would stand up even for a goy, an old person, because the Gemara said before when it says ืžืคื ื™ ืฉื™ื‘ื” ืชืงื•ื, ืฉื™ื‘ื” means an old person, so the ื’ืžืจื ื”ื•ื” ืืžื™ื ื ืืคื™ืœื• ืžืคื ื™ ื–ืงืŸ ืืฉืžืื™, even an ืืฉืžืื™, a bad goy, old as long as he's old. And the Gemara said not, but he held that he would stand up even ืžืคื ื™ ื–ืงืŸ ืืจืžืื”. ืืจืžืื” means a goy. A goyisher, as long as he was old he would stand up. ืืžืจ, he said, what's the reason? ื›ืžื” ื”ืจืคืชืงื™ ืขื“ื• ืขืœื™ื™ื”ื• ื“ื”ื ื™. An old man has a lot of experience in life, a lot of things happened to him, he saw a lot of miracles in life, so a lot of things happened to him, so he deserves to give him some some kavod. You know. ืจื‘ื ืžืงื™ื ืœื ืงืื™ื. Rava would not stand up How old were these, how old were these people? The old people? Yeah, probably those days? 60 years old. Oh la la. Rava would stand up, what does it say, what does it say in Pirkei Avot? A hundred, a hundred years is 50? Is it ืฉื‘ืขื™ื ืฉืžื•ื ื™ื ืœื’ื‘ื•ืจื”. ืฉืฉื™ื ืœืฉื™ื‘ื”, what does it say? ืฉืฉื™ื ืœืฉื™ื‘ื”? ืฉืฉื™ื, what does it say there? ืฉืฉื™ื ื–ืงื ื”, and what's ืœืฉื™ื‘ื”? ืฉื‘ืขื™ื ืœืฉื™ื‘ื”. That's what it says. ืฉืžื•ื ื™ื ืœื’ื‘ื•ืจื”. ืฉืžื•ื ื™ื ืœื’ื‘ื•ืจื”, but the ืฉื™ื‘ื” where does it say ืฉื™ื‘ื”, that's what I'm looking for. ืฉืฉื™ื ืœื–ืงื ื”. A minute. Yeah, look here: ื—ืžืฉื™ื ืœืขืฆื”, ืฉืฉื™ื ืœื–ืงื ื”, ื•ืฉื‘ืขื™ื ืœืฉื™ื‘ื”. So it's ืฉื‘ืขื™ื ืœืฉื™ื‘ื”, ืฉื‘ืขื™ื, 70. Do you have the different girsaot in the, I think it's a difference, yeah. Cuz the one is ืœืฉื™ื‘ื” ื•ืœื–ืงื ื”, I think it's mixed up. It's different. So he says, so Rabbi Yochanan would stand up. ืจื‘ื, ืžืงื ืœื ืงืื™ื. Rava would not stand up, but ื”ื™ื“ื•ืจ ืขื‘ื™ื“ ืœื”ื•. He would do some hidur, he would give him like, like a, yeah, an acknowledgment, make a, shake his head, stand up a little bit. ืื‘ื™ื™ ื™ื”ื™ื‘ ื™ื“ื™ื” ืœืกื‘ื. Abaye when he'd see an old man walking he would give him his hand to help him walk. ืจื‘ื ืžืฉื“ืจ ืฉืœื™ื—ื. Rava himself wouldn't do it, but he would send somebody to do it. And ืจื‘ ื ื—ืžืŸ ืžืฉื“ืจ ื’ื–ื™ืจื™. Rav Nachman, he had a lot of, like, people, servants that would serve him because he was in the family of the ื ืฉื™ื, of the ื‘ื™ืช ื“ื™ืŸ, so he would send them. And ืืžืจ, he said: ืื™ ืœืื•, why not himself? Because ืื™ ืœืื•, ืื™ ืœืื• ืชื•ืจื”, ื›ืžื” ื ื—ืžืŸ ื‘ืจ ืื‘ื ืื™ื›ื ื‘ืฉื•ืงื? Really I'm like everybody. Why am I special? Because I learned Torah. So I can't give up my kavod for the Torah, it's not me, it's the Torah. I should go to some a goy and give him his hand? So at least he would send a shaliach. Why is it disrespect to the Torah? Uh? Why would helping a goy is disrespecting to the Torah? For a chashuv person. Yeah, a chashuv person should go The Rebbe used to go, the Rebbe used to go Forget. Forget that. He said a story that he passed passed by once, he always passed by I think Kaila Gurary, I think it was a Kaila lives in Lake, no, Haydn and Kaila in Crown Heights. The Rebbe would go home, he, and he would stop there, the Rebbe would shake his head to the people. And then once they saw a policeman, a goy policeman, the Rebbe stopped there for a second and spoke to him. And he said a few words. Later they asked him, \"Always you just shake your head, and then you said words.\" So he

The Rebbe Refuses to Bow to a Gentile

said, \"In my life I never bowed my head to a goy. I'm not going to bow my head to a goy.\" So at least to show him something, so, something. So practically it's a mitzvah to get up for an old goy? For an old, yeah, if he comes in, if it's an old person, you stand up, you get up, yeah. They say on on, which rav was it? One of the Lubavitcher rabbanim, R' Isser Krapilovitch I think, one of the rabbanim, Maharash chasidim, I mean he was a big rav. So when he, he was a rav in a big shul, he was in a city, but he had like a balebatishe shul, it wasn't like a chasidishe shtiebel. When he would get an aliyah, from he stood up front, to get an aliyah, he would always go to his aliyah with his tallit over his head. Always covered his tallit and he walked to the bimah. And he became 70, he stopped doing it. So they asked him, \"ื‘ืชื—ื™ืœื” ืžืื™ ืงืกื‘ืจ? What was this for?\" So he says the minhag in the balebatishe shul when the rav walks by, all the people who are there stand up. I couldn't take it, standing up for me, what. So I couldn't look at it, so I covered it. But when it came to 70 it says, \"ืฉื‘ืขื™ื ืœืฉื™ื‘ื”,\" and by ืฉื™ื‘ื” the Torah says that by ืฉื™ื‘ื” it talking about even a goy, right? So said, \"Now then I didn't care so I stopped.\" That's a chasidishe kuk. Instead of, you know, asking for kavod, cuz some people do forget. Someone told me, I was, he was by a chassunah and there was this guy that was going to get a berachah, a rav, and, a non-Lubavitcher, and no, he told him exactly how to call him up. And when they called him up, as he heard that he's being called up, he went and walked out. They asked him what happened? \"You forgot to mention I'm also a dayan.\" So I said, \"You're joking?\" \"No, he just it's there.\" Yaakov Karff told me who it was. The ื—ืชื•ื ื” of his, he has a cousin you know the one that's ื™ืชื•ื or whatever, so he came in. And since he did it ื‘ืจื‘ื™ื I believe it's not lashon hara, cuz by him it's ื›ื‘ื•ื“ ื”ืจื‘ื ื•ืช. I didn't say a name anyway, I can tell you his name, Ralbag. So he said, \"I'm a ื“ื™ื™ืŸ also and you didn't mention ื“ื™ื™ืŸ.\" It's like the Rebbe told the story with Leizer Silver with, and Canada too you know. ืคืฉื•ื˜ ื ื’ืขืœืขื›ื˜ืขืจ. Leitzanim. ื“ืืก ืื™ื– ื•ื•ื™ ื–ื™ื™ ื–ืขื ืขืŸ. When they, ah? Mishloach Manot Mishloach Manot Oh, he has with other things he gives So they when the, when the, is that, the Rebbe told the story in the farbrengen, he didn't say his name, that once Leizer Silver was going in a car, and the guy was speeding, the driver, so a cop stopped him. So, a cop stopped him, so the driver says to the cop, \"You know who I have in the car? The chief rabbi of the United States.\" Cuz he's the head, nasi of the Agudat Harabbanim, chief rabbi of United States, and he's listening and he sticks, \"And Canada, too!\" Kavod haTorah. So, so, you get And he got a ticket? That I don't know. That's it. And Canada, too. What, Canadian Cuz cuz he that Agudat Harabbanim is called Agudat Harabbanim D'Arzot HaBrit VeKanada. Canada. So, when he talk When he the Chief Rabbi of the United States, and Canada, too! There was a used to be a name Ralbag calls himself that. Not allowed to use the name to get a benefit for himself. Huh? Not allowed to use kavod haTorah. Lo aleinu, you got a ticket. Right, it says No, it says you're not allowed to use kavod haTorah. If a person is a talmid chacham, he's not allowed to say ืชืœืžื™ื“ ื—ื›ื ืื ื™ ื›ื“ื™ you should get some benefits. You're not allowed to, cuz then you're using the Torah. You're not allowed to use Torah. Yeah, but here it's to to kiddush Hashem for the for the police officer. What is it, Rav Nachman bar Abba smack? Huh? ืืžืจื™ ืœื” ืชื•ืจื, ื›ืžืืŸ ื“ืจื‘ ื ื—ืžืŸ ื‘ืจ When I talk about the Tannaim, the Tannaim you see asked for kavod. When when before we learned they didn't stand up for him, he said ta'anot. The Tannaim,

Kavod HaTorah: Proper Use and Misuse

when they wanted kavod haTorah, they meant kavod haTorah. Right, for the Torah. It's mamash the Torah. To them, there was no They weren't a metziut for themselves. They takeh was the Torah. The best re'ayah nowadays, it's ืœืื• ื“ื•ื•ืงื ื›ื‘ื•ื“ ื”ืชื•ืจื”, because because some of these people who ask for kavod haTorah, it's only when they're insulted, but if they don't give somebody else ื›ื‘ื•ื“ ื”ืชื•ืจื”, that they don't say. But but if it's for the Torah, should be me or you, or everybody. Anybody who is a talmid chacham, I should care and I should be upset if you don't give him kavod. No, that you're not upset, if you don't give me kavod. That shows that it's a little bit mixed in a little bit of gaavah. You read in this, in the ื“ืณ ื—ืœืคื™ื, what Elchanan did? Elchanan Althaus? Which one? What? When his son came to, for the kiddush, to tell him to prepare something? No, this This part. The same thing happened with his brother. What happened was, there was a guy he was came to a shul, and he heard it's a big rav is giving a drasha, pilpul, a real ืกื ืื‘ื™ืฉืขืจ ืจื‘. So, before the guy walked in, he walks around He knew the guy by He didn't say it. Oh, he grabbed He had He asked first, with the sefer. No, he asked, \"Is there a Noda BiYehuda in the shul?\" The gabbai went to look and couldn't find a Noda BiYehuda. So, okay. So, when the guy got up to speak, and he gave up the gantsa chiddush, he said, so, he screams from far, \"The Noda BiYehuda says the opposite!\" So, why Why did he ask? Because if if there would be one, the guy would say, \"Let's find the sefer.\" So, he made sure there's no Noda BiYehuda there. The guy stood there And the guy stood there, the got a ื’ืื ืฆืข ืžื™ืื•ืก ืžืขื ื˜ืฉ. Good story. And this So this happened to his brother, also. Pinye Althaus, his brother was Pinye Althaus, was in Eretz Yisrael. Does it write in there? No, no, doesn't write there. Just cuz this story I I read here, but I I heard before. Pinye Althaus was once by a chassan. And the chassan got up, a real ืกื ืื‘ื™ืฉืข guy got up, with a real, you know, a real, fat gaavah. So, he set up a chiddush, you know, what do you say, a maamar, this. So, he started screaming at him, \"Ha! The Rambam says the opposite!\" Screaming at him, \"The Rambam is the opposite!\" He said, he became embarrassed, this that, by a chassan, and couldn't do anything. The next day or two, he happened to be sitting by the house of Rabbi Yaakov Landau, the rav of Bnei Brak. And while he's sitting there, he sees from far the chassan v'challah coming to the rav to visit. Oy vey! It's Oy vey! They're gonna start. It happened to be in the Rambam, yeah? Yeah. So as the chassan walks in, he walks up to him, \"I'm sorry, sorry. I looked it up. The Rambam doesn't say that. I made a mistake.\" That's a good story, too. And that's his brother. They were both Him I didn't know, but but Pinye Althaus I knew. He was, taake, a ื‘ืจื™ื™ื˜ืขืจ ื—ื‘ืจืณื”ึพืžืืŸ. He would could do this. I remember. Sure. He was in my house in Cleveland, too. Fully by the Crown Heights things. Oh, that's this one. And both brothers had the same tendency. The same tendency. They couldn't stand He was not as such a big like not a big maskil or or a big oved, both or not, but devoted themselves to the Rebbe 100%, and they had a chasidishe beindel in them. They had a a chasidishe thing in them. He was a single guy, and when and when and when Rabbi Chatzkel Abramsky came to Lubavitch to give a shiur, who? Rabbi Chatzkel Abramsky, he was later ืจืืฉ ื™ืฉื™ื‘ื” in in in nu, not Chevron. Chevron is Chatzkel Sarna. Slabodka, no? No, ื—ืก No, he was a big talmid chacham. He wrote a ืกืคืจ Chazon Yechezkel on Tosefta, happens to be a very good sefer. He just once asked the Chazon Ish, \"How come you are known as the Chazon Ish, I'm known as Chatzkel Abramsky? How come I'm not known as the Chazon Yechezkel?\" Said, \"Dear\" Anyway, but where is it a shiur? Not in Chevron. Whatever. He was a big So, they wanted It was young. They were thinking of taking him ืจืืฉ ื™ืฉื™ื‘ื” in Lubavitch. So, ื’ื ื‘ืณื–ืฉืข ื“ื™ ืžืขืฉื” in Shach? In Shach? He is ื ื™ืฉื˜ ื’ืขืงื•ืžืขืŸ ืฆื• ื–ืื’ืŸ ืงื™ื™ืŸ ืฉื™ืขื•ืจ, but he came and gave a shiur. But they say, what happened was, he started his shiur, all right, maybe not the beginning, in the middle, ื”ืื˜ ื–ื™ืš ื’ืขื ื•ืžืขืŸ ืฆื•ื ืจืžื‘ืดื. ืžืขืจ ืคืขืœื˜ ื ื™ืฉื˜! ืจืขื“ืŸ ืื–ื•ื™ in Lubavitch! ื”ืื˜ ืžืขืŸ ืื™ื ื’ืขืงืื ื˜ ื’ืขื”ืขืจื˜? There was one bachur that had him gefregt everything. Later I saw an article that he wrote, that Chatzkel Abramsky wrote, he was impressed. Yeah? Later he came looking who's that bachur. It was Rabbi Berel Plotkin. ื‘ืจื™ืกืงืขืจ ืจื‘ and But at all, why did they do it? The ืคืจื™ืขืจื“ื™ืงืขืจ ืจื‘ื™ was very upset that That's for who? at the bachur. Really? A guy who is a gadol in the velt that he should come and make him a bed. He was good with Lubavitch, though? Yeah, yeah, later he worked with the Frierdiker Rebbe. Frierdiker was upset. ืคื ื™ืžื™ื•ืช I don't know. ืคื ื™ืžื™ื•ืช because he was happy. The rest is commentary. That's That's not my commentary. I heard a commentary, it's not my own. ื ืขืžืขืŸ ืฆื•ื ืจืžื‘\"ื... ืฉืคืจืืš... ืคืฉื•ื˜'ืข ืฉืคืจืืš. But the way, asking for kavod haTorah, that's I once heard I was there with one of the meshulachim once and somebody said something to some guy. Oh, did he get angry! He said, \"chutzpah, you speak to me like that? When I was a bochur, a kid, I used to learn with ื‘ืขืœื™ ื‘ืชื™ื, ืขื ื”ืืจืฆื™ื like you, and I used to teach.\" Very kavod haTorah is very important because it is kavod, haTorah's kavod. Okay, let's learn a little bit more, just two more minutes.

Standing for Oneโ€™s Rabbi Only Twice Daily

ืืžืจ ืจื‘ื™ ืื‘ื ืืžืจ ืจื‘ื™ ื™ื ืื™. Rabbi Abba said in the name of Rabbi Yanai: ืื™ืŸ ืชืœืžื™ื“ ื—ื›ื ืจืฉืื™ ืœืขืžื•ื“ ืžืคื ื™ ืจื‘ื• ืืœื ืฉื—ืจื™ืช ื•ืขืจื‘ื™ืช. You can only stand up for your Rebbe twice a day. Must be if you're in sitting in yeshiva and your Rebbe, he walks in, he walks out, you're going to stand every time you're going to stand up? Twice a day, morning and evening. Why? ื›ื“ื™ ืฉืœื ื™ื”ื ื›ื‘ื•ื“ื• ืžืจื•ื‘ื” ืžื›ื‘ื•ื“ ืฉืžื™ื. How much kavod do you give the Eibershter? Mainly it's in the morning, Shema, or even davenen, tefillin, it's it's Shacharit and Mincha. Maariv is a reshut. So, the Eibershter you give him, you give him more kavod? That he's obligated to, but he can, but he has reshut to. Some say there's a machloket here. Some say you're not allowed to. Why? Since you're going If you do it, you're going to be giving kavod, more kavod to the Eibershter, more than the Eibershter, and you shouldn't, that's the thing. ืืžืจ ืจื‘ ืืœืขื–ืจ: ื›ืœ ืชืœืžื™ื“ ื—ื›ื ืฉืื™ืŸ ืขื•ืžื“ ืžืคื ื™ ืจื‘ื•, ื ืงืจื ืจืฉืข. A talmid chacham doesn't stand up for his Rebbe is called a ืจืฉืข, ื•ืื™ื ื• ืžืืจื™ืš ื™ืžื™ื, won't live long, ื•ืชืœืžื•ื“ื• ืžืฉืชื›ื—, will forget his learning. ืฉื ืืžืจ, it says like this, ื•ื˜ื•ื‘ ืœื ื™ื”ื™ื” ืœืจืฉืข, good won't be to the ืจืฉืข, ื•ืœื ื™ืืจื™ืš ื™ืžื™ื ื›ืฆืœ ืืฉืจ ืื™ื ื ื• ื™ืจื ืžืœืคื ื™ ืืœื”ื™ื, because he doesn't afraid afraid of Hashem'. Now, the word ื˜ื•ื‘ goes on Torah, Rashi says, ื›ื™ ืื™ืŸ ื˜ื•ื‘ ืืœื ืชื•ืจื”. So, that since it Torah means What we're learning out from here, what does it mean? Because it So, when it says ื•ื˜ื•ื‘ ืœื ื™ื”ื™ื”, that means he's going to lose his ื˜ื•ื‘, he's going to lose his Torah. ื•ืœื ื™ืืจื™ืš ื™ืžื™ื, won't be ื™ืืจื™ืš ื™ืžื™ื. And the reason is because he doesn't have ื™ืจืื ืžืœืคื ื™ ืืœื”ื™ื. What does it mean doesn't have yirah? ืžื•ืจื ื–ื• ืื™ื ื™ ื™ื•ื“ืข ืžื”ื•. What do you mean he doesn't have yirah? ื›ืฉื”ื•ื ืื•ืžืจ ืชืงื•ื ื•ื™ืจืืช, it says by that ืžืคื ื™ ืฉื™ื‘ื” ืชืงื•ื ื•ื™ืจืืช ืžืืœืงื™ืš, ื”ื•ื™ ืื•ืžืจ ืžื•ืจื ื–ื• ืงื™ืžื”, that's standing up. So, if a talmid chacham doesn't stand up in front of his Rebbe, will get all this Rachmana litzlan. ื•ืžืกื™ื™ืžื™ ื‘ื˜ื•ื‘. ื”ื? It's better to be a talmid chacham and do the right thing. Yishar koach.

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