Why Every Physical Act Can Become Holy
Why Every Physical Act Can Become Holy
Part of Sukkot
Continues the theme of elevating the everyday into the sacred during Sukkos, through the lens of the Alter Rebbe's own path of learning from the Maggid, and the practical meaning of loving your neighbor.
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15 months. And you know how much Torah the Alter Rebbe took from the Mezritcher Maggid? The Alter Rebbe once said that all the Torah he said, and he said thousands of ma'amarim and different things, he says, \"All taken from his, from his Rebbe the Maggid.\" And he says that, and even in that, that is only, he says, what he heard by shalosh seudos. And in them gufa, 讛讗讘 讗讬讱 驻注拽 讗祝 驻注拽, I have still packages upon packages. From the first two meals, I didn't even start. You can imagine what he was able to absorb in this short time. The same thing with Rabbi' Chaim Vital. So what we have from, written by Rabbi' Chaim Vital from the Arizal is is nothing. For, just to tell of of what the Arizal was manage managed to to be masig, to understand. Once Rabbi' Chaim Vital came in 砖讘转 驻专砖转 讘讗 to the Arizal. And he saw the Arizal laying on the bed or on the couch, sleeping. Shabbos afternoon, he took a nap. Wasn't a regular nap, you'll see. And Rabbi' Chaim Vital walked in, he heard him mumbling something. So he bent down to hear. He was mumbling words that sounded words of Kabbalah. After he woke up, he slept about an hour, he woke up, he says, \"What were you mumbling there?\" So he says, \"When I, my, when I was sleeping, it says neshamah goes up 诇诪注诇讛, so my neshamah understood different under- concepts in Kabbalah, different spiritual things that are going on in the higher worlds.\" So he says, \"Can you reveal them to me?\" So he says, \"It would take me between 70 and 80 years to tell you what I saw in this one hour.\" Now how is it? So it
says, depends how you learn. If you learn by hearing, goes very slow. If you learn by seeing, if you learn 讘讘讞讬谞转 专讗讬讛, then thing goes much go much faster. For instance, if I want to describe, I give a look at this wall, now I want to describe what I saw, now I want to describe every detail, it could take me an hour. I'll start telling you the top was white, and per se it was this, and it had this line and that thing, I could describe and go on and on, and by the time you're finished, could take an hour, could take more than an hour just to describe the details of this one wall. And to see it, with one glance. So when he slept, he saw in the form of 专讗讬讛, he saw what was going on 诇诪注诇讛, and that's the level of the Arizal. So he saw things which they did not see in the time of the 讘讬转 讛诪拽讚砖. Why? So the explanation here is because now- nowadays is the level of machshavah, the higher level, which therefore it's harder to see it, but those people who do see it, they see even higher. And the Arizal saw in the form, learned in the form of seeing, because it says the Arizal, in truth, had the time of Mashiach been, he would have been Mashiach. There's no question about that, the Arizal would have been Mashiach, it says. Actually, the fact that the Arizal started revealing the inner part of Torah is the beginning, it says, of the revelation of Mashiach.
When Mashiach will come, it says that the the learning of Torah will be in the form of seeing, not of hearing. 'Cause Chassidut asks the question, we know Mashiach is going to be the teacher of Klal Yisrael. How's that possible Mashiach to teach millions and millions and actually probably billions of people? Imagine, all the Yidden, and 转讞讬转 讛诪转讬诐, all the Yidden from all the generations will get up, and one person will teach them all. So it says he's going to teach them in the form of 专讗讬讛. I guess we're going to look at a screen, I don't know, we'll see. Yeah, something like that. So since it'll be in the form of 专讗讬讛, we'll be able to, you know, we can have millions, millions of people see the same thing. But the Arizal because he was the beginning of this sparks, it says, of Mashiach, so he already learned in 讘讞讬谞转 专讗讬讛. But the level he saw was higher even than them because it came from the level of 诪讞砖讘讛. Now as much as that we I'll finish the same way I finish every week, as much as we're learning here about how good it is in time of 讙诇讜转, and it's really 专讞诪讬诐 专讘讬诐, it's great 专讞诪讬诐, and the revelation of 诪讞砖讘讛 and not of 讚讬讘讜专, all the things, we tell Hashem, \"Please, enough. We had enough of this great revelation. Now let's get to the real revelation, the revelation of Mashiach.\" Amen. The
drink we drink is godly. All of the physical aspects of our life are have God within them, and it is up to us to use them in a godly manner. So if a Jewish woman gets dressed nice, she's using that in a godly manner. She's looking attractive for her husband. If a Jewish man or a woman makes a blessing over the food they eat, then that food is godly and holy. So I sit in a sukkah, taking all of the physical aspects of my life that I do in my own home, and I'm doing them right here, and it's a mitzvah, everything I do. I'm sitting in the right now our sitting in the sukkah is a mitzvah, enhanced more so because now We're studying Torah in a sukkah. But it's not only Torah that we do in a sukkah. We do everything here. Of course, nothing of a desecrating nature, that we go outside of a sukkah for. But I mean everything that can be relegated to the realm of holy, such as eating, sleeping, drinking, celebrating, we do in a sukkah and we should do as many physical acts in the sukkah as we possibly can. So the
message of sukkah, Sukkot is number one, loving our fellow man as we love ourselves. We all come from the same source of Adam, of Adam Harishon. And number two, we take physical and we elevate physical to spiritual. We do not destroy the physical. We elevate the physical. Now many people cannot understand this concept. They think that there's physical and there's spiritual, and the two have nothing to do with each other. And that's why in Chassidism or in in in general, in the amongst Chassidim, people did not fast and they did not inflict pain on their own body, whereas other Jews did. And the reason they they did it is again, they wanted to deaden and destroy the body so that the soul should flourish. You know, they say if one if one organ if our hearing is weak, then it's compensated with our eyesight. A person has bad eyesight, it's compensated with his hearing is more attuned, is much finer. And so many people think that if they're going to destroy the spiritual, they'll fast, they're not going to eat they're they're not going to eat, they're not going to drink, they're going to go away from home, they're going to deaden all their physical desires, they'll be a more spiritual person.
Chassidism teaches on the contrary, take all the physical acts that we do every single day and elevate them to spiritual because they are Godly. And that was a unique concept that was taught by the Baal Shem Tov, and then by the Maggid of Mezeritch, and then by the Alter Rebbe, who was the founder of the Chasidic movement, that was the third level that he brought out, this great philosophy of taking physical, which is Godly, and elevating it, not destroying physical, but using it. And that is why you'll find many people that disagree with the Chasidic way. They say, look at those Chassidim, they're dancing with abandon. They don't understand that they're not dancing with abandon. The dancing is elevating the the their feet and their bodies to a higher spiritual thing. Why? Because it's bringing joy into your life. And we know that when we have joy in our life, we can do everything better. When a person is b'simchah, he eats better, he sleeps better, he daven(s) better. He serves God better. If we're depressed, we lay in bed, we don't want to daven, we don't want to do anything, we don't want to see anybody. So that whole concept that the Chasidism Chasidic philosophy tries to stress is take the physical, which is Godly, and elevate it to the greatest spiritual heights. No, then there are different types of Chassidim. Within the That's why I said the Alter Rebbe taught that concept, that the physical should be brought to spiritual. Now, I want to just bring, there was a There's a lot here, but I'm I'm having a hard time trying to get it out. But there's one concept that I must relate because it's such a beautiful idea. We
talked about the importance of loving our fellow man as we love ourselves. Now that, if I say to you, love your fellow man as you love yourself, I mean, we can say it, but how are we going to do it? Emotionally, I cannot do it emotionally. On an emotional level, for a Jew to say I love you like I love myself takes a very great tzaddik. But we can do it on a certain level. On a practical physical level, we can do it. Let's talk about the idea of self-love. What is self-love comprised of? Two main aspects: quality and quantity. I love myself so much that I'm going to go out of my way to do something for me, because I love myself. So nothing's too hard. I mean, if I want it badly enough, I'm going to go and get it, because I mean I want it. So if I have to drive miles to get it, if I want it and I want to satisfy that inner urge inside of me, I will nothing will be too hard or to or or too difficult or too tedious for me to attain that goal that I want. That's one aspect of self-love. Another aspect of self-love is I don't see my own faults. If I do something wrong, I don't even notice that I did it wrong. I don't notice this. And if somebody points it out to me and says to me, \"You know, you did something that was not right,\" what I will do then is I will not see it as a fault, but I'll rationalize it away. It's my father's fault, it's my mother's fault, it's my uncle's fault, it's my brother's fault, it's everybody's fault, but it's not my I didn't do anything wrong, I can't be blamed for it, because I love myself so much. There's so much self-love that, A, I cannot see any fault, but if the fault is pointed out, I I have to get rid of it quickly. So I try to put it off on somebody else. And so we are told in the Chassidic philosophy that how can we love another person practically, not emotionally emotionally it's very hard, but practically, physically how? By practicing my self-love on him. So for example, if I want to do something for me, and then and I'll go I'll go 10 miles to do this thing for me, and then somebody asks me to do them a favor, what I should do is say, \"If it were me that wanted it, I'd go the 10 miles.\" So even up here and in my heart and emotionally, I don't love him as much. I don't. But what I'll do is I'll drive the 10 miles to do it for him because I would have done it for me. So that's one way I can do self-love. And that's not so hard. That's not so hard, because I don't have to love you so much. I just have to do for you what I would do for me. So practically, it's doable. I mean, it takes a lot of work, but it's doable. Then the
second aspect of self-love is I don't see any faults in myself, and even if I do see a fault in myself, I will minimize it as much as possible, and I'll rationalize as much as possible. So if somebody else does something that's wrong, I should look at that person and and not see it, just as I wouldn't see it if I did it, I shouldn't see it. And if I see it already, farfalen, it's too late, I saw this person do something that's not right, what I should say is, \"Oh, they didn't mean to, it's not their fault, it's this one's fault, it's that one's fault,\" try to minimize the negativity that I see just as I would minimize it for myself. So if That's That's right. Rationalize their negative act just as you rationalize your own negative act, and we know that we do that all the time. And if we can do that, we will love them practically as we love ourselves, may not emotionally, but practically. So if we see our child do something wrong, what do we say? \"Listen, it's not so terrible, I mean, after all.\" The teacher calls you up, \"Your daughter or your son did this and this thing.\" So you start to rationalize and you find all kinds of excuses. But then you hear that your neighbor's child did the same thing, you'll say, \"Kick that kid out of class! He's ruining the whole class!\" The teacher says, \"Your child did it yesterday.\" \"My child did it yesterday? You know why? 'Cause this kid made him do it!\" So if what we will do is every time that we or our immediate family or those people that we really love emotionally, we should look at others as we look at ourselves, and then practically we'll be able to love every Jew, even if we won't be able to love them emotionally. And that's doable for everybody. It takes a lot of hard work, it takes a lot of practice, but try it like this: somebody did something that was really nasty, they did something ugly and nasty, and you cannot say they didn't do it. They did it! The proof is that they did it. Take that act and say, \"What would I say to myself if I did it?\" I would try to rationalize why I did this horrible act. Take that same rationalization and transfer it to the other individual. In Hebrew it's called 讛讜讬 讚谉 讗转 讻诇 讛讗讚诐 诇讻祝 讝讻讜转. Judge every person in the lenient manner, rationalize his actions. And this
brings to mind a beautiful story with a great rabbi by the name of Rabbi Levi Yitzchak of Berditchev, who always, whenever a Jew would do something wrong, he loved the Jews very much, and he always would rationalize their acts. One day, there was a young man sitting in the synagogue. He looks out the window and he sees there's a man standing outside with a tallit and tefillin, and he's changing the tire on his car, and he's all greased up, disgusting. So he says to himself, \"What a horrible person this is! How dare he grease the car while and he's wearing tallit and tefillin. He's desecrating the mitzvah. As he is thinking these thoughts, along passes this great rabbi, Rabbi Levi Yitzchak of Berditchev. And this young boy runs outside and he says to the rabbi, \"Rabbi, take a look at what he's doing, so horrible.\" And the rabbi looks up to God and he says, \"God Almighty, look at what beautiful children you have. Even when they're greasing their tires, they're praying to you. Even when they're doing the most mundane physical act, they're praying to you.\" It's how you look at it. There's the optimist and there's the pessimist. The cup is half full or the cup is half empty. Or two people are traveling on a plane together. One of them is thinking about the great vacation he's going to have, and he's all excited about it, and he can't wait, it's going to land soon, and he has his family with him, and he's so excited about how he's going to relax, and what he's going to do, and how he's going to spend his time. And the other one is also going on a vacation, but he's sitting there and he's biting his nails, and he's a nervous wreck. The plane might crash, we may never get there, the weather might be lousy. He cannot enjoy any part of himself. There's the optimist, there's the pessimist. There's the one that looks at life with an outlook of sunshine, positive, and the other one is doom and negativity. If we want to practically love our fellow Jew, let us practice self-love that we know what it's all about on other people, and that is doable. It's not easy, but it's one of the greatest mitzvot that we have in the Torah. The whole foundation of Judaism stands on it. You know, sometimes somebody will come to me and tell me a story about someone. So I'll I'll go ahead and I'll find something positive about it. So, a person will say, \"Don't do that. Don't rationalize for them.\" So, I say to myself, maybe deep down inside all the way in I know that what the person did was wrong, but I'd rather say to myself and I'd rather try to feel, well, maybe it wasn't really their fault, maybe such and such happened, maybe the circumstances happened. It's not easy, but what we're told is continually practice to do it. Let me explain my my my my last line here. To turn over like that and every time somebody does something that's negative to say, \"Well, they didn't really mean it, not their fault, circumstances were this, circumstances were that,\" right off the bat, that is one of the most difficult things to do, because they hurt you, or you see this person is constantly doing these negative things. So you you do it once and you say, \"Well, all right, you know, listen. It wasn't It wasn't nice. It was wrong, but maybe, maybe this, maybe that, the same as I would do it for me.\" Every single time you start practicing as you leave this room. Every time you'll hear somebody did something wrong to you or to somebody else, try to find excuses for that person. And you'll keep doing it, you will get into the habit of doing it, you'll always do it. And then when you'll meet that person that you always hated, you won't hate them so much because you will have rationalized so many times for them in your brain, then when you see them now, that anger will have lessened and dissipated a little bit until eventually it'll be totally gone. And the benefit to us is that all that wasted energy that we use up with negative feelings and negative thoughts, we'll be able to use for the positive. And I want to tell you something: I do it very often, and it really works. Somebody said to, \"Do you hate anybody?\" I mean, I've been doing this for a long time, so I could say I really don't hate anybody. But this person would this person did such a horrible thing to you. How could you like them? So, I'll say, \"You know something? Maybe they did a bad thing, but you know,\" I'll give you an example. Just recently, somebody said something to me that hurt me. Whatever. It hurt me, it bothered me, I was upset, and it was a one-on-one confrontation, and I felt really badly as a result of this experience. And I had gone to this person's house. And I went there for a specific purpose. When I left, this person had told me some things about her own youth. And I listened to this person's story of her own youth, and I said to myself, \"No matter what she ever says to me, no matter what she ever does, I forgive her a million times. It's a miracle that she is the way she is. She had no love at home when she was a child growing up, none whatsoever. She felt rejected and dejected from the day she can recall until she was an adult. She doesn't even know how to be nice. Is it her fault? She never saw anybody around her expressing that.\" For her to be nice is harder than for a nice person to be mean. Do you understand? So as when I start when I listen to what she was saying to me, I said to myself, 讙讗讟 讗讬谉 讛讬诪诇, I'm gonna be angry at her? How could I be? She doesn't know how to be nice. It's a rachmanut on her. So I made up my mind, I'm gonna be so nice to her. Every day I'll try to be as nice to her as I possibly can. Maybe some of it will rub off. Some say, \"But you that's that's being a hypocrite. I don't even feel like being nice to her.\" Be nice to her, she needs help! So if you start to look at everybody that way, you can never be angry at anybody. So you can try to correct the person Yes. You can tell You can try to correct that person, and Explain to him, but maybe you can tell him, \"Look, maybe what you did was wrong.\" Good! And explain to him, maybe what you did was wrong, maybe what you did was not so nice. But sometimes the person will reject what you're saying, the person is not interested in what you're saying. So you try again, so you try again, and again, and again, and may rebel, the person may not receive you right away. The person may continue to do the same things. But if you keep pounding away the nice things, it will change. There is no question. I have an experience with a girl, and you all know who she is. She had a lot of problems with somebody in her family, and the other day she came and told me a beautiful thing. Her mother-in-law called her up on the phone and gave her compliments. She she she was like on in the seventh heaven, she couldn't believe it. Her mother-in-law, who never had a smile for her, who never had a nice thing to say, all of a sudden, out of the
clear blue, the mother-in-law called her up and said something nice. We don't have to be concerned so much with they how they are. What we should do is practice self-love on everybody we meet, because practically it's doable. Emotionally, that's on the level of a tzaddik, but on practical physical level, we can all do it, every single one of us can do it. Let's start practicing, and then we'll really be doing the mitzvah of what Sukkos represents, which is love of a fellow man. Thank you very much. Can you take one question? Now? Here. And here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. And here. Not here. Here. Not here. And here. Not here. Not here. Here. And here. Not here. [Non-speech audio] [Non-speech audio] [Non-speech audio] You
have spoken in front of so many people, and look how many people you have transformed, and look what you've done with your life.\" And he said, \"I'll tell you the truth: if I have any zechut when I go up to heaven, it won't be from the crowds of thousands of people that I spoke to.\" He said, \"I'll tell you what happened: when I was young, I went into a town and there was a shul there, and I came to give a drasha, and two people showed up. It was a stormy night, two people were sitting in the shul. And I was young and I felt embarrassed, and I didn't want to speak to two people. So one of the people walked up to me and he said to me, he called me by my name, he said, 'Yankel, you came here to speak to people or did you come here to speak lichvod Hashem?' He said, 'If you came to speak lichvod Hashem, Hashem is here. So speak.' And he said, 'I stood there and I gave a full drasha to two people.' And he says, 'When I go up to heaven and they ask me, did you do it lichvod shamayim or did you do it for yourself?' He says, 'All the times I spoke to thousands of people, that was for my own ego, that was for myself. The only time I spoke lichvod shamayim was when I gave a drasha to two people.'\" A
person's true power, a person's true essence is not defined by how many people are clapping for them. It's not defined by numbers. It's defined by how real you are when nobody's watching, how real you are to the small, mundane things in your life. That is who you are. And if we can just bring that into our everyday life, into our marriage, into our kids, into our work...