How to Properly Visit Someone Who's Sick
How to Properly Visit Someone Who's Sick
Part of Halacha, Hashkafa and Parenting · 24:44
Explores the deeper meaning of comforting the sick, why Rabbi Yosef forgot his learning during an illness, and the halachic guidelines for how long a visitor should stay.
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How do we know that ืืฉื feeds the sick person? ืฉื ืืืจ it says, ืืฉื ืืกืขืื ื ืขื ืขืจืฉ ืืื. Now, ืืกืขืื ื could have a few ืคืฉืืื. Now, one ืคืฉื is ืืฉืื ืกืขืืื. The ืกืขืืื took up. The ืกืขืืื, there's one ืคืฉื is to hold him, to me to to to support him. But ืกืขื also means ืืฉืื ืกืขืืื. ืกืขืืื So, ืืฉื feeds, gives a ืกืขืืื ืขื ืขืจืฉ ืืื on the bed of a person who's sick. ืขืจืฉ ืขืจืฉ Yeah, ืขืจืฉ, ืื ืืฉืืื ืืคืืช ืืืืื, and changed, turned over his whole place where he's sleeping. ืืฉื turned over in his sickness, which means He helped him, He made him healthy. But how did that start off? ืืฉื ืืกืขืื ื. So, it gives a ืกืขืืื. ืืืจ ืจื- ืืืจ ืจืืื ืืืจ ืจื, ืจื says somewhere else, ืื ืืื ืฉืืฉืืื ื ืฉืจืืื ืืืขืื ืืืืชื ืฉื ืืืื? How do you know that the ืฉืืื ื is there on top of the bed Yeah. of the sick person? ืฉื ืืืจ it says, ืืฉื ืืกืขืื ื ืขื ืขืจืฉ ืืื. ืืฉื helps him, and here we're talking helps him on the bed of the sick, so ืืฉื is there. And ืกืขืื ื, that's it means a ืกืขื. ืกืขื means like someone has like a pillow, holds up your head. ืืฉื holds up his head. That means ืืฉื is there at the head of the bed. ืชื ืื ื ืื ืืื, it says in a ืืจืืืชื, ืื ืื ืก ืืืงืจ ืืช ืืืืื, if someone comes in to visit the sick, ืื ืืฉื ืื ืขื ืืื ืืื, don't sit on a bed, ืืื ืขื ืืื ืืกื, kiss now on a chair, ืืื ืขื ืืื ืกืคืกื, nor on a bench, ืืื ืืชืขืืฃ ืืืืฉื ืขื ืืื ืงืจืงืข. Now where are we? You cover yourself and sit on the ground. You've got to sit ืืคื ื ืฉืืฉืืื ื ืฉืจืืื ืืืขืื ืืืืชื ืฉื ืืืื. If you're going to sit on the bed you'll be sitting higher. Sitting on a chair you'll be higher than the bed. So anything that you're doing higher you'll be above the ืฉืืื ื. To a lower chair is alright. You got to, a lower chair or something like that. Like the ground. Now we don't sit on a lower chair. We sit on a regular chair. I mean most chairs when you go to the hospital are usually lower anyway than the hospital bed. Than the bed, yeah, but still you're sticking up. If you're sitting on a chair your head is up, so the bed is near, your head is near. If you sit on the floor it's a different story. Yeah, but what do we do in the world now? No, we sit on a regular chair. I have to leave, Rabbi. My grandson come to the airport. And you have to pick him up? Yeah. Came early? No, he's supposed to come 5:00, but it was 1 hour late. Late, everything is late now. I'll daven at home today. Yeah, go ahead, bye. So we'll learn ืืืืจืืชื. Yeah, okay. ืฉื ืืืจ, it says, ืืฉื ืืกืขืื ื ืขื ืขืจืฉ ืืื. Yeah. It says ืืฉื This is ืกืขื means He holds up the head, so ืืืืื ืืฉื is on top of the bed. I can, but I can't. It's very embarrassing, isn't it? It's embarrassing. Not for me. You can listen over there because It's embarrassing for you, I understand. Yeah. For everybody else. ืืืื ืื ืืืจื ืืืืืืขืจ, ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืจ ืจื, ืจืื said in the name of ืจื, ืืื ืืืชืื,
what is the ืคืฉื of the ืคืกืืง where it says, ืืืชื ืื ืืื? ืืฉื said to ืืืืงืื, you man, that's a expression ืืืืงืื kept on calling you ืื ืืื, ืขืฉื ืื ืืื ืืืื. Make yourself ืืืื with which you go to ืืืืช. When a person goes on ืืืืช, goes out to different places, these are ืืืื you take along. What did it mean? ืื ื ืจ, ืืงืืจื, it's a candle, and a plate, ืืฉืืื, and a like a tablecloth or something that you could put your food on. Okay. So, he ืืจืฉ. So, whenever you go you have to take that along. And he ืืจืฉ another thing. It says, ืืืืืกืจ ืื, ash- You have a ืืืืจ on this. ืฉืืืื, ืืื, ืืืกื, ืกืคืกื, ืื ืืื ื. Says that ืืฉื said that you're going to go away and you're going to get the ืงืืืืช that the curse is that you'll be ืืืืกืจ ืื. You'll be missing everything. ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืจ ืจื, ืืื ื ืจ ืืืื ืฉืืืื. When it says you'll be missing everything, goes on a candle and on a table. Table is to eat and a candle is to learn, to see what you're eating and to be able to learn to. Yeah? Okay. ืจื ืืกืื ืืืจ, ืจื ืืกืื says, ืืื ืืฉื. What's the ืคืฉื you're missing everything? You don't have a wife. ืจื ืฉืฉืช ืืืจ, ืืื ืฉืืฉ. You don't have the sun. ืจื ื ืืื ืืืจ, ืืื ืืขื. If you don't have ืืขืช, oh if you don't have ืืขืช, that's it. ืชื ื, we learned, ืืื ืืื ืืืื ืฉืืื, a different ืคืฉื. If you don't have salt, you don't have oil. And ืืืจ ืืืื, ืืืื said, And you don't or or if you don't have salt, then you don't have Yeah no, if you don't have salt, you don't have oil, then you have nothing, you're missing everything, because anything food you'll eat will miss a taste 'cause it doesn't have salt and the and the oil adds to it.
ืืืจ ืืืื, ืืืื said ื ืงืืืื ื, we know, ืืื ืขื ื ืืื ืืืขื, person, the real poor person if he doesn't have ืืขืช, that fits to what ืจื ื ืืื said before that even he says you're going to be missing everything, so he says he doesn't have ืืขืช, why? Because that's the real poverty if you don't have ืืขืช. ืืืขืจืื ืืืจื, in ืืจืฅ ืืฉืจืื they said this is a ืืืืจื, ืืื ืืื ืืืื ืืื, if this is in him, if a person has this, he has everything. What's this? ืืขืช. ืืื ืื ืืื, if he doesn't have this, ืื ืืื? What does he have? If you don't have this, you can have a million things, it's not called that you have. Another thing. So what is, what would you call ืืขืช in this case? Is it not ืกืชื knowledge? It's it's internalisation of the of the things that you do learn or the... It's a connection. ืขื ืืจื ืืืืจื, so why do we say ืืชื ืืื ื, why do we say ืืชื ืืื ื? By ืืืืื, by ืืชื ืืื ื ืืืื ืืขืช, because ืื ืืื ืืขืช, ืืืืื ืื ืืื? How do we distinguish? So ืืขืช is to understand the difference between good and bad, the difference between, you gotta have ืฉืื to... To have ืืืืจื clearly. Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. Then he continued and he said ืืื ืงื ื ืื ืืกืจ? If you're ืงืื ื, if you acquired this ืืขืช, you're not missing anything. ืืื ืื ืงื ื, ืืื ืงื ื? If you didn't ืงื ื the ืืขืช, then what did you have? You have nothing. ืืืื ืื ืืืจื ืืืืืืขืจ, ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืืกื ืืจื ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืื ืืจ ืืื, ืจืื ืืืืกื ืืจื saying in the name of ืจืื ืืืื ืืจ ืืื. Can not ืงืื ื anything if he doesn't have ืืขืช? No, that's ืงืื ื objects, here we're talking about ืงืื ื ืืขืช. ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืืกื ืืจื ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืื ืืจ ืืื, ืจืื ืืืืกื ืืจื said in the name of ืจืื ืืืื ืืจ ืืื,
ืืื ืืืืื ืขืืื ืืืืื, a sick person doesn't get up from his sickness ืขื ืฉืืืืืื ืื ืขื ืื ืขืืื ืืชืื, till they forgive him on all his ืขืืืจืืช. In other words, the only time he gets up if ืืฉื forgives him. ืฉื ืืืจ it says, ืืกืืื ืืื ืขืื ืืื, ืืจืืคื ืืื ืชืืืืืืื. He forgives you all your ืขืืืจืืช and he cures you from all your sickness, so we see one is dependent on the other. ืจื ืืื ืื ื ืืืจ, ืจื ืืื ืื ื said ืืืืจ ืืืื ืขืืืืื, not only that, you're sick and you get cured, you become young again. ืฉื ืืืจ it says, ืจืืคืฉ ืืฉืจื ืื ืืขืจ ืืฉืื ืืืื ืขืืืืื. Now what does ืจืืคืฉ mean? ืจืื, it means, ืจื, it usually means dampness, mud. Oh, ืฉืืื ืขืืืื. ืฉืืื ืขืืืื. ืคืฉ is from the word to add, pushing. So he says ืจืืคืฉ, if you're in the mud, you're all the way down, and ืคืฉ, you get more, what will happen? ืืฉืื ืืืื ืขืืืืื, you will come back to the age of your being an ืขืื, which means young. What did it mean again? I'm sorry. ืจืืคืฉ is made up of two words. What? ืจืื, ืคืฉ. ืจืื means mud. Mud. And ืคืฉ means to to add, that through, it's like ืืชืจืื ืืืจ ืื ืืืืฉื. So if you're sick and then you get up, you get out of your mud. So then, what happens is, you gain. What do you gain? The ืคืกืืง says, ืืฉืื ืืืื ืขืืืืื, you will come back to your young age. So use mud to get well. Okay, fine. Then he ืืืืืฉื, ืื ืืฉืืื ืืคืืช ืืืืื, it says, ืืฉื turns around your your bed when you're sick, what does he mean?
ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืกืฃ, ืืืืจ ืฉืืฉืื ืชืืืืื, it means that you forget your learning. If a person is sick, you forget your learning. Wow. 'Cause he ืืืืืฉื here, ืืืื ืขืืืืื, ืขืืืืื means an ืขืื is a young man, ืขืื also comes from the word ืืขืื. ืืขืื, which means cover and concealment, your learning gets concealed. It would be like if you forget your learning, it's like you're sick? No, it says if you're sick, you can forget your learning. Now the ืืืจื tells stories, ืจืื ืืืกืฃ ืืืฉ, that's the story of ืจืื ืืืกืฃ, ืจืื ืืืกืฃ got sick, ืืืขืงืจ ืืื ืชืืืืืื, he forgot all his learning. ืืืืจืื ืืืื ืงืืื, ืืืื brought it back to him. As they were learning after he became healthy again, ืืืื would remind him. ืืืื ื, that's the ืคืฉื, ืืืื ืืืืชื ืืืจืื ื, in many places in the ืืืจื it says, ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืกืฃ, ืื ืฉืืืข ืื, a certain ืืื ืจืื ืืืกืฃ said, I didn't hear it, ืื ืฉืืืข ืื ืื ืืืืชื, I didn't hear it. ืืืจ ืืื ืืืื, so ืืืื said, ืืช ืืืจืช ืื, you told this to us, ืืืื ืืชื ืืชื ืืืจืช ืื, and from this and this ืืจืืืชื or this and this ืืฉื ื you learned it from. So ืืืื helped him get his learning back. And you asked the other day, was ืจืื ืืืกืฃ blind from birth, or was he... I don't think he was... someone asked me, I don't think he was blind from birth, he became blind. All right. No, yeah, I don't think that. Did he get sick from being blind? I mean, or being I mean, got blind when he was sick? I don't know, I don't know. Could be, could be, yeah. Maybe it's possibly that it says someplace, I'm not familiar with it. ืืืื ืื ืืืจื ืืืืืืขืจ:
ืจืื ืืื ืืืืจ ืชืืช ืขืฉืจื ืืคื ืืืื. Rebbe learned each ืืืื in 13 ways, 13 ืคืฉืืื, 13 ืืืืืจืื. ืืืืจืื ืืจืื ืืืื ืฉืืขื ืื ืืื. So he taught ืจืื ืืืื only seven of those. ืืกืืฃ ืืืฉ ืจืื. Later, Rebbe got sick, he forgot all 13. ืืืืจืื ืจืื ืืืื ืงืืื ืื ืื ืฉืืขื ืืคื ืืืืืจืื. So these seven that he had taught ืจืื ืืืื, ืจืื ืืืื taught it back to him. ืืฉืชื ืืืื ืืื. The other six, because there were 13, and he only remembered seven, only heard seven, so the other six were lost. ืืื ืืืื ืงืืฆืจื, there was this guy there. ืงืืฆืจื is a guy who works as a launder man. ืืืื ืฉืืืข ืืื ืืจืื ืื ืืื ืืจืืก ืืืื, he happened to hear when Rebbe was learning the 13 ways to himself. He happened to overhear it. ืืื ืจืื ืืืื ืืืจ ืืชืืื ืงืื ืงืืฆืจื, came ืจืื ืืืื, went to this guy, asked him to teach him the other six, because he didn't know the other six, ืืืชื ืืืืจืื ืื ืงืื ืจืื, and then he went back to Rebbe and taught him the other six also. ืื ืืื ืืื ืืื ืจืื ืืืืื ืงืืฆืจื, so when Rebbe saw this guy, ืืืจ ืืื ืจืื, Rebbe said: ืืชื ืขืฉืืช ืืืชื ืืืช ืืืื, you made me and ืจืื ืืืื. In other words, you are the one Why made? So ืจืฉืดื says, because it says ืื ืืืืื ืืช ืื ืืืืจื ืชืืจื ืืืืื ืืืื, if you learn teach someone ืชืืจื, it's like you gave birth to him, you made him. So that's what he's saying, you made It says you made me and ืจืื ืืืื, because you taught us ืชืืจื. ืืืื ืืืืจื, some say this is what he said, ืืื ืืืจ ืืื, this is what he said to him: ืืชื ืขืฉืืช ืืช ืืืื ืืืืื ืขืฉื ืืืชื. He didn't say, you made me and ืจืื ืืืื. You made ืจืื ืืืื, and ืจืื ืืืื made me, because he didn't teach directly. The first seven, ืจืื ืืืื taught him. The other six, he taught to ืจืื ืืืื, and ืจืื ืืืื taught him. So he says, you made ืจืื ืืืื, and ืจืื ืืืื made me. Is that a ืงืืฆืจ, like like short? ืงืืฆืจื has a different here, it's Maybe there's some connection, I don't know why. Yeah. ืืืื ืื ืืืจื ืืืืืืขืจ: ืืืืจ ืจืื ืืืืกื ืืจื ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืื ืืจ ืืื, ืจืื ืืืืกื ืืจื said in the name of ืจืื ืืืื ืืจ ืืื: ืืืื ื ืก ืฉื ืขืฉื ืืืืื ืืืชืจ ืื ืก ืฉื ืขืฉื ืืื ื ืื ืืืฉืื ืืขืืจืื. The ื ืก that ืืฉื does to a sick person is greater than the ื ืก that ืืฉื did to ืื ื ืื ืืืฉืื ืืขืืจืื. What was the ื ืก there? ื ืืืืื ืฆืจ threw them into the fire, and they were saved. This is a bigger ื ืก, why? ืืืืื ืื ื ืื ืืืฉืื ืืขืืจืื, ืืฉ ืฉื ืืืืื. They threw them into a fire. Who made the fire? A human being made a fire. ืืื ืืืืืื ืืืืืชื, anybody wants could extinguish it. So ืืืืงืข, no one extinguished it, the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ did it, but it's something that even another person could do it. ืืื ืื ืฉื ืืืื, ืืฉ ืฉื ืฉืืื ืืื. But when a ืืืื is sick and he has fever, that heat, that fire doesn't come from human being. ืื ืืืื ืืืืืชื? Who could extinguish it? It's a bigger ื ืก, something that people can't extinguish, and the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ extinguished it. Interesting. ืืืืจ ืจืื ืืืืกื ืืจื ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืื ืืจ ืืื, another thing ืจืื ืืืืกื ืืจื said in the name of ืจืื ืืืื ืืจ ืืื, ืืืืจื ืื, some say, ืืืจ ืจืื ืืืืฉืข ืื ืืื, ืจืื ืืืืฉืข ืื ืืื said this. What's medicine? What's medicine when you don't get sick? What is what's medicine? ื ืก. It's a ื ืก. It's also a ื ืก. A ื ืก that the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ does. It's it's it's a ื ืก ืืืืืฉ ืืืืข. We say with the right ืฉืื, you can whether it's a doctor, your own Why is every medicine a ื ืก? It's not a ื ืก. It's natural. No, that's what he's saying, it's a ื ืก ืืืืืฉ ืืืืข. According to this, it's fighting the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ's The ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ's channel. There were some people who didn't hold of going to doctors. They said, you're not allowed to, because if the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ made you sick, let the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ cure you. ืกืื ื. No, it says ืชืืจื ื ืชื ื ืจืฉืืช ืืจืืคื ืืจืคืืืช. The ืชืืจื gave permission. Okay, so it's a special Why did the ืชืืจื have to give permission? What do you need permission for? ืชืืจื gave you It says, ืชืืจื give permission to eat? ืชืืจื gave permission to a doctor, why? Because otherwise, if not for the permission, a doctor wouldn't be allowed to heal. A person not allowed to go to a doctor. Why? Because no, because it's like going against the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ. The ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ made a person sick, so the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ, if He wants He can, if not, you're mixing into the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ's ืืขืฉืขืคื. Nevertheless, that's what the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ It's ืขื ืืจื like someone would say, you have a You have ืืืืื, why should you go to work? ืื ื ืคืฉื, the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ wants to give you, He'll give you without working. If He doesn't want to give you, you could work from today till tomorrow, you won't get it anyway, so what's the purpose? ืืื ืืื, the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ said in ืชืืจื: ืืืจืื ืืณ ืืืงืื ืืื ืืฉืจ ืชืขืฉื. The ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ wants you to do, and if you do, I'm going to put in the ืืจืื. So the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ wants a ืืจื ืืืืข, it's the same thing here. So ืืืืช it's from the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ, but the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ puts in ืืจื ืืืืข. It's a ื ืก, too. ืคืจื ืกื is a ื ืก. Well, it's also a ื ืก. I'm saying it's all a ื ืก that the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ put in the ืืืข, but really it's a ื ืก. Yeah, you make a ืืื, you know. The ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ wants you to make a ืืื, that's what it is. So, and the same thing, a doctor. I always tell the story ืจื ืืขืงื ืงืืื ืฆืงื told me. I always tell this when we start, yeah. He told me that once in ืจืืืื, he was the ืจื of ืจืืืื. In ืจืืืื there was a man, a very, a ืคืจืืืขืจ guy that wouldn't go to doctors for this reason, he claimed he's connected to the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ. Once he got very sick, and his family didn't know what to do, they wanted to take him to the doctor, he wouldn't go ืืฉืื ืืืคื. So, they came running to the ืืคืฅ ืืืื. \"What do we do?\" The ืืคืฅ ืืืื said, \"ืืื ืืขื ืืฉืืืขื ืขื, ืื ืืื ืืื ืืขืืืื ืขืจ ืืื ืืืื ืฆืื ืืืงืืขืจ.\" \"Tell the ืืฉืืืขื ืขื that I said he should go to the doctor.\" And he tells me, ืจื ืืขืงื ืงืืื ืฆืงื tells me, imagine, the ืืคืฅ ืืืื, his main thing was being careful of what he says, words, ืฉืืืจืช ืืืฉืื, and he should use on a guy \"ืืื ืืขื ืืฉืืืขื ืขื,\" because he wanted to tell him how strong he holds that this guy is not doing the right thing. Because you do have they have to do everything ืืืจื ืืืืข. As like ืื ื ืื, ืืืฉืื, ืืขืืจืื, they they were they were saved more because of their ืืืื ื, no? Isn't it? Yeah, but it was a ื ืก. They relied on ืืฉื in order that they should survive. They went in with At the end of the day, there was a ื ืก. A fire not, being in fire, not to burn, is a ื ืก. Same thing by ืืืื, you also you have to have ืืืื ื. The ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ states so. Yeah, but he says, but that's also a ื ืก, it was a bigger ื ืก. Now possibly here it means if a person gets cured without taking medicine. I'm just thinking. If you take medicine, ืืืงืข like you say, it's ืืจื ืืืืข, hidden, ื ืก in it. Despite that, but if you It hides that there is a ื ืก, medicine. Yeah, it hides it, but it's like like making money, like working is also a ื ืก. It hides, it covers up. The ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ wants it to be like that. But if a guy gets sick, and then he gets cured by himself, maybe that, I don't know. Or maybe it means through the medicine. Okay. So, ืจื ืืืืกื ืืจื said in the name of ืจื ืืืื ืืจ ืืื in the name of ืจืื ืืืืฉืข ืื ืืื, he said, ืืืื ืฉืืืืข ืงืืฆื ืฉื ืืื, as soon as the time of the end of a person comes, ืืื ืืืฉืืื ืื, everybody rules over him. In other words, the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ, if the day for him to die comes, it could happen through anything. It could happen through a rocket, it could happen through a car, it could happen through this, it could happen through anything. ืฉื ืืืจ, and it says, ืืืื ืื ืืืฆืื ืืืจืื ื. Anybody who will find me could kill me. And the ืืืจื even tell and tells soon a story. ืจื ืืืจ, ืจื says, ืืืื, a different ืคืกืืง it says: ืืืฉืคืืื ืขืืื ืืืื ืื ืืื ืขืืืื. Everyone is your ืขืืืื. So, it could happen through a mouse and it could happen through an animal, it could happen through a Everything is only an ืขืื of the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ. And and that so if the day comes, it could be from a small thing. ืืืจื ืืืจื ืืื ืืจืื ืืจ ืฉืืื, they said to ืจืื ืืจ ืฉืืื, interesting thing, ืฉืืื ืืืื ืืืจื ืืืื, this tall man, I guess a tall strong guy, died. How did he die? ืจืืื ืืืื ืืืชื ืืืืจืชื ืืื ืืืืจืื, a little scorpion got onto the back of a frog and crossed the river. Now a scorpion can't cross the river. So, got onto the back of a frog, crossed the river, ืืืืขืชื, and got crazy, the the frog got crazy, ืฉืืืื, ืฉืืืื ืืืื, no, not not the the person, the person who was this great guy jumped into the water, and came this scorpion and killed him. So the scorpion crossed the river in order to kill the guy. The scorpion didn't have ืฉืื, but the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ made it. So how did he die? Just, in other words, what he's trying to say, when the time comes, it could happen in any way. The ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ makes things and ืกืืื ืขื ืกืืื, it makes it could be in such a funny way. ืงืจื ืื ืคืฉืื, then he said, ืืืฉืคืืื ืขืืื ืืืื ืืืืืจ ืื ืืื ืขืืืื, that here we see that everybody's your ืขืื, it could be anybody, could be scorpion, could be a frog should be the cause of the person's death, anything. No, I this story is the second story. This story is a different story. The story is the guy was riding, no, the guy was riding a a donkey or a mule, and the mule got crazy. I was wondering what's crazy. The mule got crazy and threw him into the water, and the guy drowned. The next story is ืฉืืืื ืืื, ืฉืืืื saw ืืืื ืขืงืจืื, there was this scorpion, ืืืชืืื ืขื ืืงืจืืงืชื, that sat on a frog, ืืขืืจื ื ืืจื, cuz I was wondering, it didn't say the the river there, ืขืืจื ื ืืจื, and it crossed the river, ืืจืงืื ืืืจื, bit a person, ืืืืช, the guy died. So, here a scorpion just specially crossed the river to go to the guy, bite the guy, and he died. ืงืจื ืขืืื ืืืฉืคืืื ืขืืื ืืืื, so on him he called this ืคืกืืง, he referred to this ืคืกืืง, ืืืฉืคืืื ืขืืื ืืืื. ืืืฉืคืืื, to Your judgment is they're standing, ืื ืืื ืขืืืื, every animal, everything in the world is there, ready, standing to Your judgment. And it's ready, like you say, \"I'm ready to do your job.\" ืื ืืื ืขืืืื, they're all called ืขืืืื of ืืฉื. If the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ wants, he could make this happen, make this happen, so that's why he said the day that comes, ืืื ืืืฉืืื Yeah, ืฉืืืืื, they're all, exactly, they are ืฉืืืืื of ืืืื ืืืืช. But they could have a different face, a different ืฆืืืจ. Like you said, they could look like a car, they look like a train, look like a plane, look like a person, look like a, and, oh, if the if the ืืืืืขืจืฉืืขืจ wants, there's there's there's different ืฆืืืจืื. ืืืื ืื ืืืจื ืืืืืืขืจ. You shouldn't make it to ืคืจืง ืฉืฉื, right? No, I doubt it. Not me. Okay, let's. ืืืจ ืฉืืืื, ืฉืืืื said, ืืื ืืืงืจืื ืืื ืืื ืฉืืืืฆื ืกืืื. You should only be ืืืงืจ ืืืื somebody who has fever, has heat. For ืืืคืืงื ืืื? What do you mean only, and what not? I mean, what do you mean not? ืืืคืืงื ืื ืืชื ืื, it goes against what ืชื ืื says, ืจืื ืืืกื ืื ืคืจืื, ืชื ืื ืืืืจ ืจืื ืืืกื ืื ืคืจืื ืืืืจ ืืฉืื ืจืื ืืืขืืจ: ืืื ืืืงืจืื, you shouldn't visit, ืื ืืืื ืืขืืื, not somebody sick in the
stomach, ืืื ืืืื ืืขืื, not someone who's sick with the eye, ืืื ืื ืฉืืืฉืฉ ืืจืืฉ, not someone has headaches, problems with his head. ืคืจืขืื ืื ืืืจื ืืืื: ืืฉืืื ืืืื ืืขืืื, ืืืื the guy is stomach problems, why shouldn't you visit him? ืืฉืื ืืืกืืคื. Cause embarrassing, sometimes in middle, you know, if he has problem with the stomach, have to go out, have to this, and you know, it's it's embarrassing, so don't go. ืืื ืืืื ืืขืื ืืื ืฉืืืฉืฉ ืืจืืฉ, ืืื ืืขืื? The guy is sick with his eye, is sick with his head, what's the problem? What's the reason? So ืื ืืืจื answers, ืืฉืื ืืจื ืืืืื, because of something ืจื ืืืืื said. ืืืืจ ืจื ืืืืื, ืจื ืืืืื said, ืืืืืจื, talking, ืงืฉื ืืขืื ื, is no good for the eyes, ืืืขืื ืืืืฉืชื, and is good for fever. If a guy has fever, it's good for him to talk. I mean, I don't know what medical reason for this is, but it's no good for the eyes, and ืจืฉืดื says and it's also no good for the head, because the eyes and the head have a connection. I mean, when there's a sickness, they're connected. For fever, you said it's good? Huh? For fever, it's good. It's good to talk. So that's why he said you should only visit a person who has fever. When you visit and you talk to him, it's going to help. But don't visit a guy who has a stomach, that's a different problem, but on eye and the head. A
ืืื says when you visit you should stay not too long. ืืืื ืฉืืืขืจ used to have a ืืืืจื. He said, ืืขืืข ืืืงืจ ืืืื ื ืืฉื. You know what a ืืืงืจ is? Hebrews? No, because you have one track. It's an expression. It's called a ืืืงืจ. ื ืืืงืจ ืืื ื ืืฉื ืืื. ืก'ืืื ืื ืืืื ืืืงืจ ืืืืก ืืื ืืื. One ืืืงืจ. It's a ืคืกืืง: ืืืงืจ ืจืืื ืืืืช ืจืขื. ืืืงืจ ืจืืื means keep your feet away from your friend. Don't visit too much. Don't bother him. No, don't come. Some people are ื ืืื ืืงืก and they come. So that says, but the ืืฉืื of the ืคืกืืง is: ืืืงืจ ืจืืื ืืืืช ืจืขื. Says all ืืืงืจs are no good, but this ืืืงืจ is good. And especially the ืืืจื brings it some place ื ืืืข visiting the sick. Is that ืืืงืจ? That don't go to Come and stay a little bit, and don't stay too long. ืืฉืื ืจืฉืดื I think is not to be ืืืืื, not to make it hard for the sick, for the for the patient. But it says clearly, don't don't bother him too much, you know. People think you come this, if you come and visit, it's a ืืฆืื, but you've got to have ืฉืื what to do. Does it say in the ืืืจื when you visit somebody that they they can't kick you out or something, or you you have to leave, you know? What? Says something about like when you visit someone if they ask you to leave, you don't have to or something? No, it says ืืืื. I'm not talking It says:
ืื ืื ืฉืืืืจ ืื ืืขื ืืืืช ืขืฉื, ืืืฅ ืืฆื. Oh, yeah. Whatever your If you go to a house, whatever he tells you to do, the ืืขื ืืืืช, you have to do, except when he tells you to go out. That you don't have to listen. So there's a ืืืืจื I think from the ืงืืฆืงืขืจ. So the ืงืืฆืงืขืจ says that you don't have to wait for him to tell you. I think the ืงืืฆืงืขืจ said that. No, that's not ืคืฉืื ืคืฉื. ืคืฉืื ืคืฉื is you don't have to listen, can't kick you out of the house. But he said, whatever he tells you, do, except going out, don't wait for him to tell you. Yeah. In some place it says, ืื ืื ืฉืืืืจ ืื ืืขื ืืืืช ืขืฉื, and wherever the ืชืืจื says: ืื ืื ืฉืืืืจ ืื ืขืฉื, ืขื ืืืกืืจืืช ื ืคืฉ. You should go up to ืืกืืจืืช ื ืคืฉ. To to listen to the ืืขื ืืืืช whatever he tells you to do. So in the ืืงืืื to the ืืืืืช ืืืจืดื in ืฉืืืื ืขืจืื, they write that the children of the ืืจืดื write the ืืขืืืช of their father, of the ืืจืดื. So they tell a story of him over there, I don't know why it's such a big story, that he came to someone's house, anyway, ืฉืืช, and he gave him food, and he finished, and he gave him some more, and he said, \"Please eat more.\" So he ate more. And he said, \"Please eat.\" When he saw he finished, so he was, and he couldn't eat anymore, so he went out, I think, and he vomited, and came back, and able to eat more. So they asked him, \"Why'd you do that?\" Says, \"Because the ืืืจื says: ืื ืื ืฉืืืืจ ืื ืืขื ืืืืช ืขืฉื, whatever he tells you, you have to do. And wherever the ืืืจื says: ืื ืื ืฉืืขื ืืืืช ืืืืจ ืื ืขืฉื, ืขื ืืกืืจืืช ื ืคืฉ.\" So he went with ืืกืืจืืช ื ืคืฉ to listen to the ืืขื ืืืืช. ืืื ืืื ืืื.